You guys are getting it and I am so greatful, I have one of the biggest smiles on my face right now.  YOU see emotions are a funny thing, and so are social situations, they can change from day to day moment to moment, person to person, situation to situation.  Some of them can be hard to deal with and hard to understand, but most of us do get through them.  It doesn't mean that a person doesn't have any needs or issues, what it means is that people do, but they are individuals too and those things can be different over time and for different people.  I really want to say thank you all for getting it finally.  It has been a long hard time fighting even to get the media to allow it in the news.  I don't have to take the credit, but I do have to continue to do the work that I do.