Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

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4foxfire — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:53:32 GMT

Amen, sister. I am almost 67 and I AM CRAZY NUTS over this guy!

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4foxfire — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:54:39 GMT

Amen, sister. I am almost 67 and I AM CRAZY NUTS over this guy!

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kazzy — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 20:56:47 GMT

Ok, Sarah. I could have written this article word for word. And you won't be alone at the American Idol tour; I'm taking my 12 year old as "cover", otherwise I would have gone myself and would have been another 48 year old in the audience with an amazing crush on Adam. I was laughing so hard when I read your article, because that is me. And my husband and older teenage sons think I'm a nut. Let's put it this way, my older son was in the city and I called him twice to make sure he picked up several copies of Adam on Rolling Stone. I am just happy to know that I am not alone, and that millions around the world are similarly obsessed. I just hope Adam keeps feeding my addiction!

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stephienam — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:00:37 GMT

Amen, sister! I am 47 and I should go to rehab as I am so addicted to Adam. Help!!

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pgeorge — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:02:09 GMT

The explanation is still a little lacking, because it doesn't explain the appeal of Adam for someone like me, who absolutely disdained rock music as a teenager and still prefers opera, classical and folk. However, I love everything Adam does, rock included. Rock to me was populated by unpleasant men who weren't "dangerous" to me because I honestly didn't want to know them or feel I would have anything to say to them, and I've never yet been attracted to a man I couldn't have a conversation with. Adam is articulate and decent as well as gorgeous and talented. I wouldn't have enjoyed "Whole Lotta Love" nearly as much if the decency hadn't already been in evidence - as a performance, it's wonderful, but not as a lifestyle!

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Mag4 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:03:14 GMT

You NAILED it! I have been obsessed with this 'kid' and don't understand why! I NEVER blogged or bought anything on iTunes or sat in front of the TV on Tuesday/Wed nights until along came ADAM...This article is SPOT ON and THANK YOU for finally explaining, at least to a degree, why me and so many of my "40-something" friends are gaga over him....*phew* At least I know now that I'm normal....though my 20-something children would disagree....LOL THANK YOU for writing this article and THANKS TO ADAM FOR JUST BEING ADAM! :)

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javajive — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:06:18 GMT

Thank you...were you just digging around in my mind lately???? Feel much better knowing I'm not a lone..and that this is healthy!!! 47 years...mother of 8 year old.

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maylin — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:09:39 GMT

I, too, am in my 40's & is a certified Glambert. I don't care about him being gay, I just admire his talent & everything else that's likeable about him: his wit, eloquence, intelligence...his playful & funny disposition, graciousness, politeness...not to mention his style & his great looks! He is interesting to watch...not only when he sings...but also when he speaks. I have a self-confessed addiction to Adam Lambert & I even want to know why. I get my daily fix of watching videos of him & reading articles about him, now that I am undergoing severe withdrawal symptoms from watching him on AI. Like you, I did not watch the show religiously. Like many, I daresay that there has never ever been anyone like him on any Idols show or spin-off of the series worldwide. I am in total owe of Adam Lambert & I will support him as he starts his singing career. He has what it takes to be the next big international singing sensation---he's got it all!

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didomusette — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:10:50 GMT

You said it! I thought there was something wrong with me, at 39, with three children, wanting to watch this guy every night! Two nights just wasn't enough for me!!! He got my heart pounding and I can't wait for the Tour!!

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maylin — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:13:12 GMT

Thanks for helping me dissect why I'm crazy about Adam Lambert!:-)

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G932 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:14:22 GMT

TRUST me when I tell you that you wont be the only woman in her 40's at the idol show!!! It's still a month or so away and I am going MAD waiting for it!! what in the world will I do when Adam tours ALONE?!?!?!

as for your article? you NAILED IT!! I am 48 and this man has totally turned my life upside down and I am LOVING IT!! He's so genuine and HONEST! on top of all of the obvious. I absolutely ADORE him! Being a Glambert totally ROCKS!!!

SHINE ON, ADAM, SINE ON!!!!!

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carrmuse2 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:16:48 GMT

My Adam addiction has taken over. I teach school 9 months out of the years so I had time constraints on how much attention I could give Adam Lambert. But, with summer here I spend probably 6 to 8 hours every day surfing the web and blogging like crazy for anything concerning Adam Lambert. I think you hit it when said he is fearless and that is so attractive. My husband thinks I'm going through a midlife crisis (at 57?)

I even have a Lambert haircut now. Sounds a little whacked, but I am having so much fun. Mr. Glambert has changed my attitudes and and made life a little more fun. Those risks I used to be afraid of are now an everyday part of my life. Loved your article. You nailed it. Love Adam Lambert.

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Entertainment11 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:18:20 GMT

Sarah,

I could not have described the way me and my girrlfiends feel about Adam Lambert and the whole Idol show better. As you we were mermerized each week taken in my this young mans performance. Waiting and wondered weather he would wear a suit or some cool belt with leather? We are cougars as well and will support Adam on his beautiful music journey. We cannot wait until Friday to purchase Rolling Stone. He is so completely sexy and talented its unbelievable. Good for Adam! Glad we found him! Very nice article. I am emailing it to my friends now.

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Lindaboy — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:18:43 GMT

Well Said!!! I too am 40 something and just a few short months ago my family and friends wished that I would discuss something..anything other than politics. Now I'm all about Adam Lambert!! I "google" him constantly, I've downloaded all of his songs and performances on i-tunes (My first I-Tunes account) and I almost pushed the send button for the American Idol tour tickets, but decided to wait for the solo tour instead. (Couldn't stand the thought of sitting through the other top 10 and wasn't sure if we'd be given enough Adam time.) I'm absolutely GA GA over this charismatic, absolutely talented, sex magnet! I read in a post once that women my age like Adam because he reminds us of the singers of the past, but it's not that. Women my age have enough life experience to be able to recognize true talent, sex appeal, and the making of a future icon.

This is my first post regarding any celebrity, my first I-tunes account, and on Friday I'll be purchasing my first ever issue of Rolling Stone Magazine.

I, along with many of your readers, will buy anything Adam and will be sitting in the front row of all his future concerts.

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layla1234 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:21:34 GMT

I am so addicted to Adam Lambert! He is just so gorgeous and talented. He really made me super interested in music again. The new Rolling Stone can't come soon enough!

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Patrice1 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:23:50 GMT

I am in my 40s, as well, and am a complete Glambert. I laughed when I read this article and realized I am not alone. Before, I was hiding this secret desire of mine, feeling guilty that I was red hot attracted to a boy old enough to be my son, and fascinated with his every move. Now I know I am completely normal! Thanks for the extremely well written, humorous, and insightful article. I rarely watched American Idol before Adam, certainly have never considered myself a groupie for ANYONE before, have never downloaded any Idol music (downloaded every one of Adam's) and would never be caught dead at an Idol Tour (I am a professional woman, after all). I'll be there. :)

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Midnight Whispers — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:24:53 GMT

Ohhhh I so agree with this writer's viewpoint. I was a lil rebel who didn't like the same kind of music that my friends did....KISS, Led Zeppelin, etc. until I moved out on my own and found friends who liked the same stuff. Adam has awakened that rebel inside of me and I've found that I like it1 LOL From the second I heard him sing, I fell in love with the guy. He's everything to make us females and males swoon when he sings the ballads and rock out when he's belting out the rock songs. He can be whoever he wishes to be. I'm hopelessly addicted to Adam and I don't want a cure for it. I couldn't tell you how much time I spend online just surfing the net for news of him. When I look at Adam, I see a loving caring compassionate guy who just wants to share his gift of singing to everyone. if anyone can't accept him for who he is, then pfffffft on them! Due to a conflict of schedules when the IDOL tour comes to my state, I won't be able to see Adam but hopefully when he goes out to promote his CD, I can go then. I can't even tell you how many times I have watched his videos on youtube either since I could sit here around the clock for 24/7. The guy is just awesome. Adam has given us so much and I just hope that everyone keeps supporting him cuz he deserves it. Rock on Adam!

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terrypixel — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:27:29 GMT

You really, really nailed it!!!! Love the article and Adam Lambert! I don't know how many times a day I check in with Google as I am working. I am a hip 59 year-old female who works in advertising. I'm buying what Adam's selling, 110%!!!!!!!!!

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racbec — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:31:42 GMT

What a relief! I'm so glad I'm not alone in this. My teenage daughter thinks I've lost it. I'm a 44- year-old professional living in "Middle America" and I've become obsessed with Adam Lambert. My life is so busy and I'm usually so focused on making things run smoothly--it has been an absolute treat being a fangirl again--I am definately channeling my inner 14 year old child. Adam is amazing. I think there is just something incredibly attractive about someone who is smart, talented, confident, sexy, grounded and comfortable in his own skin. I'll admit it--a friend and I are going to see the Tour. I couldn't pass up a chance to see him perform live!

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ATL-56 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:35:57 GMT

Sarah, you have done it again, another excellent article!

I am in the mid 50, 4 grown kids and an executive in a technology company. Day in day out, never watch any AI until this season (the first but will be the last). Never crazy much about any music of any kind or any body. Because of the accidental discovery of Adam-Lambert performance in the AI (ROF). Suddenly, I will take time off every day to google Adam, and youtube on Queen and trace back those "lost" music that I could have listen in the 70-80's

My secretary thinks I must have gone nut and she similes watching me writing this comment in my office and as to my normal activities at 5:00 p.m. everyday, signing paper.

I even brought "MAD WORLD" from iTUNE as gift to my husband via email! Do not know why, but I really do not care, I am enjoying every second that Adam Lambert brings me.

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hotmgd — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:36:17 GMT

YESSSSSSS!!!!! I am one of you guys...Every night before I go to bed, I google Adam Lambert and see what he is up to.....I am addicted to Adam Lambert. I live in UK and I cant wait to watch him in his concert soooon....I hope...I love you Adam.

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kazzy — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:37:51 GMT

Ditto that. These are the true signs of Adam Addiction: Googling him at every opportunity and registering with all kinds of sites that even post an article about him so you can post a comment defending and supporting him; downloading his video performances and either watching them on the computer or exercising while watching them; opening an itunes account or buying an iphone or other device to download his music so you can listen to them anywhere including the car; updating your family members on the latest Adam Lambert news, printing pictures of Adam to create a little photo album you keep hidden; pre-ordered his album when it comes out in the fall; ordered tickets to the Idol Tour when you wouldn't be caught dead doing it before; watched Idol religiously just to watch Adam on your tv, advising your family that any interruptions will face severe punishment; actually liking Simon Cowell because he always complemented Adam because he was so good; ordering items from Cafe Press such as Adam bumper stickers, mousepads, and posters (that are also hidden from family members), and -- oh yeah -- dreaming about Adam every night.

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museme — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:39:02 GMT

I'm 50 and I've spent so much time contemplating my obsession with Adam. It's definitely multi-faceted, but the end result is he makes me happy. I'm wanting to be fitter, sexier, cooler, and better dressed than I've been in years. Of course it's his talent, but like all great art, it's about the emotions he makes me feel. He makes me feel like there's still a chance for me to find my "real" self....to be creative, talented, and original again...I remember that self and I'm starting to remember how much I liked it. Call it a mid-life crisis if you want, but he's smokin'. I've never watched American Idol before this year, but I too was sucked in during a channel surf. Just last week I did something I never thought I would do: I bought tickets to the American Idol Summer Tour and I'm desparately awaiting his first album. Thanks, Adam, for making me feel like this again.

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Teri63 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:39:19 GMT

I'm 45 and will be at the Idol tour for the first time ever this summer; I watch every year but have never before felt the need to go. I'm taking my teenager along with me as a "cover," but we both know why I'm really going! I must Google Adam 20 times a day to see if there's any new news. It's kinda pathetic, but admittedly fun.

Thanks for the article. I seem to be the only Adam-crazy one in my group of friends. It was nice feeling like I was commiserating with someone!

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cellomama — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:41:21 GMT

I hear you!! I am a 36 year-old mom of two, and this guy has set me on fire like never before. I am a musician and a huge music fan, but I've never been as thrown as I have by Adam. I think he's a genius and destined for big-time-major-superstardom, and I'm more than willing to donate my lungs and wallet to the cause!! I am crazy about this kid.

For me, a big part of it is his combination of oozing sexuality and supreme confidence. Quite a thrilling combination, at a time of life when many of us are a bit more..um... routine? :-) He knocks my socks off!!! I <heart> Glambert!!!

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lambertlove — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:41:41 GMT

OMG, you could have been writing this article about me. Suddenly, I wasn't this educated, professional woman anymore....I was freakishly (and still am) obsessed with Adam Lambert and American Idol -the show I barely glanced at the last few years. I caught his audition, so I was hooked from the get go. And, *gulp* I am going see AI tour....just to see Adam.

Adam Lambert ....freaking rawks.

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mt_kimmie — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:41:49 GMT

Wow - this article is so accurate! I'm 46, married, have a grown son...& can't get enough of Adam. I just finished downloading his songs from the final show, started them playing and googled Adam. This article immediately caught my attention. And it's not just us 40-somethings that love him. My mom is 73 and she loves him, too. I'm making her a CD of his songs. She had me on YouTube earlier looking up video performances of Adam. (In fact, iTunes now has a recording of him singing 'Is Anybody Listening?" from the 10 Commandments.) Now I need to figure out how to download the others songs on YouTube (like 'Come to Me, Bend to Me' from Brigadoon - it's absolutely beautiful - high goosebump factor! And video of him singing Jewish songs in a concert a few years back.)

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tazmimi — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:44:23 GMT

Wow! You just described my life over the past few months. Can't WAIT to pick up the new issue of Rolling Stone...It's the sexiest thing I've seen in a long time. Adam reminds me of all of the things I loved in my 20s. Great music, my gay BFF, being wild and having a great time! I did buy the Idol tour tickets and yy 17-year-old daughter is going with me, even though she's a bit embarrassed by my obsession. :-) Can't wait to see where Adam goes. The kid is awesome!

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missmcglambert1982 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:48:37 GMT

Hi, my name is Ali and I am an Adamholic!!!! What a fantastic piece!!! I am 52 going on 22 - I was a glam rock babe in the 70s, Bowie was my fave and it has never left me - hell, I wear silver glitter eyeliner to work with my Kate Moss leather jacket and black skinny jeans!!! Adam is so unique - he sings like an angel, gives off pure sex when he performs and I tell you, he has put the spring back into my step!!! I cannot wait to get home to feed my Adam addiction, surfing for new stuff on him, uploading photos to his facebook page, watching the Idol performances over and over and I don't care who knows it. I don't know if it is possible to love someone you have never met but it sure feels like it. Honestly, I can't imagine what life what life was like before Adam but I know that its a whole lot better now....

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Weirdkitty — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:56:35 GMT

Thank goodness I'm not the only one!! I'm fifty and my grown children think I'm sad.

I have spent a large number of hours googling Adam, both at work and at home, I taped all the Idol programmes and can often be caught just watching Adam's performances.

I so wish I could go to an Idol concert, but sadly, it's way out of my price range. I imagine it'll be a long time before Adam ventures out on a European tour, so I will have to continue googling until he's out of my system (assuming he ever will be)

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janisk — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 21:57:48 GMT

OMG Sarah - thank you so much for putting into words what I have been trying to figure out for months now - what is this...thing...I am going through!! Is this the first stages of menopause or am I certifiably losing my mind!! I am 46 soon to be 47 and although I try HARD to push concepts such as I was 40!!!! when Adam lost his virginity...it really never seems to make a difference and I end up crushing on him even harder. I am googling and joining fan groups and watching You Tube to all hours of the night...I guess the only upside is that my 23 year old marriage has never been as spicy and my adorable husband is far too smart to ask stupid questions. He is just hanging on for the ride as I cruise into crazyville - next stop Lambertown! Honey...time to love it up again!! I am totally going to the show and have arranged backstage passes (through contacts no 25 year could possibly have unless they were arranged by Daddy) and my main goal is not to dissolve into a quivvering mass of fangirl over easy. Thank you for such a wonderful article and I hope you won't mind if I just forward it to all my friends that don't quite understand my recent affection for black toe nail polish or how in the world I lost 15 lbs in 3 weeks (I call it Lambercising) all in all I am thrilled to know that this might just be healthy and I will see you at the show!

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paamul — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:00:15 GMT

I have never been an American Idol fan. But this season I watched and recorded all episodes just to see Adam. Listen to this, I haven't purchased a copy of Rolling Stone since 1970. Tomorrow I will buy a couple of issues. Never downloaded from Itunes but I downloaded all of Adams music. Something about this guy just grabbed hold of me. I wish him all the luck and good fortune in the world.

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creative_void — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:07:32 GMT

I found this article when I googled Adam Lambert before sitting down to devote myself to plumbing the depths of why this person is so inspiring and fascinating to me. I think this article started to explore the reasons but I don't the author, or the experts that she references, are really hitting it yet.

There's something deeper about this and I'm so enjoying trying to feel into what it is.

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mt_kimmie — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:12:56 GMT

Dear janisk - can I be your new bff? Backstage passes! OMG! I hope you have a blast! Wish he was coming to Montana...but then, does anybody come to MT? I could fly down to Phoenix fairly cheap, rent a 2-bedroom condo really cheap, and see him there, but none of my friends here are interested & my mom won't get on a plane and go with me. :-( (Mad World playing now...my favorite Adam song!!) Anyway, hope everyone who is going to a concert has a great time!

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artsong — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:21:48 GMT

What a great article! I am another (64 y/o) who is just as taken as everyone else in this discussion. I sure am glad I'm not alone. I even keep at least two windows on my browser open at all times so I can 'hide' my Adam whatever I am looking at or listening to - back to a mundane work page if my husband or anyone else ventures by. I think I love the feeling that this man exudes safety, tenderness, compassion and OMG sexy. He is so far above the macho thing men think is so important. I too am inspired, I am back at my canvas for the first time in many years, and my ipod is probably going to be surgically removed someday. I want to look better and be better. I am stunned by being so taken - Google him everyday and have downloaded everything Adam I could find. And that amazing Brigadoon! My God what a versatile voice. I am so glad to be part of the Adam discovery.

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iluvshimtoo — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:30:20 GMT

guess what i do? i have google news on my computer all the time. you sign in to customize and you can set up an "Adam Lambert" section.

google then shoots news stories there for you. that's how i found this great article ...

sums up my feelings, too

he's hhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhot

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laurac555 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:36:02 GMT

My family thinks i have gone over the edge--and in a way, I have.

Your article expresses so much of what i have been feeling for the past few months.

Adam Lambert has changed my life.

For the first time in so long..i feel like the world is full of possibilities.

I feel Sexier, i have lost weight, my hair is shinier--'I call it 'The Lambert Effect".

Adam is like a gift from God--this beautiful, shimmering, magnetic young man with the other worldly talent, has fallen to Earth,and has given so many of us a shot of pure Life Force.

THANK YOU ADAM!!

If the Universe gives him back even half of what he has given us--he will have a wonderful life.

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Lesleigh9999 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:37:20 GMT

(HUGE laugh!) Never before have I felt like organizing a giant pajama party - and inviting 25+ (strangers) women over to spend the evening: comparing equally-shocked, excessively-happy, similar stories of this crazy "Glambert" addiction we all seem to share! Sarah Bell - you are the BOMB for being the coalescing force, by creating this superlative blog/article.

I am a 49 year old, former Rock n'Roll DJ (now in Television) mother of two college-age daughters (who are trying their best to be supportive of my over-the-top obsession with Adam).

Although, they too, believe him to be off-the-scale talented.

As I read through all these great (mirror-like) comments..the belly-laughs get higher and higher into shrieks of disbelieving mirth- because we all are doing the EXACT SAME THINGS, every day, since we first beheld this consummate young GlamRock God !

(Itunes memberships - Check! Signing up on every Hollywood Gossip/Middle America website - to DEFEND him - Check! Buying, for the first time, the best tickets my paycheck could afford to see the AI Summer Tour (also utilizing the "daughter "cover") to experience ADAM (and having to suffer through a Danny Gokey performance or two to do it..ughh!) - Check! Perusing the CafePress selection of T-shirts & deciding to make shirts of my own Screencap/Adobe design for the concert (so I can properly show off the DEPTH of my belief in this young hunk's talent)- Check! Imagining the posters we can design/bring to said concert - to face off with any anti-Adam/homophobic idiots who might also attend - Check! Considering the purchace of little green rubber snakes to wear around our necks (along with Butterlfy pins) to show our SUPPORT of his honesty, his openness, his being a TRUE TO HIMSELF AND THUS US, HIS DEDICATED FANS- kind of artist - Check!

Living to read/watch the latest Michael Slezak /Kristen Baldwin clever Idolatry article or video...as well as Lindsey Parker's Reality Rocks! blog (she LOVED Adam from Day One) or the always erudite, insightful Ann Powers missive - Check! Burning an endless supply of Adam cd's & dvd's of his recorded AND live AND video performances to hand out to family & friends (whether they asked for it or not! rofl) Pre-ordering multiple copies of his "in-just-the-plannning-stages" 19 Entertainment/RCA record album - to increase the sales numbers (and give as Christmas Hannukah presents to all my Cougar girlfriends, who I dragged into this common obsession - mid-season- after seeing the molten-hot Ring of Fire - Check !! Checking the latest haircut mags to see if I could pull off a Glambert 'Do - Check!

(embarrassed chuckle) Ummm, I guess the list can go on and on...tee-hee-hee

And, this from a seemingly happy, well-adjusted professional woman with 3 higher-level degrees and a commercial pilot's license (who once was...and seemingly STILL IS a die-hard classic, hard, glam-rock aficionado - thanks to one gloriously styled/talented gay guy who, finally, has the WHOLE PACKAGE to satisfy us Cougars! HA!!! (Well, at least I know that the Funny Farm awaiting us all will be filled with like-minded, hormone/hot flash-riddled lovelies, JUST LIKE ME !! LOLOL!

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janisk — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:42:23 GMT

Mt-Kimmie - sure honey - a girl can't have too many bff's - You should get yourself to a show - how cares if you have to go alone - Adam has taught us all to be FEARLESS!! I am acutally taking my 15 year old daughter and get this, she said the other day -"Mom, we should take signs to let Adam know we are thinking of him" and I thought "Oh believe me sweetie, Adam will know what I am thinking..." but I regress...anyway, she wants to take signs and she then says "Know what mine will say..." I answer "What Honey.." thinking her little 15 year old cuteness will come up with something very sweet and sassy - but I was only half right, she wants her sign to say, "Adam - My Mother used me as an excuse to get here!" Sign of times ladies, sign of the times:)

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lw from ny — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:43:04 GMT

It may be manners to reference another article here but there was a somewhat similar article not too long ago and I had the same reaction as many here - its not just me, I am not completely bonkers. The 42 pages or so of similar responses show the mass effect this guy has. I do think part of it is the time we came of age, listening to Led Zepelin when it was first coming out. I think many of us have lost our groove a bit, life does that to you and this guy brought it back. I can't get enough of him, he is fabulous and sexy; I'm not a true cougar, I don't want to "do" him but I do love to watch him, he is indeed like none we have seen for a long while and its about time!!!

I will be at the concert, trust me, you will NOT be the only older one there.

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janisk — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:44:10 GMT

Ladies, the more I read the more I think we need a support group..or better yet a Spa Weekend dedicated to the finer art of Adam Lambert and dirty martini's (also know as Lambertini's in my house!)

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Adam's Eve — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 22:52:05 GMT

I am 44 years old, MBA, Analyst by trade, successful and officially off my rocker!! I can not understand why this guy has taken over my life. He is like a drug!! I have tried to shut off the computer, not Google him 25 times a time searching for any sign of him and simply get on with my life but I can't do it!! What the heck? I've burned way too many dinners or simply forgot to turn on the oven. Everyone around me thinks I'm nuts because all I talk about is Adam.

Adam coming out and using the term bi-curious just feeds the frenzy all the more, but like you said it really shouldn't matter not like I'd stand a chance if he was straight. This guy is a walking orgasm. Can I use that word here? Well he is!! His strut, his style, his on stage confidence just makes him so sexy. He does scream LOOK AT ME and yes I can't stop. Most of the time my mouth is hanging open and my eyes are wide. He just 100% throws himself into a performance and dances as if no one is watching.

I can't even begin to imagine what an Adam Lambert concert will be like once he's out from under the control of American Idol.

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Lesleigh9999 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:09:12 GMT

Janisk ~ I think you are right on the money, there...the "Glambert" Spa Weekend is JUST the thing (complete with the Lambertini's - be they apple, cosmo, espresso...or, chuckle, your fav -dirty!)

We've got ALOT of great Spas which are just BEGGING for business, out here in Scottsdale, Arizona.... wink, nudge, nudge...

And, lw from ny....all season - on every Idolatry comment column I could access (before being BURIED in thousands of inane, offensive comments from Gokey fans) - I BEGGED for a "Lambert-meet-Led" miracle! (although I envisioned AI getting Plant & Page to sign off on the ultra-high "Immigrant Song", instead of "Whole Lotta Love", for some reason).

No matter...Adam's scorching-hot rendition of "WLL" - still had me screaming their lyrical& expressive "Valhalla, I am COMING!" LOLOLOLOLOLOL

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chrispyone — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:10:22 GMT

I just saw a commercial that Adam is on 20/20 Friday night.

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LibraRising — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:15:42 GMT

Congratulations, Ms. Ball, on revealing yourself in true Lambertairan fashion. Equal kudos for impressively holding on to your writing skills while discussing the insanity. The three decades worth of clients who've paid for mine would demand refunds if I delivered the drivel to which this delicious young man reduces me. Alas, none of my high power, mogully friends would watch AI, no matter how much I couched it in "interesting social phenomenon" or "once in a generation voice". So I have no one with which to squeal. Except my legions of new digital friends.

Mr. Lambert's appeal is sexual. Pure. Simple. Nothing diluted or obscure. He radiates it. While at the same time he's so sweet, so polite. When has a man with generation-leading talent, who loves his masculinity (and, alas for us, also others' masculinity) ever been so gentle? He's wild and unbridled. But he so clearly would never, ever hurt you. Fearless yet inspires no fear. Full whammy sex without an ounce of risk. This combination has never been seen. Bad boys of our youth were all dangerous. Adam isn't. And we all rise up to meet it, saying, yes, more, where can I get some?

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chrispyone — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:15:59 GMT

I just bought a cd with all Adams Idol songs and the studio versions.

I dont know exactly where this guy got it from but I ride around listening to it everyday.

Some of them stick in my head and I sing them all day. I have tickets for the Boston

show. Unfortunately we are only in the 27th row. I would love to find out what hotel

they are staying in.. Back in the day, I chased the Bay City Rollers (I am showing my age)

and we found their hotel, and got great pictures.and met them!!!! Maybe my old "groupie" talents are still

in my blood.

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pambicor — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:17:24 GMT

I am obsessed about this man! I can't explain the sexual, maternal and spirtitual feelings he gives me. I have everything he recorded with Idol ( including vids) and everything he did before that I could find, some very erotic! Its all I listen to in the car on my i-pod and in bed! I can't get enough of this gorgeous young man. My 53 year old co-worker and I ( same age) bought tickets to the tour when they came on presale!! SOMEBODY HELP ME!!!!!!!!

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violetstone003 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:17:48 GMT

I thought I was the only older female totally out of control over this magnificent man! Even as a teen I was never one to be drawn to a celeb. Right from his first audition on AI, I was taken with him and there's no turning back. He is a beautiful man.

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GRANNYFORADAM — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:30:25 GMT

it's like invasion of the body snatchers - we are all infected with the Adam Lambert Virus. Haven't felt this way since the Beatles in the 60's. I'm almost 63 and I listen to his performances on AI over and over. I bought 6 tickets to the concert this summer -- taking the grandkids.

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Walking S — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:38:59 GMT

I, too, am in my 40's and totally obsessed with Adam. Someone started a blog for us older women so that we could keep talking about him. Check it out and sign up.

http://disc.yourwebapps.com/Indices/242920.html

Also, we should discuss which states we're all from so that we could perhaps chat with other women who share our thoughts about Adam.

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Lesleigh9999 — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:51:57 GMT

Hold on, here....have we all been (erroneously) complimenting the wrong writer, here?

I see Sarah Ball's lovely face, e-mail address & background in the "Author" window...but see the equally impressive, I'm sure, name of Joan Raymond above the actual column.

If we have innocently committed a transgression of mistaken identity to our (now) FAVORITE fellow Lambert-Cougar-Blog-Writer...I want to send heartfelt KUDOS to whichever woman is the true author of this superlative work!

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tweenfiftyandsixty — Wed, 10 Jun 2009 23:56:03 GMT

Me too me too! I'm embarassed and obsessed! And so are my friends. I was riveted, voted, and made my husband vote too Downloaded videos, though I've had that iPod for years and had no other videos on it. I thought today if anything happens to me and my family has to get into my computer and contacts and sees how much time I've spent on Google and what I'm doing. . . it's not porn, is it? Better, right? What fun! Bought tickets to the tour for the first time in 8 years of watching (taking my fascinated husband btw) in the first ten minutes of presale, and going to a second one in another city with a girlfriend. Okay, but today I went to the B&N on campus near here and the RS wasn't there yet. the woman behind the counter said, and I quote, "looking for Adam? You're not the first. . " Hilarious. It's like one big happy tribe.

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CrystalEagle — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:20:07 GMT

This article totally nauseated me. I am about to loose my dinner !!!!

And NO - it's not because he is GAY - *** HAGS get a clue!!!

It's the women (and any men for that matter) who are attracted to him that are old enough to be his mother. You all belong in jail for your evil thoughts.

Disgusting, simply disgusting and criminal !!!!!

BTW - I'm 40 something and female.

You people are no better than pedophiles!!

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Lizzy8 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:22:53 GMT

Thank you for this article. I have an appointment with a therapist tomorrow and I'm taking this article and the comments with me! I've lost all my marbles over this precious piece of fabulousness called Adam.

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Mississippi K — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:23:14 GMT

I can't actually believe that I registered on another site just to comment on Adam. But, I had to just say "Thank you" for a great article and for all the amazing comments. I am in my 50's, a successful professional, who has spent over 20 years in the entertainment industry and met loads of celebrities -- and never once even thought about being a "fan". I was way too cool for that. Now I find myself completely and utterly obsessed with someone I've never met and only seen live once. Glad to be in such good company.

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xmasgirl01 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:28:51 GMT

i have proof that this happened to me too! i'ma 49 yr old mother of 3 teenagers professional woman who went crazy when she saw adam lambert. I cannot believe i feel like i did when i was 12 and had a crush on Bobby Sherman!!!!

my blog about Adam- http://www.soulcast.com/post/show/208394/Mad-Mad-World#comment_736567

And i do believe that i "fell" when he did Ring of Fire. That was a sexual number, wasn't it? i mean i could have been imagining it............

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janisk — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:32:40 GMT

Crystal Eagle - Mr. Lambert is not a child - if loving a 27 year old is pedophilia then you need to get busy becuase there are lots and lots of people you can send to prison. BTW, if you feel so strongly about all this why in the world would you subject yourself to reading an article entitled "Why Cougars Crave ...." Perhaps there is a bit of denial going on here....

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Crazy 4 hm — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:40:37 GMT

Adam Lambert captured my attention when he performed "Mad World" I was a lost soul after that performance. I telephoned my late forty-something sister and proclaimed Mr. Lambert the best entertainer in decades ! I also praised his drop dead good looks!!! I forgot to mention that he was only 27 years old! Needless to say, my sister was shocked by my behavior because.....I am 55 years old and she had not heard this tone from me since I was age 10 proclaiming Paul McCartney as the cutest peson ever. However, despite her shock I continued to follow Mr. Lambert dutifully on AI every Tuesday and Wednesday. I also urged my sister and other other middle aged female friends to do so. They obliged. We raved weekly via telephone regarding Mr. Lambert's performances. Especially the smoldering hot performance "Whole Lotta Love" Although it was clear Mr. Lambert may be gay, this did not matter. As the author correctly articulated, Mr. Lambert's sexuality and perhaps his unavailability seemed to make him even hotter in our aging baby boomer eyes! One of my friends proclaimed that Mr. Lambert created such sexual tension by his appearance and performances it was mind blowing. Since AI ended several weeks ago not only have I been somewhat depressed, I have made personal vows to cease following Adam's every move via the internet and some nightly entertainment shows, which until Mr. Lambert, I never had time to watch. I concluded that this type of preocuppation was unhealthy. However, as evidenced by this writing, I have failed to abide by this vow. Currently, I have become fascinated with Mr. Lambert's cover on Rolling Stone Magazine. I plan to purchase several copies on Friday for all of my aging friends and present them with the gift of Adam Lambert unfortunately for us ,this will be as close as it gets!

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mt_kimmie — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 00:56:29 GMT

Dear janisk - Thank you for responding to Crystal Eagle so eloquently - I don't think I could have been so polite!

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Willow1999 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:02:45 GMT

Joan, or Sarah, whover wrote this peice, bless your heart. You made me smile reading this. It is so true. Cougar. So funny. With Adam it is true. He shakes up women of all ages, ecspecially older women. His eyes and smile always made me & my co-workers melt. Something about him is so charasmatic I still google this man every day, even if it just once. I am 44 years old and my friends some a few years younger, some like 10 years older love him. He bears the characteristics of everyone in our age bracket would have wanted to meet in a sex symbol. He is young Elvis, Freddie Mercury, Bowie, with a twist of Rob Patterson. He is as humble as Elvis is every way. There is something so attactive about him beyond his angelic voice. It's his stage presence, kindness, smile and uniqueness that sets him apart. Who cares who he is sleeping with? We don't. It only makes us like him more for being a real man and not hiding who he truly is. And man can this guy wear a pair of pants or what? I love his outfits and his tight pants. Pretty cougarish I suppose, but he makes us happy. We are pondering going to an AI tour show or just waiting to see Adam solo. I am gathering we may actually do both. Why not? The idea of just seeing him remotely look our way, well would that be a moment to cherish. Cannot wait to purchase the Rolling Stone issue. One day it will be worth alot of money because from what I can see this young man is going to go far, very, very far. Thank you for writing such a great article!

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Corrine H G S — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:04:14 GMT

Being wowed by Adam Lambert is not exclusive to young girls and middle aged women. I too had never watched Idol...ever...until my grandaughter (13) and daughter ( 49) told me they were all gaga over a particular contestant...Adam Lambert.

And so I watched. And he is incredible! I too am smitten and I'm 76 years old. He has it all...being gay doen't matter one whit. He has a stage presence that I've never before seen. He is electrifying. Talented, handsome as all get out, dramatic , warm, and unique. He has a sense of humor and shows he dosn't take himself too seriously.

I can't wait to see what more Adam does, and look forward to buying his records. I hope he'll also be in movies. He is MY idol.

Kris is adorable, sweet and talented but that spark of excitement isn't there. I wish him well and sure that he too will be a success. Adam however is a natural star. I'm smitten :-)

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jeannealice — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:05:44 GMT

Thank God. I thought I was the only older woman who is obsessed with Adam. I on his website every day and I have actually been depressed since the end of Idol and no more Adam. By the way, I am 80 years old!

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Lesleigh9999 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:12:08 GMT

OMG!! (peels of reminiscent laughter!)

Bobbie Sherman, in "Here Come The Brides" ?!! (and, the stutter...)that caused our little 12-yr-old hearts to flutter!)

Well, my dears....how FAR we've come!

Adam, gaze upon what you have wrought, here... (big grin)

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vickilois — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:24:34 GMT

Waht a great service you have done for us middle-age/older women!!! This article is validating for so many, including me!!, and gives us a forum within which to "get it out there". Adam is so awesome in so many ways, and I google his name every day just to keep up, to hear his songs again, and to remind myself that I am not dead and gone. Thanks to each of you who have written your story. I don't know why anyone who does not adore Adam bothers to read and respond to this article and our blogs. "Me thinks thy doth protest too much" (or something like that??)

Also, like his performance so beautifully said, A Change is Gonna Come for so many people who have been discriminated against,:the gay community. I hope Adam can be a beacon of hope for truth and courage in being who you were born to be, and not living a secret or double life as so many do. See you all at his concerts in the future---you won't be the only "oldies" out there screaming for him!!! By the way, I am 53 and feeling younger every day.

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Milwaukeefor Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:31:40 GMT

Thanks so much! This is exactly what has been happening to me too! I have been watching since the auditions, have loved him since, but became hooked after Mad World. I went on You Tube and discovered Brigadoon, and the Upright Cabaret videos, and everything else. I Google several times a day, and even had my kids teach me how to buy I Tunes and burn a CD! In my endless conversations with friends and co-workers, I think that what makes us so drawn to Adam is a true old-fashioned sense of entertainment. He's the whole package, singing, dancing and acting. Those of us over 40 (I'm 49) remember seeing Sinatra, Liza, Sammy, even Carol Burnett, and loving the entertainment we had then. Nowadays the singers can't sing and the dancers can't dance. The only true entertainment is in theatre. Adam brings out the best of this. And, he is smart, funny, humble, and.........smoking hot! I admire his honesty. I subscribe to Rolling Stone, and am a lover of classic rock and the blues. His version of A Change is Gonna Come brings tears to my eyes! I have tickets to the Idol show, and had to have a lottery of ladies my age to choose a partner to take. I'm looking forward to the album, and solo tours. I hope he does a TV special sometime. He could do a variety show, he's so multi-talented! Can't wait for the new RS to be in my mailbox, having Adamgasms just thinking about it!! HELP!! I'm off to You Tube now....

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ADAM-u-r-the-one — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:35:54 GMT

Hello fellow sufferers - I too am in the same boat - 53 y/o happily married for 21 years with 4 kids/young adults aged 23,20,15 and 13 - and I am the only one in the house obsessed with Adam - I didn't marry until I was 29 y/o so had plenty of time to 'kick my heels up' and enjoy my freedom. The first time I heard him sing I had tears in my eyes - such was the power of emotion I experienced - has that ever happened before? - NO! I'm a total addict now - no hope for me!!!!!!! (but I'm lovin it!)

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BlondMom — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:43:03 GMT

For weeks, I thought it was JUST ME! Then I found out that were many of us - all old enough to be Adam's mother - who shared my same absolute sexual obession with this young man. I have tried to figure it out. Your article did a good job of bringing up some of the reasons. I think that many of us who loved the crazy "Whole Lotta Love" days, realize that we've lost something along the way. While Kris is sweet and cute...like so much of the music these days, I miss the WILDNESS. While I am a mother in my mid 50's, and a director of a major company, I now proudly wear BLACK NAIL polish every day with my business attire. It is my own rebellion - Adam style - that I may have wrinkles, and less shapely, but I can STILL ROCK! Adam - we love you.

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ilex — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:48:08 GMT

I believe that there are many women in their 40's and 50's that think Adam Lambert is the greatest thing since Freddie Mercury. Voila, our youth returns with this one man who exceeds all expectations of presentation, makeup, clothing and voice and god what a voice. Unfortunately I saw AI on the last night while both were singing with Brian May, yes I missed the part with KISS, but have definitely made up all lost episodes of Adam. Adam's version of Mad World is truly beautiful, much better than Tears for Fears version for which I never cared for at all.

As we all have seen, the cover of Rolling Stones magazine, July 2009, can't wait to buy it, didn't even know it still existed! His first CD is due out in the fall after the 50 city summer AI tour, can't wait!!!!

I'm 47 and it's definitely a Mad World!!!!!!!!! LOL LOL

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brookfieldjoanne — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:50:08 GMT

And I find it kind of funny

I find it kind of sad

The dreams where I'm with Adam

Are the best I've ever had.

But please don't tell my husband,

He'll find it hard to take

It's nice we're all together in this

Mad world

Adam sends us in a

Mad whirl!

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Lady4Lambert — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 01:55:41 GMT

It is so refershing to be able to read every womans view on Adam Lambert. Each one is so correct in the exact description that I feel. I am 40 years old and quite honestly never took AI seriously. I would on and off swicth channels each year, but did watch the year with Bo Bice & Carrie. I liked both, but I loved Bo Bice. As much as I was entranced by Bo singing acapella with the lighting and such, I have been entraced by Adam Lambert each performance. I could not wait until Tuesday discussing his performance with my girlfriends on Wednesday after work like a teen age girl. When he lost, I was truly crushed. Like someone stabbed me directly in the heart. This could not be I thought. After all the madness he is truly much better off. I also still google this man at least once a night to re-wind and get me a quick Adam fix. He is so sexy, adventerous, spiritual and humble it kills me. My grandmother loves him as well. I had to make her a copy of songs I downloaded. She sits in her chair with her portable cd player, watches her soaps and puts on Adam Lambert. She is 83 years old. Some kind of magic that Adam has on us ladies, but I am liking it. I thank you for sharing such a nicely written article about him, it is so true.

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Sealily1c — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:05:37 GMT

Joan, thank you so much for writing this. I am 43, professional, rational, social and productive but have developed a weak spot for all things Adamesque. I must now forward your article to my dear but seemingly disapproving mother as proof of the fact that if I have a Adam Lambert fueled mental health issue, I am certainly not alone!!!!

Such sweet comfort in numbers!

I am going to the AI concert in Hamilton, Ontario in August and you can bet your platform boots, I will be keeping my ticket stub as a souvenir.

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BlondMom — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:13:09 GMT

brookfieldjoanne:

LOVE IT. LOVE IT. LOVE IT. Can't wait to share it with my fellow cougars tomorrow!

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nagelchick — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:17:50 GMT

This is the best article written about Adam and it describes me and my friends (over 40) perfectly. I really don't know what hit me. I am wearing an Adam bracelet--wearing a tshirt with his image on the back--I bought my first ipod so I could download his music!! I search the internet every day for a tidbit of information about Adam (my IDOL). I adore him--he has given me back a love for music and has definitely helped my "groove". He and his voice and his smile just make me happy and that cannot be bad. I am happy to know that there are many other women experiencing this same crazy, wonderful phenomenon. Thanks for your beautiful article. I hope Adam reads this and I will definitely support him throughout his long and happy career. You rock ADAM!!!!!

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Milwaukeefor Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:21:04 GMT

Okay ladies, the maternal side of my reaction to Adam just took over momentarily, I just went to the Rolling Stone site, and viewed Adam's reaction to seeing the cover. He was sooo overwhelmed he became speechless and emotional. So sweet and childlike, then, he sneered and became Elvis and kissed the picture, ...and...smoking again! I love reading all these postings, it is validating my obsession. I think I miss the craziness I used to have way back in college and until I got married at 29. I had gay friends (boys), and used to go to gay bars with them all the time. Loved the glam rock and classic rock. Still do. Back to Crawl through Fire......

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Mrs. Robinson — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:25:10 GMT

Joan you are the bomb for writing such a fantastic descriptive blog about Adam. American Idol has been over for weeks and I certainly google this guy as well. He puts me in a trance if I am even walking by and see even so much as a clip of him on Access Hollywood or ET. Let alone what happened each Tuesday when my friends and I watched him perform. He is the perfect man and gentleman. I made my husband start watching Idol just because he didnt realize all the craze I had for this performer. He loved him as well, says he is the best youngest entertainer with a voice that is insane. Little does he know I am on the pc now responding to this, being a cougar and all. LOL, I will show him in the a.m. what I wrote. Nothing to hide here. I admit I am a true Mrs. Robinson when it comes to Adam. I listen to his cd all songs I downloaded every day driving to work. In traffic I keep hitting the replay button to "Whole Lotta Love" and "Ring of Fire" while my blackberry keeps going off. He certainly out a spell on me this Adam. A change is certainly going to come for his future now and I look forward to supporting it and witnessing it. And I also fell into a burning ring of fire in a good way. It brings back my youth and makes me happy in a 17 year old way. BTW I am 48 years old.

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Mel4Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:33:50 GMT

What a GREAT article!!! I feel so connected to all my fellow Glamberts! This 'Adam phenomenon' as I call it, has my family and friends all baffled. I think I'll print your article and carry it wherever I go in my purse and say, "SEE! There are others out there just like me!!" I'm 40 with two kids, and my husband thinks I need counseling. My obsession started when I saw Adam audition on AI. I fell madly in love with that beautiful voice, boyish charm, and rocker edge. As time went on, and he blossomed into the fierce performer with nail polish and guyliner and sexy clothes, my heart skipped a beat each time I saw him perform. It brought me back to my yesteryears of when I was a little rebellious punk rock chick. My admiration for him grew deeper and deeper, and I could not wait for every Tuesday to come around. I began googling him to death, voting like a madwoman, downloading pictures, and finding solace in the AI forum with my new family, the Glamberts! I had no one around me who felt what I was feeling until I discovered the fan forum. Then I felt normal. Now, with the explosion of his popularity, I am noticing that we're not alone. Adam possesses this incredible magnetism, and it grows more intense each day. He has become an every day four letter word in our household. His coming out in Rolling Stone was not a surprise, and it feels like a breath of fresh air. No more walking on egg shells. He has helped open up conversations with our young children that provide them with valuable life lessons. My husband has witnessed a new awakening with me. (He thanks Adam every night for that!) And hopefully he will shed some new light on the world in the most positive and respected way. With his talent aside, Adam is an amazing person and his gracious and pleasant personality shines through in everything he does.

Thanks again for helping me feel normal.

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lmbarth — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:34:21 GMT

Wow, someone finally explained what's wrong with me! I am 47 and absolutely obsessed with Adam Lambert. I could not explain the power he holds over me. I mean I am old enough to be his mother for gosh sakes. I have done things that I have never done before because of Adam. I am now posting comments on sites like this. I have joined fan clubs. I participate in forums. I opened a Twitter, a facebook and a myspace account. I have downloaded songs and videos from Itunes. I bought Rolling Stone magazine. I spend hours everyday looking for news of Adam. It is my guilty pleasure. My kids think I've lost my mind. But I am having so much fun!!! Thank you Sarah for giving me permission to indulge in my obsession and for helping me realize there are thousands of other's just like me.

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Adam's Eve — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:41:42 GMT

Milwaukee for adam: Yes I watched the video too and saw his emotion and it was like awwww...how sweet and then he did the Elvis sneer and kissed the picture!! Could I slip myself between him and the picture?

His best moments were Crawl Thru Fire and Ring of Fire. Hmmmm is there a recurring theme here?

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Glambert 3256 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:54:53 GMT

I am 54 and I am an Adamaholic. I can't get enough of him. I have signed up on more websites in the past few months than the entire time prior to Adam. It is so important for me to profess my love for him at any given opportunity. I stay up too late pounding on this keyboard. I am so afraid I am going to miss something about Adam. I make excuses when friends ask me to go places with them. When I have a free moment, it's going to be spent with Adam. I have way too many websites bookmarked now, there's not enough time to accomplish the feat of reading absolutely everything about Adam. I made a CD with Adam's music so when I have to leave the house, he is still with me. The guy has taken over my life. I predict that it won't be long before there is a new affliction named "Adamitis" and many more cases of carpal tunnel from us Cougars pounding on our keyboards. I have permanent indentures on the top of my thighs from holding my laptop. I get very aggravated when my stomach growls or when I need to go to the bathroom, it takes too much time away from blogging and surfing the net. Yes, I am an Adamaholic and no, I will not be seeking help. Life hasn't been this grand in a long time!!!! Thank you for the absolutely wonderful article. Gotta go surf the net some more!!!

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Fame1970 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:02:27 GMT

I am indeed a cougar as well. So are my sisters and 4 of my cousins. I am a cougar not just because I am so attracted to Adam in every way, r so awestruck by watching him perform, but also defending him like a mother cub. I had a huge fight with my nephew in his twenties over Adam. I mean huge. He kept calling him a joke and I would get madder, acting like a crazed teen ager. Then he would laugh and say calm down. I didnt speak to the boy for a whole week. What the hell is the matter with me? We laugh about it now, however at the time I will admit I was pissed. I found myself signing onto accounts and having to register even after 11pm to defend Adam in every way. If one of the guys at my job would as so much as make a negative comment on Adam after the ladies were discussing him in the break room I would stare them down like a tiger ready to get their prey. What the hell? Now I get it. I knew alot of women liked Adam, along with alot of woman I know, but this story is truly enlightning to read. Adam is electric from the first time I seen him perform, a completely unique artist not afraid to throw anything in the wind. His voice goes through my skin and when he stared at that camera each Tuesday with his come hither smokey eyes and half snarled mouth it made me stand still. Now I know I am not insane, thank you ladies for sharing your stories. And thank you Adam for making us all happy, you are a remarkable, humble and god gifted person.

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leileea — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:08:59 GMT

I proclaim myself to be a die-hard Glambert... I am glad that I am not the only one feeling crazy....I've never been so passionate about any celebrity until Adam came...it's crazy but it feels soooooo goooood. and I feel like a teenager again.

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leileea — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:11:20 GMT

is there a " cougars for Adam " club that I can join?

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Milwaukeefor Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:49:55 GMT

To the Right:If you don't have something nice to say, why are you on this site? And, by the way, if 49 is old and dried up, you need to start re-thinking about women! I'm pretty sure that Adam will appreciate ALL his fans, because this is what he went on Idol for! We are older, and have a lot of buying power! Also, Adam is quoted to have said in Rolling Stone that he thinks it's pretty hot how women are into him. AND, trust me, Glamberts are not fans of Clay. I personally have never had such a fan crush-ever, not even on Bobby Sherman or David Cassidy or Donny Osmond!

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celtcwrtr — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:50:39 GMT

i never slam danced to the clash or the sex pistols... (but) i sat at jim morrison's feet on stage and saw led zeppelin when they were the opening act for blind faith... as well as oh-so-many-others.

and i haven't been this enthralled by a performer since i was ten years old and devoured everything i could find about the beatles. i'd find it bizarre, except that the affliction seems to be shared by many.

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Milwaukeefor Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 03:52:52 GMT

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MajorD — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:31:18 GMT

Loved this article. I'd stopped trying to figure out why I'm so hooked on Adam Lambert and have just been going with the pure pleasure of it. I was musically obsessed all my life and still am (In the past with The Clash, The Sex Pistols, The Jam ... and now with bands like Muse) . My 23 year old and I are both loving what Adam can do. He has so much charisma --- we are both thrilled by his performances (that voice!) and Adam as a human being. I think the shrinks in this article are 100 percent correct too ... especially about the appeal of someone who says "take me as I am" and is so comfortable in his own skin.

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Lesleigh9999 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:31:32 GMT

it's all about Context, ToThe Right.

Adam Lambert = the best combination of excitements we can connect to, in our female memories, of so many Celeb males who thrilled & chilled us, in individual ways.

You are mocking women who have seen, enjoyed and experienced the PUREST hard, classic rock n roll days this earth has ever seen.

We were there at Filmore East, when Neil Young joined up with C, S & N...and Jethro Tull made their American debut.

Wept when learning of Jimi's drowning in his own sickness, while overdosing.....after getting to see him perform brilliantly at Carnegie Hall.

We heard when Grace Slick, when invited to the White House to a tea party by Dick Nixon's daughter, decided to bring some acid to try to spike his drink.

Interviewed David Byrne of the Talking Heads...and Pater Gabriel when he was with Genesis.

My older brother died with his ticket to Woodstock, in his wallet, 4 years ago. We framed it for his daughter - so that she would know that we apart of a rich heritage of a time before the commercially-hyped, corporate-run music industry took control.

And, sometimes....just SOMETIMES - the giant music-industry machines get a TOTAL surprise launched back AT them - via the cyber-power of the world-at-large.

Someone (they wouldn't particularly have artistically pushed or commercially backed) gets a boost from the least likely venues.

We've seen the real deals of Rock n Roll. We've lived through their ascension and denouements.

And, its been a long time coming - to see a star of the caliber of Adam rise on the Horizon.

Respect us in our knowledge to recognize and call it.

We deserve this.

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Cougarista — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:32:52 GMT

Please do not assume that just because you and your posse became "glamberts", that all good upstanding cougars followed suit. I started watching Idol when David Cook hit the scene - will admit without any hesitancy I became a cougar - but nothing about Adam Lambert made my inner cougar purr. Am maybe a little envious of his sense of style, but all I would want to do with him is go shopping!

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debkayc — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:35:22 GMT

Thank you for your article and to all the women who have written in. I thought I was nuts to! I watch Adam everyday on the internet. I have been crazy about him since his audition. Looking forward to seeing him in concert with idols and to his first album. I just love to hear his singing. By the way, I'm 50, married for 30 years, a working RN with grown kids and grandkids and I quess a pedophile according to CrystalEagle. Crystal, your the one that needs to get a grip !!!!

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Lesleigh9999 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:42:09 GMT

WTH is a "good, upstanding" Cougar?!! LOL

Is that like the "Good People" of the United States, to which Sarah Palin, referred - during the '08 Presidential Campaign?!!! guffaw

Hey, I'm a Cook fan, too....but this territorialism about the "Cougar Nation" is verging on the edges of ludicrous !

Adam is Adam....Cook is Cook...and Kris Allen, Allison Iraheta and all the rest are also wonderfully gifted musicians.

Let's laud them all..at the same time as respecting their individuality (and their fan bases)!

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mainer40 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 04:45:19 GMT

Cougar, Glambert that's me. I've joined every Lambert fan group there is. I'm just gaga over the guy. Call me crazy, but I'm having fun. He's the most exciting thing to come along since Elvis. So all you adam haters - leave this old broad alone.

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Fawnlee61 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 05:12:23 GMT

Thank you for this explanation, one of my friends of almost 47 years thinks I'm NUTS for Adam, its true and I am having the time of my life. I've lived 1 year 61 times and this is heavenly for me. I went out and bought 3 copies of the Rolling Stone cover mag. HOT HOT HOT, my skeptical friend & I are going to the TOUR, in Arizona July 20th,. We spent over $350 on the tickets and if they could cancel the other Idols (except Allison) and just make it a ADAM show that would be fine. I watched Elvis on the Ed Sullivan show from the hallway because my Dad didnt want me to see him gyrating around. I watched Star Search there was good talent (Sam Adam) (I raised a lot of kids and had alot of home time). I watched Idol from the start and picked all winners but Ruben Stoddard. But it didn't captivate me like Mr. Lambert, What a gift, its activated the playfulness in me I thought was gone forever. Sing to me Adam, I'm really happy I have been Smitten. My youngest 2 1/2yr old granddaughter loves Adam, My youngest daughter 26yrs old loves Adam, my 57 yr old sister and all her friend love Adam, If we could bottle im, I order a case a day. Thanks for your article, and THANK YOU ADAM LAMBERT & yeah it would be fun to go shopping with him. This is an invitation to Adam, when you' re here in Phoenix, lets shop at Last Chance, Nordstroms outlet. Alice Cooper and alot of celebs shop there. plowry1@cox.net. livin La Vida Loca xoxo

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Iris729 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 05:31:28 GMT

Cute? Yes. Talented? Undoubtedly. But "hotter than Johnny Depp?" No way, no how. Maybe I'm an older cougar than some of you here, but I do have my standards.

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AdamGal — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 06:11:10 GMT

Thank you so so much for this article! This 54 year old boomer who grew up on The Beatles was beginning to think that she was having a serious mid-life crisis or was just being immature or whatever in being so nuts over Adam ;)

I'm on a Live Journal Adam community where I suspect I'm one of the oldest members. So I'm really thrilled to see all these many wonderful women post here that share my love for dear Adam! I couldn't wait for Tuesday night during the Idol season and to see what Adam would come up with next. Even though his slower songs such as "Tracks of my Tears" or "If I Can't Have You" were awesome, the weeks I truly loved were the ones where he came out in full glam rock mode with eyeliner, black gloves, skin tight pants, and black nail polish...Ring of Fire was downright sensuous, and week after week, I'd find myself laughing with delight watching him ;) And I can't even begin to count the number of times I've listened to Mad World ;o

And this is someone who loved Glen Campbell and John Denver in her youth!

Like another poster here, I've made a CD of his music for the car. My wonderful patient husband is taking a half day off so that we can get to the concert early to hopefully meet Adam and the others. And I've made up some Adam earrings and a necklace for the concert ;) I have already warned hubby that I don't plan on sitting quietly during the concert, especially when Adam is on.

And like Joann's rendition of Mad World below, I so enjoy my dreams of Adam ;) And that Rolling Stone cover....wow! (*thud*)

I'm wondering if we should all form a community somewhere entitled Cougars for Adam, for ages 40 and older...what do you think? Maybe on Facebook? Im so definitely game! Would love to hear suggestions on this.

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suentx — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 06:18:36 GMT

Oh yes, I am right there with you, and I am 65. Adam has charisma, knows how to tease and wink and have fun with the whole creative scene, and I love it. He also can sing almost anything, but he understands how to entertain, and Iove it. There will be a lot of cougars and older at the Idol concerts, but I just can hardly wait for a full production Adam Lambert concert. I will be there and become youthened by the power of his magnetism.

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mishebe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 06:40:53 GMT

Here i am writing in between painting my nails black. i have on a Adam Lambert t-shirt that i made. this is the 3rd tshirt i have made for myself. This is the 4th time i have painted my nails. black. Did i mention i bought the exact same color and brand of nail polish that Adam wears. It has been so nice here in Wa. i have been going to work with the top down . The music playing loud. Did i mention the music is Adam? The studio and live version. did i mention that i just won shoes on ebay. They have a picture of him and his name on them. I paid to much. But I had to have them. I come home every night and get on the computer til 2:00 am . I am googling Adam. I am a wife and mother. What has happened to me? Now I know ... i am not alone.. Thank god! lol.

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angie65 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 07:13:13 GMT

Loved the article! Indeed I am not alone!

Don't get bothered by comments made by "ToTheRight", (June 10, 2009) and other negative post..me think they are just the typical grumpies :-)

To all glamberts-cougars, enjoy your journey with Adam. :-)

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pmqlpn1 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 09:12:12 GMT

I LOVED this article....and I thought something was wrong with me!!! I related so well with the author! I can't think of hardly anything but Adam. And Why? I am the same age as his mom, Leila! Terrible, isn't it? As if I would stand a chance even if was straight!! But I can dream, right? And I AM going to the American Idol tour when it is here in Tulsa on July 24!! I will be the cougar in the 2ND ROW screaming louder than any teenybooper!!!! I also am a wife and mother (of teenagers, no less) . What is wrong here? Glad to know there are others out there in the glambert-cougar arena.

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missybug — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:20:41 GMT

I have to agree with pmqlpn1. My daughter told me about the contestants on American Idol. She was dead set against Adam actually both my daughters were. I turned the show on to see what they were talking about. I had to watch every performance of Adams after that! He is a brilliant performer. The voice , the performing, everything. The tour is not coming near me, but you can bet I'll buy his records, and watch everything I can in the media. Oh by the way I'm 67yrs old.

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missybug — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:23:09 GMT

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Leeskerette — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 10:31:43 GMT

My fellow(?) Adam fans ... You are all AWESOME! Make that WE are all awesome! Our taste is impeccable, and our passion will keep us young. But it is really ONLY in this and similar forums that I can express myself honestly, and I wonder why I should feel "guilty" for pursuing this most delicious of guilty pleasures. In "real life," I have no support system for this craziness that we fans are loving. Unfortunately, I have NO friends who share my obsession with Adam and his incrediblel voice. My two grown sons and husband think I've "lost it," and they don't even know how "out there" I am! (As I read all the comments, I took mental notes: Downloading every existing Adam song - Check. Staying up until all hours commenting on blogs/articles about Adam - Check. Feeling some kind of life-changing transformation has taken place - Check.)

At least my one son (the one who doesn't watch AI) indulged me and watched a couple of Adam's songs on TiVo - and he was sort of quiet for the most part, which I know means he didn't dislike it, and may even be mildly impressed.. My husband really liked Adam during the show (while my other son and his wife found Adam "too over-the-top") but now he looks askance at me when I say that I've found my new "music hero" (and he should know better, because music has always been a huge part of our lives). I can only hope that if I print out some of the fans' comments here, and have him read them, he'll realize that -if I AM nuts - at least I have plenty of company!

I'm grateful for this wonderfully-written piece. And all the related comments make me feel really connected to some like-minded women who are younger-at-heart by the minute for basking in the warmth of the magical "light" Adam Lambert gives off.

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ursulamajor — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:20:01 GMT

Do all those guys out there that are hot for Angelina Jolie REALLY think they have a chance with her because she's straight and so are they? Same with Lambert. I know I have no chance, gay or not. But my oh my....yummy.

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Not a Judge — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:35:00 GMT

Hands down, this is the BEST ARTICLE ON ADAM LAMBERT I have read. Although part of me truly believes that NONE OF YOU OTHER "COUGARS" COULD POSSIBLY LOVE ADAM AS MUCH AS I DO, the other part of me is very reassured that I have not totally LOST IT!!!!! Adam is absolutely adorable. He pushes all of my buttons....I could see myself proudly being his mom, his lover, his best friend, or President of his fan club......It's quite bizarre and I have never felt this way about any other entertainer. Why do cougars CRAVE ADAM LABERT? Because he makes us remember the intense feelings of our youth and they are DELICIOUS!!!!

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Milwaukeefor Adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:20:32 GMT

Lesleigh999: Thank you so much for your spot on description of what is going on. We remember real Rock, and real rock stars. We loved our stars then for all their foibles. Adam stirs something in us that we haven't seen or heard in decades. The sheer talent. The waste of several years of not being discovered. I can't get enough of him! My Stone should be here in my mailbox this morning. The waiting is killing me! Yes, many of us are his mother's age, but, how many men out there crave younger stars they could never have? Adam is 27, not 16. His talent blazes out of my car, out of my TV, and off my computer. But, what really sends me is the smile, humor and humility. My husband and teenage sons think I am nuts, but, they have admitted that his voice is amazing. Oh well, I'm off to Brigadoon before I go to work........

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chefjeff08 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:39:48 GMT

I am a 52 year old gay man, and for all of my life there has been a term for women- usually approaching middle age, that like to hang out with gay men; they are not cougars- they are *** HAGS. Safe, indulgent eye candy to be seen with.

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AudreyM — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:45:59 GMT

I'm a 66 year old grandmother and have been trying to discover what it is about Adam. I surf about 2 hours daily for information. He makes me feel so young and sexy again - a real stretch in my case. I've been thinking I need therapy until I read this article. Thanks so much, you just saved me thousands of dollars. I will keep on with my obsession. Adam is such a kind person on top of being the sexiest thing since Elvis.

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chefjeff08 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:46:29 GMT

Oh, and Adam and his "ilk" of gay people is NOT anywhere near representative of any gay community- closeted, arrogant, narcissistic, and as a 52 year old gay rock and roller who grew up on mostly 60s and 70s rock-seen the Stones 5 times, the Dead, Rod Stewart, Tina Turner, Bette Midler- a whole gamut of talent; he is NOT a rock and roll star - he is a "look" or a "style"- he is the current Ziggy Stardust or Rocky Horror, or Kiss, etc. wannabe. He will be an afterthought by this time next year, except for any contractual obligations he has to the show. And- what's his real hair like if it's not ironed?.....Will the real, honest Adam Lambert please raise his hand?

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mishy23 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:51:00 GMT

I found this article really interesting, because aside from one woman I know, all the women in their 30's, 40's and 50's that watched Idol all had massive crushes on Kris Allen... whereas all of the tweens and teens loved Adam. I keep reading articles saying it's the other way around, and I just find it interesting that my experience (with friends in multiple states, not just in my town) runs to the contrary.

I definitely see all the points raised in the article, though, and enjoyed a different perspective from my own. I get a kick out of Adam, but Kris... well... that's just a whole other kind of yummy for me, lol.

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chefjeff08 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 12:54:45 GMT

Oh, and for true rock and roll era veterans, Rolling Stone is not one-tenth the publication it used to be; it has become nothing more than a music "People". I subscribed to RS for at least 10 years in its beginning, and as it changed a lot of followers became disillusioned; to go to full gloss magazine was the last draw. The publication has as much credibility with me as Bush. The old RS would NEVER have covered people like the Jonas Brothers, In Sync, etc., except to parody them...

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Luv2Read100 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:03:11 GMT

Oh Brother!!!!!!!

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missmcglambert1982 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:09:02 GMT

To chefjeff08, you must be a sad and lonely person you are and I feel sorry for you. Adam is nothing less than a sensation and we are all on a rollercoaster of a ride with him. What gives you the authority to say that Adam will be an afterthought next year? You think because you are a so called musician you know better well let me tell you, I come from a very musical family, jazz and rock as it happens and I am classically trained myself and I've seen Freddie, Axl, Prince, Bowie, Jack White - all icons and Adam is up there with the best of them. How dare you call us hags, you are so jealous that you are not getting the attention that our incredible Adam so go back to the hole you crawled out of and leave Adam to those who love him.

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Waters Quinn — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:12:07 GMT

Last night after a 10-hour day at work, I did the dishes, walked the dog, read a bedtime story to my seven-year-old and then spent 2 hours alone on YouTube and the American Idol website watching every tidbit and music video I could find on this adorable Freddie Mercury/Steven Tyler/Brett Michaels-from-the-80s reincarnate. This was my private, 48-year-old shame, I kept telling myself. Do-not-bring-this-subject-up-at-the-water-cooler-or-with-your-husband. I do not know what it is about that 27-year-old man-boy that makes me want to see & hear more more more. Until I read this piece, I thought I would be the oldest Adam Lambert fan in the American Idol tour audience. This time it’s going to be waaaay better than using my babysitting money to get 2nd balcony seats to see Peter Frampton at Boston Garden. I'll be in the front row this time and my husband has no idea what he's in for. I can't wait.

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Montana Red — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:13:38 GMT

Get a life

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Pamelas78 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:21:20 GMT

I think we may be seeing a lot more cougar age women at the American Idol Tour concerts. I, for one, will be there, thanks to my daughter buying me tickets for Mother's Day. I cannot wait!!! I feel like a teenager again.

Adam Lambert is the bomb!!! And this is mostly because he not only has the look going on but he has unbelievable vocals!!! I have a 24 year gay son who resides in West Hollywood and has done drag, his drag name is Alaska Thunder**** . I would just die if my son and Adam ended up together, what a dream that would be!!!!!

I love you Adam, you are definitely the best!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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leogorky — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:23:36 GMT

Uh, ladies...he's a gay man...better focus on some other young boy.

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Ellorysgirl — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:38:54 GMT

Cougars (hate that term) love Adam because he is so alike Elvis - the gay part is different, but everything else about him is young Elvis come back to life.

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The Messiah — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:53:54 GMT

Someone needs to get a life...

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schratboy — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:56:57 GMT

This story is 100% confirmation of the pending extinction of media.

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kjhammer — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 13:58:43 GMT

sick, sick, sick

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tomasz — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:00:50 GMT

Yet another hard-hitting piece of investigative journalism from yet another publication going down the tube. Hope Sarah Bell has a day job waiting..what a dope!

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Butch33901 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:06:07 GMT

I agree with schratboy. This article exemplifies the vacuous mindset of both the media and this "journalist". What a joke as to each. Where in the world are these types of "journalists" coming from, they are mindless and stupid..........

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dualienoted — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:08:28 GMT

I find Adam Lambert unintentionally funny, and that's the only entertainment value I can find in him. Sorry, but the kid's tragically hip with an emphasis on the tragic. How anybody can be interested in him either sexually or musically is beyond me. When I heard him screeching Ring of Fire my only desire was to somehow magically reach into the TV screen and pinch his painted lips shut.

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carl6352 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:11:40 GMT

by the way girls your fantasy will remain a fantasy it seems queen was inpressed to offer him rockets job. i guess their tounges were hanging out also. the media has become pathetic. we are on the verge of a total meltdown of america and you do a story on middle age fantasies. it reminds me of the movie clueless i took my daughter to see. she was dating a gay guy and didnt even no it. all i can say newsweek is keep up the good work. NOT!

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jasonk — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:14:42 GMT

GAG ME WITH A TURKEY VULTURE"S HEAD..!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WTF, who cares? so you're obsessed with a gayboy singer narcissist?

I think we've reached the apogee of corruption and puerile mindset when

smart able women regress to being tweens over something as Glambert

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chrispyone — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:14:46 GMT

Hey, does everyone know Adam is on 20/20 Friday night???

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merededeux — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:17:24 GMT

A previous post: "Because he makes us remember the intense feelings of our youth and they are DELICIOUS!!!!" This is exactly right. Do I crave Adam Lambert? I won't go there. But he definitely gives me the urge to step it up a notch in my personal life. It has been YEARS since I felt the need to have that element of hotness in the everyday. I don't mean putting my middle-aged body into a miniskirt and plunging halter. But as the Europeans know, "women of a certain age" have their own hotness. In America, we worship youth, and older women are usually perceived as almost asexual. For whatever reason, Adam reminds me that I am still a sexual being, that my groove is still there, and that life is, indeed, delicious. He is such an incarnation of hot - and everyone who has seen his high school photos knows that he very consciously created/enhanced his hotness - that he is an inspiration even though unattainable. He makes me smile for all of the right reasons - and what more can we ask of our entertainers?

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kentraco — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:18:11 GMT

As a 68-year-old male, I'm old enough to have experienced the phenomenon that was early Elvis.

I do recognize similarities in the impact of Adam Lambert. With all that we've seen and heard since those early days of rock 'n' roll, it's hard to find singers who aren't essentially copies (albeit good ones) of those who have gone before or manufactured to appeal to the largest possible audience. This man has undeniable talent, but he also has a refreshingly unique appeal to people of all ages, genders and persuasions. He's nobody's clone.

Unless one chooses to to denigrate him because he's gay (and I believe he's handled that situation remarkably well), I don't see how we can deny that he's deserving of the success that's bound to be his.

I was about fifteen when Elvis' film "Love Me Tender" was released, and I remember that my grandmother was the first in the family to see it.

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ashleycrow — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:20:22 GMT

You've hit the nail on the head with this one! As for those commenters who criticize Sarah Bell or this publication or the media in general due to this article, well, they're probably the same kind of people who don't consider social science to be real science. Guess what, it is! Feel free to get on back to your basement, your "news," and your huge sense of superiority that's probably born of having your feelings and experiences minimized as a child, and continue pretending that cultural studies don't matter.

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musicfanDE — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:20:45 GMT

I totally agree with this article. Adam Lambert is certainly my guilty pleasure, and I can't get enough of him! I'm glad to know I'm not the only one. While in many ways it doesn't make sense, it's just fun and exciting, and no matter what common sense tells me (he's gay, he's 27! and I'm OLD! lol) it doesn't matter, all that matters is, where can I find more juicy tidbits of information, pictures, videos, etc next? Thanks for the story!

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Piewacket — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:22:43 GMT

Of course Cougars love Adam Lambert, you'd have to be blind & DEAD! not to. He doesn't come

across as a sweet young thing like Kris Allen did. He plays on his looks and sexuality and Cougars,

ie. women 40ish or older remember the bad boys of the(our) 60's and 70's and that's the epitome of

Adam. PLUS, you have to give him credit for his talent & brains. I've watched American Idol for

the last 3 seasons and this was the best one ever. There is no one else like Adam!

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oekgriss — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:26:27 GMT

This article demonstrates a depth of lameness I didn't know was possible even among fans of American Idol.

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AV1RICK — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:27:17 GMT

Hard hitting - investigative? Why the left wing magazines are going down with a bang.

Why not investigate Barney *** and Franklin Raines - who received a $100 MILLION DOLLAR BONUS while Fannie Mae was going down the toilet? I don't see anything written about that GAY boy?

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Older Cougar — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:29:15 GMT

Sarah, hope you don't mind sharing him with his boyfriend. Somehow that doesn't sound like a lot of fun to me.

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SarahTX2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:33:07 GMT

Sorry, you're not a cougar. Cougars actually go out with younger men. And cougars don't lust after gay men. I was entranced with Adam, but the more gay he became, the more I moved on. I think what you're talking about here is having a gay friend

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bobverens — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:36:02 GMT

The hack who wrote this insipid piece should send Drudge a bottle of good bourbon for his link resulting in all these hits & posts. But of course in a few hours, it'll be back to obscurity and grinding out more witless crud until the WashPo decides to pull the plug to help salvage their dwindling resources.

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alwqb — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:36:13 GMT

I am another one who is thinking exactly what you are saying! I actually cried when he lost and can't wait until my Rolling Stone comes in the mail. Hey, now I actually like the political stories. And I am 49 and Adam Lambert is hot, what is wrong with me?

I was a wild child, out to the clubs, dancing till dawn and usually with my gay friends. I had a few crushes there too but Adam Lambert is the total package, that's the thing. He is the rock star boyfriend we all wanted in the day, hot, sexy, styled and talented, complete with guyliner. One we could never take home to mother but boy did we want him. I am not the only one, Yeah!

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SouthernBred — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:37:01 GMT

Cougars like these little Boy/Girls for one of two reasons:

1. They are living their lost youth through a younger girl.

2. They regret not having little girls of their own.

What a disgusting article...we are really becoming a nation of the seriously depraved.

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deedeethom — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:40:31 GMT

you're a moron

you're escaping from reality and obsessed with your self....this is the kind of 'article' that years ago would have been in cosmo

newsweek, sham on you

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johngalt001 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:44:02 GMT

The only women who find Lambert attractive are those who know absolutely nothing about actual MEN.

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deedeethom — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:44:25 GMT

lambert is an opportunist

this is drivel

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susanforadam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:45:00 GMT

Hey Adam - Although we couldn't Get No Satisfaction on the AI results, and for millions you could see the Tracks of their Tears when you didn't win - despite having us all Feeling Good whenever you sang - we all decided it's a Mad World because AT&T freakishly tailor-smsed the wrong winner. But it's Black and White that you're a star - and for you there are No Boundaries. Love Ya! Madly! Huge Success! Oh and expecting a wonderful Bohemian Rhapsody cd ala the Lambert taste grace n style!

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:45:47 GMT

Too funny. A bunch of cougar-wannabes find their perfect cub in the form of a gay singer who wears makeup like a drag queen.

I submit that these women suffer serious emotional issues. You're not cougars. REAL cougars actually meet with young men. You silly women spend half your life Googling Adam Lambert to see what he did each day or what brand of mascara he chose for his evening out.

I hope your daughters had healthy role models somewhere along the way.

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dsoster — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:48:02 GMT

You are obviously NOT a Cougar. And this kind of article is EXACTLY why I no longer subscribe to your magazine. Start reporting on real news without the liberal spin....

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adamfan42 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:54:19 GMT

Ok, so I am 42. Married and have 4 kids. I was absolutely glued to the tv this year for American Idol. I did not miss a show and counted down the days until the next show. I was very upset when he did not win and couldn't even sleep that night. I talked about his loss for days and search daily for new Adam news. I can NOT wait until his first CD comes out in the fall as he signed on with RCA. He is intriguing. His look is so different that the usual people on Idol. He is sweet and I don't care that he is gay. It has nothing to do with his singing ability. I too bought two tickets to the Idol tour. It was sold out in my state of Maine so I am driving 4 hours to NH to see it. I am taking my husband with me. I may have nosebleed seats but I bet I scream louder than any of the tweens to attend and I don't really care if it is politically correct or not. I love this guys ability to intrigue me and the rest of us glambert fans with his awesomeness. ADAM ROCKS!!!!

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w21954 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:55:17 GMT

I believe Sarah Ball is the one with the "square jaw and deep brows."

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nanneebt — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:55:29 GMT

Sarah,

I LOVE this article. I grew up on rock 'n roll, learned how to dance watching Bandstand and am blown away by Adam Lambert. He's not only extremely talented and handsome, but, as anyone who watched the show knows, always very kind and respectful of others. I, too, am old enough to be his mother, but who cares. What fun it is get this excited over a rock star, again. Your article is "right on".

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kentraco — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:56:09 GMT

Another thing I remember from the early Elvis days is how men reacted when women of all ages were so enamored of him.

Here we are - over fifty years later - and nothing has changed.

Ladies, revel in your fantasies. Men certainly have them, and far more often than not they're based purely upon superficial physical characteristics.

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Chicagoen — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:57:29 GMT

I love it! Thank you for explaining why I have a constant craving for the new RS cover and the heart palpitation. He is just delicious inside and out.

Love

Glambert Cougar, IL

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Cee_Cee — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 14:57:57 GMT

This is great. These are exactly my thoughts. Had a wonderful time reading this so thanks for the smiles. As a hard-working professional woman with lots of stress and also too much routine, it's great to embrace the "Girls just wanna have fun" attitude of our 80's youth and I loved the confirmation in your article: "I think more women would be happier if they channeled their inner 14-year-old girls once in a while,"

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leelo4 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:01:55 GMT

C'mon! - to all those 'get a life'/dismissive posts: you guys get a life! I'm truly sorry if you are SO above the fray to dare enjoy the rise of an exciting new star. The point of this article is right on target: those who are taken by Adam are in love with the fun and freshness he brings. He isn't everybody's cup of tea - fine. no problem. but for those who 'get him' - he is wonderful. I have become a a crazy Adam fan - and I'm certainly not sick or disillusioned. I'm simply greatly entertained and inspired by the guy for many reasons. I don't think I even count as a cougar yet (does 29 count as a cougar?). Adam's appeal is broad - and his talent is real. Thank you Sarah Ball for the cute confessional many of us can relate to. to those who can't relate, at least lighten up!

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wawi — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:02:52 GMT

You nailed it, girlfriend. Adam Lambert is H.O.T. Adam obsession is rampant out there and it's really no different than drooling over the most gorgeous diamond on the planet...only it's on someone else's finger. Can't take your eyes off it...sort of like Adam Lambert.

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SouthernBred — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:02:57 GMT

Posted By: kentraco (June 11, 2009 at 10:56 AM)

Another thing I remember from the early Elvis days is how men reacted when women of all ages were so enamored of him.

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Elvis was not gay and did not wear face makeup and fingernail polish (off-TV) and profess his crushes on other men.

Come on Kentraco...really?

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wholelottasomething — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:03:14 GMT

To: Joan I'm feeling your pain (and pleasure). Totally fascinated by this young man---old enough to be his mother. Truly, he helps us remember a happy, earlier time, when freedom and expectation of the unknown were so exciting. The real world has its pain and pleasure (trust me--I have experienced that as well), but Adam has invigorated the imaginations of leagues of females (and probably males as well). You who do not understand: do not begudge us this pleasure as we proceed through the real world every day. A happy escape CANNOT be a bad role model. Sure hope not: I'm a mom and a middle school teacher!

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fangirl4life — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:03:16 GMT

I am so glad somebody said what, let’s be honest here, the majority of us women have been thinking (or fantasizing?). This article’s accuracy made my jaw drop to the floor (almost as much as when I heard Adam Lambert hit the high note for “Change is Gonna Come”). Joan – thank you for making me feel a little less crazy for being a “Glambert,” and even seeking medical opinions to reassure this fact. See you at the NYC show – I will be in front screaming with you!

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newsjunkie88 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:05:37 GMT

I loved this article and could totally relate. And I know why...b/c I thought I was the only 40 year old woman who had a huge crush on Adam Lambert. And yes, I have viewed his you tube video of ring of fire on more than one occasion (and plan on getting it as my ringtone, is that weird?). I even told my husband that he was 'sex on a stick' one night after watching one of his performances. And no, I don't think he will move to my town and we will have a torrid love affair. Gay, straight or whatever, sexy is sexy and he is. All the haters need to relax and let us 'cougars' have a little fun.

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Amused2006 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:07:37 GMT

Wow, I can't imagine why any heterosexual woman would want to have anything to do with this creep. The black nails alone scream GROSS to me. Women who find this guy attractive must be the true daughters of the Men are Evil branch of the Feminist movement. No, the women I know lust after the men of NCIS, Mark Harmon at the top of the list, not to mention David Boreanaz, Sean Connery, Russell Crowe and Mike Rowe from cable's Dirty Jobs show. Ms. Ball might want to get out a bit more.

This is another reason why I cancelled my Newsweek subscription. So glad the rag is investigating this. Why spend time on the Obama administration's idiotic health care reform plans or why it ignores the role of lawyers and lawsuits in the high cost of healthcare? It can't be the millions of dollars that lawyers donate to the Dems that keep tort reform off the table? Way to go, Newsweek, or is that Obamaweek?

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sking42 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:07:37 GMT

Some of you people really need to lighten up!! With all the crap that is going on in the world, if someone wants to ooggle over a good-looking, talented, 27 year old gay guy and the article just happens to be out of an up tight news magazine...what's it to you?? Relax...

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kentraco — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:08:31 GMT

Elvis was not gay and did not wear face makeup and fingernail polish (off-TV) and profess his crushes on other men.

He was derided as being effeminate.

Whether or not he was gay, etc., does not negate the fact that the reaction of men at the time was very similar - until they saw the light and began to emulate him.

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:10:14 GMT

Sarah,

I would advise you to be more careful in your future columns; you have violated the Official Newsweek Editorial Standards, which quite clearly state that your most intense school-girl-crush feelings MUST be reserved for Barack Obama.

That being said, your lapse is somewhat understandable. Adam and Barack share several qualities: Both are overrated. Both are a bit light in the loafers. Both were plucked from obscurity and given artificial "star" status by the media, even though they'd accomplished nothing.

Oh. And even though you lavish your love, praise, and hormonal-driven sycophancy on them, both will return your attention by showing absolutely no interest in your life, your future, your happiness or your well being.

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Enveti — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:12:13 GMT

I'm 54 year old. I want him-----BAD !

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rogerhall — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:12:32 GMT

How lucky you are Sarah to have so many perfectly normal people (who have no faults or foibles of their own) to let you know of your shortcomings! Where would we be without all these wonderful character helpers?

I bet you are relieved to know there are so many extrospective folks who are unable to manage the simplest of personal discussions regarding the every day stuff of living without deeming it worthy of ridicule. I know I would be!

Gee, that Drudge fella must be really something to have so many nice friends. I wonder if he has a website?

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:13:07 GMT

it's called CHARISMA, and Adam just has it for a lot of us. Nothing against the others though...

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women_power — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:13:35 GMT

You won't be the only one over 40 on the tour. I'm "well" over 40 and my seats are as close to the stage as I could get. He is one sexy, talented guy and I want to see the real thing!

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sassy-senior — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:14:05 GMT

I'm a 57 year old Glambert, and was facinated right from his audition. Why, I don't have a clue, but my husband insists it's the reincarnation of my rock days. My 32 year old son finds it a scream that my first ever downloads from itunes are Adam, and I "cut my teeth" burning cd's of him for the car. Maybe they're right. My generation invented "panty throwing" at concerts, and although now in lollypops instead of thongs, we can remember, and Adam brings back the feeling of being young again, for that even my husband is grateful. It may be over the top, but it's exciting to feel like we can relive the 60's and 70's, if only from a recliner. (By the way, for Mother's Day I was given an Adam wrist watch, and I put my diamond one away to don it!)

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:14:08 GMT

Steve090210 is a whiner, haha, did you get bored with FoxNews?

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lilyanne — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:16:20 GMT

I for one find Adam Lambert disturbing. I'm a 44 year old married mother of 3. I've seen all the "different" entertainers out there. Adam Lambert, in my opinion, travels down a road that most gays refuse to travel down. I have a gay friend who actually said "This creep is giving gays a bad name". How in the world can ANY woman find this "man" attractive? He prefers sodomy to heterosexual sex, he wears more make up than Tammy Faye Baker, he's only borderline talented, you take away the lights and the costumes and the music and all the glitter that is "Adam Lambert" and you don't have much left. Have any of you so called "cougars" gone to a campus of ANY art institute lately? You can find guys like this weirdo all over the place. He's not "cutting edge", people like him are a dime a dozen. I seriously think that you women should sit down and seriously get your priorities straight. This man is STRANGE. He now admits to doing a whole pharmacy's worth of illegal drugs. I suppose THAT'S OK TOO? My goodness, this SECOND COMING OF CHRIST THAT IS ADAM LAMBERT IS ALLOWED TO DO DRUGS. Great guy to have on a talent show geared towards youth. A cross dressing gender bending homosexual drug abuser.

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SarahTX2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:17:02 GMT

I bet Adam is totally cringing.

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iambrian142 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:19:53 GMT

This is exactly why no woman should ever be President of the United States. Oh wait, we have one now.

Sorry

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:20:17 GMT

Look, something about this really offends me.

It's fine if you want to call yourself a "Cougar," and lust after Adam. That's fine.

But do NOT use his name in the same breath as Steven Tyler, Rod Stewart, Mick Jagger, etc. These are REAL stars, who started their own bands, created great music, toughed it out, and actually earned the fame they enjoy.

Adam is not in their class. He is more in the class of the "effeminate teen idols" of the 60's and 70's. You know, the ones that girls were drawn to because they were safe, appeared to be innocent, and even had some girlish qualities about them. Sort of like Herman from Herman's Hermits, who even wore lipstick for his photo shoots. Or, David Cassidy and Bobby Sherman.

Please -- have all the crushes you want. But keep things in perspective, and do not try to group Adam in with self-made (rather than prefabricated) talents.

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iambrian142 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:20:46 GMT

HOLY HOMOSEXUAL BATMAN

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kissxtra — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:20:47 GMT

Nice article. I'm fairly close to Adam Lambert's age, but still feel kinda silly and goofy at times with my bigger than life crush on him. Heck, he's given me some kind of motivation to actually hook up with someone of the male sex again! (I'm not gay, but was on a hiatus!)Thankfully, there are MANY other people out there who share the same crush and many of the same feelings! It's fabulous to be able to share my love of Adam with them! Though some Glamberts are old enough to be my mother or grandmother... and others are young enough to be my child.. it's great that we all have one thing in common: absolutely loving this beautiful, artistic, talented, sincere superstar! Rock on, fellow Glamberts <3

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Jersey Nonny — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:21:55 GMT

Actually, I'm old enough to be his grandmother, and I had a thread on an AI site called Cougars For Adam. It got a lot of posts from women young enough to be my daughters. My own daughter is 46, and both of us would call each other after the show amazed by his voice, his looks, his demeanor. We were convinced he would win. But, we still think he's the greatest and can't wait for his album to come out. Whatever the psychological and/or physiological attraction, Adam definitely has the "It Factor".

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wilmingtongirl — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:22:23 GMT

I dont get it. I watched him and he did nothing for me. The Idol winner, however, is adorable.

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pressurecooker — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:22:31 GMT

It seems that most of the negative responses are from men. Some if the aggresively negative comments are probably from men who couldn't get any woman to drool over them unless they force fed her one of their polident foaming denture cleansers. Just a thought: why do you care who we drool over ?

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iambrian142 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:22:54 GMT

Hey Sarah, I bet your all hot and bothered for BRUNO as well.

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sking42 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:25:45 GMT

Hit a nerve lilyanne?

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iambrian142 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:28:24 GMT

This is why women shouldnt be allowed in school or allowed to vote and trust me pressurecooker, your fat ass would love my hot body. Unfortunately, I WOULDNT GIVE YOU THE TIME OF DAY. Now go eat a weenie, assmunch

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kissxtra — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:29:12 GMT

And to Steveo90210: Are you kidding? Adam is far from being an "effeminate teen idol". If you think a Justin Timberlake or Jonas-Clone something could make this many people... in this many different age groups respond how he has.. then you are kidding yourself. Safe? Innocent? Yeah, I can't imagine the Jonas Brothers smoking some weed, doing a little drag, going out into the desert to find themselves and gyrating their way into not only the hearts, but the sexy dreams of girls from 12-80. The David Cassidy comment made me completely cringe. WOW.

Adam Lambert is a real star. He's far from prefabricated - go check out some of his work pre-Idol. Just because he's not a 60-something, grizzled vet doesn't make him a teeny bopper flash in the pan.

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iambrian142 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:30:08 GMT

actually, im only kidding, Oh I want him so bad. If my daughter ever aspires to have a guy like this come over to my house while she's living here with me, its LIGHTS OUT ADAM LIGHTS THE F OUT

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bougie1 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:30:24 GMT

Very interesting but I have to weigh in now with the name Robert Pattinson. All of my friends are crazy over our daughter's heart throb from the Twilight movie. Maybe we are just hankering for our youth . I was also a Kris Allen groupie from Idols by the way!

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kissxtra — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:30:56 GMT

And yes - I believe most of the negative responses are from men because they are jealous that women would rather have sex (oh.. and listen to) a 27-year-old gay man. That has to be emasculating.

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skissable — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:33:10 GMT

I'm 35 years old, and I have it bad for Adam....

If my boyfriend is 26, does that make me a cougar?

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:33:53 GMT

Stana99,

You're right. Thanks for catching my mistake. Newsweek does not and never has shown any political bias, and anyone who thinks so is a Fox News Junkie. However, since I think Sean Hannity is a complete and insufferable idiot, and I don't watch Fox News, then I must not have really meant what I said.

Thanks for correcting me -- and for doing so with such a rapier-sharp wit! Next time someone disagrees with me, I'll acuse them of watching a cable TV network. Do you mind if I use your exact words?

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:34:17 GMT

wowwww so much hostility! why do you all care if some people find Adam Lambert to be charismatic and attractive and talented?? Why in the world does that offend you? He's 27 years old, he's been involved in theater and music for years, why begrudge him some fans when he gets national exposure on a show like this? I kinda think he's this generation's Freddie Mercury, but God forbid I offend a Freddie Mercury fan that thinks Adam hasn't earned the comparison. Lighten up people, it's just entertainment :)

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sanfla52 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:36:29 GMT

This article is totally accurate. I'm way over 40, 57 to be exact. And I was never into the rock type music that Adam likes, but I like HIM singing it. And everything else he does. I feel like I'm going through "withdrawl" not that I can't see him every Tuesday night! I can't even get seats for the local Idol tour, they are sold out.... I don't care that he is gay, or that he wears black polish. I like his talent, and who he is, as much as I've seen on interviews and such. Yea I definitely feel "young" again when I watch him. I told a co-worker I love his music, but even more so, I love to WATCH him singing the music. I want some Adam Lambert concert DVD's!!!

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:38:13 GMT

Pressurecooker.....Even at nearly 50 I have no problem getting the attention of a woman though I would prefer they not drool.

I don't "care" who you drool over. You drool anywhere for any reason you like. However, I do have an opinion and until Lord Obama takes my First Amendment right away from me I'll happily exercise such right to opine.

I believe that as an adult woman your regressive behavior of cooing and drooling over a 27 year old rock star shows a significant lack of emotional maturity. You proudly brag of your lust for this man exactly as I remember the young teen girls did for Bobby Sherman in the early '70's. As Virginia Slims would say, "You've come a long way baby!" After nearly 40 years you've not changed one bit emotionally. That is pathetic, sad and disturbing to most adults.

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peteto1 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:39:16 GMT

The ONLY thing more PATHETIC than a slut is an OLD slut!! No real woman would be attracted to this sad, emotionally troubled sissy-boy......

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tenthlevelprophet — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:39:43 GMT

ah yes how things have changed:

When I was young all this being said about cougars were said about older men.

Now the joke goes like this:

A man and a woman are talking the man says:

"They call a man with a young woman Lecherous. What do they call a woman with a young man?"

The woman replies:

"They call her smart!"

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buddito — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:39:59 GMT

Lady, you said it all. Being almost 56, Adam Lambert woke me up, body, mind, and soul!!!!!!

Just plop him at Vegas for the next 10 years. He can be the new "Wayne Newton, Liberace,Rat Pack" headliner. His voice and sexiness sends me through the roof!!!!!!! Could he please do a duet with George Michael? Lambert, Bowie , and George!!!!!! In concert together? Nothing could keep me away!!!!!!

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austin06 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:40:22 GMT

Although I hate the title of the article and my "obsession" is not nearly enough to even consider going to the AI tour, I do know what you mean about Adam's attraction and you make some good points.

Perhaps many of us were, as I was and still am, a huge rock/punk/dance fan. From the age of 15, I snuck out of the house to hear bands as often as I could. Later in my 20's I used to frequent the gay clubs and dance all night (as many of us did). This was a completely different time - pre AIDS, lots of drug experimentation. Adam definitely brings back those memories of the androgyny glam, rock, punk singers of that time. And remembering that period of time in my life does make me also think of who I was then, the person who was going to be a writer, artist, musician, who was experimenting with life and trying different things...something we all do less of as we get older.

I also think we do recognize (at our ages) his subtle and not so subtle sexuality. It's clear he's a very sexual person and I find that appealing because I am too. I've flirted with straight and gay people (I am straight), and seeing someone who puts that out there is, well, stimulating.

And for all of you tight-asses out there who don't get this or what the author is trying to say, AND think we're somehow a pathetic, depraved group of women - too bad. My life has been and will always be about exploring new things, pushing the limits, and not accepting the status quo. Adam reminds me of my youth, before Reagan and the Bush' and the religious right turned us into conservative conformists.

Sorry if you think we 40 y olds should all be getting ready for blue hair and perms. Like many of us, I plan to be "rocking" , maybe with pink hair, for many years to come.

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Jennifer65 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:40:36 GMT

Wow. And you wonder why no one buys these magazines anymore. Waste of paper!

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:42:30 GMT

Skissable,

Do not feel the need to label yourself anything. I, for one, think the phrase "cougar" is sort of silly.

You're 35, and you're having sex with someone who is 26. There are pros and cons to that. But you've found another human being that you like, and you're interacting with him. Hopefully, the two of you have positive feelings for each other, and you make each other happy. My last girlfriend was 8 years younger than me. My current one is 7 years older.

There is no need to put a name on your relationship.

However, if you are not having sex with anyone, or not in love, and are writing articles about your feelings about a gay singer that you will never meet, there IS a word for that. And it's not "cougar."

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:43:08 GMT

stanaa99....maybe you didn't read the article or many of the responses. His entertainment value isn't the issue. It's the bizarre fantasy these cougar-wannabes are espousing that is the real issue.

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spro — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:45:01 GMT

This cougar agrees 100 percent!

I hadn't watched Idol for years. Then I happened to catch Adam singing Play That Funky Music and I was hooked.

Can't wait to buy his CD.

By the way, peteto1, you don't know much about women.

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:47:14 GMT

I wonder how many of these "cougars" have renamed their Pocket Rocket, "Adam".

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kentraco — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:48:12 GMT

One benefit of the internet is that we are now able to sit in judgment of a lot more people.

Another is that idiots are no longer confined to their own villages.

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:49:06 GMT

stanna99,

You're the one who started with the insults. I posted a note that was directed at Sarah, and told her what I thought about her article. That's what this people do here. However, you decided to isolate my comment and say something about me that was untrue.

"If I wanna insult, that's okay. But if you make a comeback, then it's a hostile world and I can't handle it. Wah wah wah!"

Perhaps you are too emotionally sensitive for the Internet. I recommend that you log off and seek a therapist who can help you deal with your inability to handle the big, cruel world, and possibly even work through your feelings about Adam.

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rogerhall — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:49:07 GMT

Steve, I believe the word you are looking for is "writer".

Happy to serve!

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:49:09 GMT

Steveo, I guess I just didn't understand why you made this political. I mean, different ballpark entirely. It's just a lighthearted article, I don't think this relates to Newsweek's liberal bias. but I do agree with you about Hannity now that you mention it.

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nirak — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:50:53 GMT

I am not sure if you can call a 72 year old married woman a cougar, but it has been a long time a singer his age could hold my attention.

My prediction is Adam Lambert will make it big and not just in North America while little Kris will sing mostly at country fairs .

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:51:55 GMT

yikes! chillout, nothing was meant to be an insult! my apologies

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Steveo90210 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 15:59:29 GMT

stana99,

My comment was rooted in my belief that most publications have COMPLETELY lost the ability to write anything of any substance at all. They've replaced insight, honesty, and investigative reporting with drivel that is based on their own feelings. So, they're happy to print any schlock, even if it serves only to dumb-down their publications. Sarah has done it here, and the rest of their journalists do it in the news, editorial, and business sections.

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Enron — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:00:26 GMT

Wow Lilyanne! Maybe you should start doing a whole pharmacy's worth of illegal drugs! take a pill for crying out loud! We are certainly entitled to crush on whomever we choose...because you find him repulsive than everyone else should? Are you the next coming of Christ? Yeah,,,didn't think so.

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shadolade — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:04:18 GMT

Well hear this---I am a 73 yr old Grandma and proud that people think I am in my 50's. Therefore I am happy to say I could be a cougar as I am totally over the top over Adam. I just love this guy as he is the sexiest man since Elvis. His smile, his demeanor, his body and his voice has me waiting for his first cd to come out. America got it wrong when he didn't get the Idol title but he will overcome just like Daughtery and Hudson.

Go Adam--be whatever you want to be as your cougars will always be there!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Love ya

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Jessicasmiles — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:04:29 GMT

Amused2006: Who are you friends with that drool over the men you listed? Mark Harmon? Mike Rowe? If I wanted a sex symbol who looked and screwed like my grandfather, I might crave Sean Connery or those other two. Definitely not my cup o' tea. As for Crowe, he's not bad when he's down about 40 lbs. You tell this journalist to get out more? Who is the one drooling over some guy who shovels crap on TV for viewer enjoyment?

As far as pure sexiness, Adam Lambert tops off my list with Josh Holloway an almost indistinguishable second. There's a lot of other good looking men out there.. Zachary Quinto, Jared Leto, Gerard Butler, Paul Rudd... but the day I have a sexy dream about Mark Harmon is the day I find a new lover.

There's a big difference in who I wouldn't mind my father looking like.. and who I'd like engage in illicit activities with.

PS: Why are so many conservative freaks blasting Lambert and throwing in their Obama hatred? Why so angry? Need to get some action? Get over your dry spell, and then come back telling us how great Obama is and how much you want Adam Lambert to give it to you up the butt. I'll pretend not to act surprised.

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addictedtoadam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:04:46 GMT

Wow, the angry men posting on this site are certainly rattled by women's enthusiasm/lust for Adam. How did those men find this article, by searching for Adam Lambert like the millions of women who are fascinated with him? Why are they here, out of jealousy or their own secret fascination for Adam? Or did they go to the Newsweek site, while complaining that they canceled their subscriptions because of the liberal content? I am a 48-year old mom, and I think the article is written perfectly in its reflection of the way many of my friends and I feel about Adam. He is an amazing performer, the most exciting to come along in a long time. I, too, will be at the AI concert, screaming for Adam. He is a study in social science, which is a perfectly legitimate study in human nature. Adam is "news" this "week", and for those of you who are searching for political, national, or world news, go find it, instead of taking the time to post on a site pretending you don't lust for Adam yourself.

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Dansterpower — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:04:49 GMT

I am so happy I mastered my sexuality and no longer need to date women to find peace, joy, excitement, happiness and love.

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pressurecooker — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:05:12 GMT

It appears I provoked the ire of some of the men. Apparantly you do care who we drool over. Sorry,

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Dansterpower — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:08:21 GMT

<b>kissxtra</b>

Nah, not emasculating at all -- Just proves my theory further that most women have no maturity, discipline, or sound judgement despite desires and actions feigned to the contrary.

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Kee Kee — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:09:25 GMT

Loved the article - ditto!! My four sisters and I invented a drink after Adam - we call it a Glambertini. It's a rhubarb martini. After one hesitant sip... you're hooked - you can't get enough. Yummy! These cougars will buy his cds, and concert tickets. He has an amazing voice and a stage presence to match. We are going to an AI concert just to see Adam perform. He is fearless on stage. The notes he can reach are crazy. Cougars units, and let's launch this star!!

PS. The coolest thing is, our husbands 'get it'.

PSS. Wouldn't you love to party with Adam? Or shop with Adam? Me, too.

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Damn_Gina — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:10:40 GMT

RE: Posted By: iambrian142 (June 11, 2009 at 11:28 AM)

hahhahhhahh L...O...L ... Okay so iambrian142 has a hot bod does anyone find this funny.

First of all, what the hell is this guy doing sitting around on the computer all worked up over Adam (if he's so HOT? he would definitely have better things to do.)

Second, what does he find so interesting to actually stick around and post naked-male-insecurity remarks (STEVEO90210)

hahhahhahhahhahhahhaaaaaaaa!!! LMAO sorry I coudn't help I had to laugh for a minute...

Okay much better now, so Third, can you just picture these guys sitting at their computers, i'm sure there is a label for these guys, however, I've got to leave it to your imagination. I'm sure you already have an idea.

Okay still LMAO... I couldn't help but share, I just found it funny and interesting that they had to take the time out of their day, breathing valuable life, to show that they are butt hurt for some reason or another (pun intened)

hhahhahhahha!!!!! L..................O...................L

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addict42 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:11:24 GMT

Too funny, so much passion over an article that shows how dopey 40-something women can become. Also I love Steveo's comments, which are true to the extent that vapidness and elections go hand in hand in America. Let's face it marketing and selling can make anyone a star or a politician.

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Jessicasmiles — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:11:58 GMT

Amused2006: Who are you friends with that drool over the men you listed? Mark Harmon? Mike Rowe? If I wanted a sex symbol who looked and had sex like my grandfather, I might crave Sean Connery or those other two. Definitely not my cup o' tea. As for Crowe, he's not bad when he's down about 40 lbs. You tell this journalist to get out more? Who is the one drooling over some guy who shovels poo on TV for viewer enjoyment?

There's a big difference in who I wouldn't mind my father looking like.. and who I'd like engage in illicit activities with.

PS: Why are so many conservative freaks blasting Lambert and throwing in their Obama hatred? Why so angry? If I had the ability to send you all Carebears, I would.

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neocon57 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:12:56 GMT

lib and looney

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rogerhall — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:14:06 GMT

What a great question! Can something labled "Pop Vox" be taken for an attempt at pure journalism? That's a thinker.

Are we safe as Americans if people are allowed to write about Fine Art and Pop Culture?

Perhaps we could check http://www.publicintegrity.org/, where personal stories are few and far between and none of the columnists write under labels that scream "this story and it's content are ephemeral". That might help us decide.

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chloeev — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:16:49 GMT

OK. So I said it from the beginning of the season...Adam has the IT factor going for him. It does not matter what sexual orientation he has, he has what Elvis had. You want to watch this guy.

The night he wore the suit and combed his hair back and had those sexy eyes going, I fell in love all over again! I am considered not only one of the over 40...but one of the barely over 50!

I would never go to the Idol tour but like someone else said, I would make it to this one to see Adam. He is a crowd pleaser. I don't care what people say. He puts everything out there when he performs.

He really should've been the winner. I really think Chris won by default somehow. This is the true IDOL!

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Dobe Lover — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:17:06 GMT

OMG! That article could have been written by me! I know I must be insane for the man when I was on the road at 5AM hunting for the latest Rolling Stone! FINALLY found it, whew.I am 54 and I wont apoligize for being totally head over heels.LOVE YA ADAM!

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Jessicasmiles — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:18:33 GMT

Danster,

Are you joking?

Of course men feel emasculated by the fact women would rather have sex with someone who is gay, yet actually exudes more raw sexual power than most straight men. As far as your barbaric opinions of women: Maturity? Discipline? Sound judgement? Which rock have you been hiding under?

As far as I can tell, "your kind" is still choosing women based on their breast size and other ridiculous traits. That's some amazing maturity! Discipline? How about all the men that cheat on their wives and molest little children? See.. how does it feel? Thank goodness I'm intelligent enough to know that not all men (or even most - loved your delicate wording) aren't like that. As a basic human rule, generalizing is a pretty dumb thing. You end up "generally" making yourself look like a real tool.

This is why we like Adam Lambert better than you.

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Enron — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:19:41 GMT

LMAO Jessicasmiles!! Loved the PS...I think it's hyterical that "people" are using this forum to air their frustrations about Obama. What he has to do with Adam Lambert I will NEVER understand...Love Adam AND Obama!! Oh no! Here comes the Lynch Mob!!! Losers...

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Enron — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:21:33 GMT

Oh and PS...at the top of the Article it says "By: Joan Raymond"...NOT Sarah Ball.

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hootie1004 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:22:10 GMT

Angry Men... NOT!!!!!....STUPID BITCH .....Hell Yes!!

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chicagoray — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:22:23 GMT

Note To Author:

Your open love letter begging for a night with American Idol *** Adam belongs on the inner pages of Penthouse Forum, not a political mag, even though this one hit rag status long ago. For goodness sakes lady, get a grip on yourself and for this insult to your paying clientele, your editors should all be fired for taking this once American Iconic magazine to the internet soft porn sewer you just took your readers through.

Tell us....will you and your horny little liberal tribe be stripping down and sending your gay fantasy lover some middle aged sexting shots while all your hormones are still raging like middle school cheerleaders? Please share, will News WEAK be featuring those in a centerfold for us all in next weeks edition between your Ménage à Trois fantasies about being swept off your feet by Chairman MaObama and Biceps Michelle?

oh and BTW,,,,,,Subscription canceled

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:24:47 GMT

Dobe Lover...you are a fine example of why this type of behavior is not normal by any standard. Don't apologize. Your wackiness and insane behavior are what make you so cute.

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curasow — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:31:06 GMT

I am still laughing as well, looks nowdays the real artist are not promoted anymore...

<a href="http://www.emixt.com"><b>Regards,</b></a>

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Clueless7 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:32:40 GMT

After reading the title of this article I had to google "cougars". How wonderful it is to be absolutely clueless about something so pathetic. Grow up, people . . . adolescence is over! The sad thing is, I know many adolescents who are more mature than many of you. A 54-year-old male with a life.

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Damn_Gina — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:36:05 GMT

OMG did you see the idoit CHICAGORAY waaaawaaaa i'm cancelling my subscription waaaaawwaaa!!

Go cry somewhere else we don't care about you....waaaawaaaaaa

Won't stop loving Adam

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stana99 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:38:18 GMT

Steveo,

Okay, I have to say I agree with you. I am a university professor (not that it matters at all) and I'm appalled when i go to cnn.com and half of the 'news' bullets are bullshit stories about Brangelina etc. So yeah, point taken. I still don't think the point requires Obama bashing though :)

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Enron — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:38:34 GMT

Hey Hootie! Sounds quite angry to me...and it's not nice to call "chicagoray" a stupid bitch. Where are your manners??? Lmao!!

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ZsaZsa Down the Street — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:40:46 GMT

Madam: you are a kook.

Is this what Newsweek has come to? Pathetic.

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linnpa — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:41:52 GMT

Let me get this straight a poofter in tight pants make these middle aged women weak in the knees? No wonder we have that pantywaist Obama for president. Is there a fund for these ladys where we can donate money for their battery operated toys?

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71 plus — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:44:03 GMT

You 40-55 yr olds are not alone..I, at age 71 plus, actually WROTE (after the AI finale)to Adam Lambert, Super Star!! (I've never written to any 'celebrity' before) I always did love Elvis...loved his music..still do and OH MY...do I EVER see Elvis Presley in Mr. Adam Lambert. He's got it...he's really got it. That wonderful spellbinding "IT" is what all persons bound for superstardom possess. No doubt in my mind that Adam should have won AI He was and is the BEST!. Loved reading this article by Joan Raymond...too funny, a little over the top but basically RIGHT-ON in my estimation.

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pressurecooker — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:47:10 GMT

Well I'm off to work but just a note to the author of this article;Good job! Look how worked up you got people whether it's pro or con. I believe that's what journalism is all about,reporting on all current events and getting people to talk about them.

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Enron — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:51:23 GMT

linnpa:

Put a fish-net stccking in it.

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Rick D — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:55:10 GMT

What an utter waste of my time. Newsweek stands bei=hind this twaddle? No wonder magazine sales are so low.

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:55:37 GMT

Sara Ball -- you have described me to a "T"! I laughed so loud as I read this the tears were streaming down my cheeks! Adam made me feel like a 14-year old girl again -- giddy and excited! (I'm 50+) I thought I was having a mid-life crisis -- but if this is how a MLC feels... bring it on!!! :-D

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_sjoconnor — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:56:59 GMT

OMG, this is such a great article. I really had been wondering why someone had not looked into this crush we all have on Adam Lambert. My husband thinks it's funny and cute but he is tolerating it well since he loves music as well and is a musican. My kids are looking at me like they do not know me anymore. I just point to my Beatle albums and go....see, I like cute boys who sing no matter how old I get, OK?

I am one of those women who was channel surfing and my clicker got sweaty because I hit upon Adam singing and without realizing it started squeezing the dame thing! I was blown away and I never get blown away by anything anymore--hey, I saw the Beatles growing up live and also stood at the foot of the stage right in front of Paul McCartney at his lst US Wings tour so, I am, I thought--all done with that idol stuff. But obviously, thanks to Adam Lambert, I guess I'm not.

It is a little embarrassing but now thanks to this article I can come out of the closest and admit that I find Adam Lambert one sexy hunk of talented man and I too, am old enough to be his mother!

I hope Adam's mom and dad are having as much fun as we are seeing him zoom into popularity and get on the cover of Rolling Stone!

Anyway, I envy those who are buying the AI tickets. That is where my husband is drawing the line and I dont' want to go by myself--I haven't lost all of my brain. But he said if Adam does do a concert tour solo he will glady go with me--but not to see those other AI people.

I hope that someone will start one of those sites that people can write in and report their experiences of attending a certian rock concert. That way all of Adam's fans who feel too foolish to go can read others experiences of the AI tour.

PS. It seems that some people feel they need to put Adam Lambert in a Google search every day to catch up with all of the Adam news. But all you have to do is go to the Google page, then News and sign up for all the news on the web about Adam. Google will collect the news about Adam send it to you daily in your email box! I have read things I would have never seen without doing that. It's a great tool and keeps you up to date on any site who write a story about him and saves time as well.

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dimperio2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:57:51 GMT

hahaha I just tallied and the women who love Adam on this discussion site rate a lot higher than the men and women who bash them.

Get a life. Let the cougars have our fun. For God's sake men - are you telling me that you have never lusted after some blonde tennis player young enough to be your daughter? Yea, sure.

This is called FUN and we are called MUSIC fans and I was in love with rock stars my entire childhood starting at 11 with Elton John and David Bowie. Because they are gay? No - because they say here I am - they have brilliant talent and they are actually different. Not a carbon copy of some machine called pop.

Adam rules. Ya'll who are mean? SUCK. Bad karma coming if you keep bashing the women who are for ONCE having a little fun in their hard working, intelligent lives.

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 16:59:10 GMT

oops... cited wrong author in my comment... meant Joan Raymond. Sorry Joan!

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washdcgirl1123 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:02:06 GMT

I really hope when I become an older woman, I would never refer to myself as a "cougar" or would be obessed with some tool from American Idol. I am sure in my 40's and beyond, I will never be this pathetic.

I figured his fanbase was the same fanbase that crazy dude Taylor Hicks had. Yeah, those cougars got him real far. Poor Adam, I feel for the guy. His career is over if he has Clay Aiken type fans.

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westwingpotus — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:02:24 GMT

Linnap: LOL...At you.

I wondered how long it would be until some nimwit managed to bring obama and politics into the discussion no matter how far-fetched or unrelated. It just shows how completely out of touch you are with anything current or real.

And for the rest of you outraged by the coverage ina news publication (i.e. you're actually mad a gay guy is getting positive coverage) what in the world were you thinking when you clicked on the POP VOX link? Did you actually think by going to the pop culture section of the site you were going to get an in-depth analysis of the middle-east issues? Just so you know, for future reference, you would need to click on the Nation, Politics or World links. They are right there at the top of your screen. Right next to the culture link that you clicked on to get here. Go ahead click on them.

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NateParkview — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:05:13 GMT

RE: Steveo90210 initial comment - Regarding the value of this article, I think based on the responses of so many women on here, the author did touch upon and accurately describe a cultural phenomenon. To be sure, the piece is not Pulitzer worthy, but the subject itself does merit description. While I disagree with you, I applaud you in putting thought into your comments. I cannot say the same for some same for a few others...

hootie1004 and iambrian142 - I can only hope you are 14 year old boys who who are using this forum to vent your feelings of inadequacy, sexual confusion, etc, because your diatribes ooze a disturbing anger towards gays and women. For the sake of yourself and the rest of society, please seek treatment. Also, I hope you will eventually learn that women AND men worth obtaining the attention of appreciate a man with an open and kind mind. Intolerance and misogyny are NOT sexy.

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SeeingI — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:08:20 GMT

Wait, so chest stubble is attractive to cougars? I am a gay man and I think it looks awful - a styling DON'T that is sadly endemic. Either wax it off, or wear it proudly, men!

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dianalo — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:13:31 GMT

I am in my 40s, married with 2 kids and find Adam sexy. While I don't fantasize about "doing him" as I would about Gilles Marini and some other hot stars, I do see the appeal. What is striking about him for me is that his staging, guyliner, clothes, etc... are not necessary. His vocal ability is unbelievable. All the packaging is a lovely bonus and adds to the fun immensely. I think his voice alone would/should make him a star but the charisma and showmanship make him a superstar. I can't remember the last time someone else came along so explosively. I am so tired of all the clones out there who sound alike and are mostly the sum of all the packaging and studio correction. Adam's voice is a gift and the fact that he does not just show up and sing, but puts such effort and energy to make each song an experience, is what really does it for me. I can't imagine ever being bored by an Adam performance. The boy will never just "dial it in". There are few stars who are worth buying a ticket for and seeing in concert, but Adam tops my list. He is like a young Elton John reincarnate in that regard. Not everyone will "get" his showmanship, but his talent is overwhelming to anyone with even half an open mind. Those who hate him do so for non-musical reasons and should ask themselves why the need to get so upset by someone who is just doing his thing.

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dimperio2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:22:41 GMT

washdcgirl1123 you must just be a ton of fun. Tool? Really? What singers do YOU like? Why the anger at Adam?

I'm sure it makes you feel good to feel smarter than us 40-somethings. I used to think I was smart at 21 too. Ha!

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Adam's Eve — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:34:17 GMT

His confidence, his voice, his swagger and the way he exudes sexuality is why women find him attractive. Younger women and preteens and teens find him attractive. But why older women? Now that we are older and more mature he is what we all would have loved to have been like at that age. Sexy, confident, a swagger adn totally comfortable with who we are. It goes way deeper than looks or as one poster so shallowly put it chest stubble. It is his personna, his voice, the style, the whole package. It has nothing to do at all with his sexual orientation.

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Leeskerette — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:47:28 GMT

To laurac555: I posted earlier (and I DO mean EARLIER - like at 3:30 in the morning), and meant to say that, although so many posts here are wonderful and relatable, yours is a real gem - emotional, direct and touching. I just wanted to give you a hug. To the haters who have posted: You sure are amazingly fascinated by this phenomenon you've taken your time to ridicule. I wonder (but not really) what preoccupations you harbor, and i wonder if they're as harmless as ours. Get a life - and try to make it your own.

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bedof nails — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 17:58:52 GMT

Wow, I thought this was the entertainment section. Thanks for the much needed humor break, Sarah, and for capturing the disposition of us 'over 40' Galmberts so perfectly. I've been trying to figure out just what it is about Mr. Lambert that gets to me. The 70's -esque glam? The dark, androgynous aura? Echoes of Prince and Bowie? A vicarious foray into past youth, sex and rebellion? He is gifted, no doubt, but many young, beautifulartists of all persuasions are. I’m straight, married, wouldn’t trade my life. I certainly don’t yearn to be 20 again. I just can’t seem to get enough of this guy. My iphone is replete with all his songs and videos. I surf for Adam news when I’m at work. I relive Whole Lotta Love obsessively in my head. It’s like a porn addiction. What a relief to know it’s not just me :). I only hope Adam remains undaunted by all this craziness, and true to his music, his integrity and himself. If all this makes me an 'old slut', so be it. I'm thrilled to just sit back , revel in the moment and appreciate the show.

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OhSHush — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:07:05 GMT

Dear Adam: Don't read this...

Adam is a sweet enough kid, some theatrical talent, BUT:-0- sex appeal to women.

I am of cougar age,

I Loved DAVID COOK... Spent plenty of $$'s on Cook...

Adam is nowhere near cougar bait! Just because he's gay Liberal establishments

like Newsweek, & Hollywood are using

all kinds of tactics to help him sell records... DO NOT Insult our intelligence

If he puts out an incredible** record, mayyybe I ll consider it but "COUGAR BAIT"?

Definitely not.

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technocrat — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:14:19 GMT

just whiny pinings of an over-the-hill whoredog.

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Twin40mom — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:22:57 GMT

Great quote Kentraco!!! You nailed it!

RESPONSE TO:

Posted By: kentraco (June 11, 2009 at 11:48 AM)

One benefit of the internet is that we are now able to sit in judgment of a lot more people.

Another is that idiots are no longer confined to their own villages.

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Mariyas — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:24:27 GMT

I'm over 50 leading a serene life until ADAM emerged in AI. He captured me from his audition. I was just stunned when he owned that AI stage with his electrifying performance of Black or White. I was stunned. I became addicted and fanatic from there on.. I just come to realize I've not screamed for a long long time in excitement. I'm loving it that ADAM has got me excited about life again. He has a life changing effect on the screaming generation of fans from Elvis, Beatles, Michael jackson etc. He has the same effect as the panty throwing fans of Tom Jones. I cyber stalk him all AI season and more so now so I can have my ADAM fix. I'm not the only one but all my friends here in Hong Kong. We're simply ADAM addicted.

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SarahTX2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:30:45 GMT

OMG, you are not cougars! Please stop this. Cougars go out with actual real younger men. Not fantasize about a young gay man. The women cooing on this site are embarrassing and very unlikely to actually get a younger man. Stop re-defining the term "cougar". It does not include women pathetically trying to make their husbands jealous with a young man on American Idol who wears eyeliner and black nail polish. No real man would ever be jealous of that.

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Mattersmost — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:42:22 GMT

I remember when Newsweek was a NEWS magazine. Welcome to People Magazine, Part 2.

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 18:55:05 GMT

awwww SarahTX2 -- you're no fun! You say we're embarrassing? embarrassing to whom? We're just having some fun here... and it's really quite liberating. This has nothing to do with trying to make anyone jealous - it's just harmless fantasy. And hey, if it allows us to dust off some long-forgotten playfulness in our lives.... then ROCK ON!

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jamespfitz — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:00:53 GMT

To Author:

Re: Cougars and Adam Lambert

Do you have a mother? Is she proud of what you do? Does she show your work to her friends with pride?

This is trash. Your magazine is trash. And if this is indicative of the depth of your thought process -- even on pop culture -- you are trash.

The American public deserves better than trash-- no matter that it "sells".

If your mom isn't ashamed of your part in this, I am ashamed for her.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Jessicasmiles — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:09:07 GMT

OhSHush: How can you say AL has 0 sex appeal for women? Have you browsed the Internet - his official site or any of the hundreds of other sites with Glamberts of all ages pretty much worshipping him?

I'm a woman and I'm definitely not a cougar (..yet), but I find Adam Lambert to be one of the most attractive guys I have ever seen in my life. Looks, artistic talent, demeanor, etc. I could care less who he's having sex with, as most other Glamberts would concur - we really don't care. He's amazingly talented, much moreso than David Cook (in my opinion) and I have never found Cook attractive in the least - physically or otherwise.

I'm a woman who has had fairly healthy relationships (I'm not a man-hater, as some have speculated about the Glamberts) and I think Adam lambert is damn sexy. No one - not American Idol, not the media, not my peers - no one has forced that opinion on me. The first time I saw Adam Lambert and heard his beautiful voice, I was hooked. Further investigation into his previous work cemented my opinion - he was is a great performer. Don't presume to speak for women as a whole and what dignifies sex appeal to us. I'm sure we (women as a whole) find a lot of different people attractive for different reasons.

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oldster78 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:14:29 GMT

I feel I have to weigh in to this discussion. I'm 78 and totally committed to Adam Lambert. I'll buy his recordings -- I'll even manage to get to Vegas for his one-man show. It has to be on the horizon, doesn't it? What he has going for him is simply everything, as the article pointed out. Not since Elvis Presley has there been such a performer in my memory. Or before. Or ever.

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kgmasta — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:16:40 GMT

if cougars are guys then this article might be true!

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:30:21 GMT

kgmasta -- this cougar is all woman - born that way and proud of it. And Adam ROCKED my world! In your face!

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sadsituation — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 19:51:48 GMT

It's unreal that this has caused such a spewing of vile diatribes. I don't understand why people spend time commenting negatively on an article that they can just simply ignore. The fact that they took the time and energy to read and then nastily comment on the pleasure that many of us got out of it is reflective of some deep-rooted dissatisfaction with their own lives. For Pete's sake, all you have to do is ignore us and move on to something that gives you joy - oops. perhaps therein lies the problem.

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SleepyBee — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:04:08 GMT

I am one of the women you describe. I'll be at any future Adam event I can attend. I can assure you, I will become ageless, and any inhibitions or maternal instincts toward Adam will be left at the door and replaced with my highly-developed adulation, awe, wild lust, etc., I feel for him. I'm gonna get crazy lost in the moment! I feel privileged to witnes musical and cultural phenomon history in the making. So fortunate to have it happen twice, perfectly timed, within my lifetime. The Adam phomenon is here and it's now! And I intend to experience it first hand. I was young in the early rock years, and am "young enough" now. I didn't stick my head in the sand then, and don't intend to do so now.

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Chich — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:05:39 GMT

I can't believed I registered because I felt I had to add my opinion on this super talented artist.

Not since Elvis or Freddie Mercury has there been anyone to spur me into such action. This guy is the complete package, He may not be everyone's taste but he certainly is mine. Adult entertainment he might be but 'what fun' and I can't wait for what he is going to do next!

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CliDoris — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:06:59 GMT

Hey, Joan Raymond...

I don't know if you're a cougar (whatever that is); but I do know that your hideous, fawning article about Adam Lambert reveals you to be a BIG, OVERGROWN IDIOT!

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SusanB52 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:09:30 GMT

Will these trends never stop following me, I am such a microcosm of American culture. No sooner do I develop my own little crush on Adam Lambert (I'm 51) then I'm reading about it in Newsweek.

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OhSHush — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:13:11 GMT

Posted By: kgmasta (June 11

if cougars are guys then this article might be true!

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^^SO TRUE!!

Reading the latest comments it boggles the mind that any honest opinions that are not supporting Adam, are called "vindictive" "hateful" & the usual race card.. gay card tactics... STOP IT!

This is still a free country, we will say the truth as we see it,

INSPITE OF YOUR phony outrage, Adams personal friends here, &

Newsweek paid Adam supporter fake "Cougars".

Give it a rest. Adam is a sweet enough lil young man, some talent , ok,

BUT NOT COUGAR MATERIAL - The suggestion he is > is preposterous!

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OhSHush — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:18:46 GMT

HERE WE GO AGAIN: sadsituation (June 11, 2009 at 3:51 PM)

It's unreal that this has caused such a spewing of vile diatribes. I don't understand why people spend time commenting negatively on an article that they can just simply ignore. The fact that

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Thank you very muc h, Adams mommy,,,

In other words, if we do not agree with you,, we should shut our mouths &

not think??? What planet has that logic?

Where are "vile" comments? For the most part, comments are v ery sensitive to the kid.

ADAM LAMBERT IS NOT ATTRACTIVE TO HETEROSEXUAL WOMEN. IMHO ok?

For those who think he is,,, >> see shrink & more power to ya!!!

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walkertxdanger — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:21:02 GMT

I think it's perfectly natural and even a little cool for older women to express their sexuality towards a younger celebrity, even if he happens to be gay. However, it's unfortunate that these women have to turn to American Idol to get their jollies. The show is terrible and reminds me of an hour-long commercial for coca-cola.

Also, as a young man, the whole cougar thing is kind of gross. At first I thought it was a bit exciting to hook up with older women, but now it seems like spending the night with a emotionally desparate leather handbag.

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Munstaaa — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:22:22 GMT

I'm not Adam Lambert, but i'll still bone you and your cougar aged friends.

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:23:39 GMT

Hey CliDoris.... you're sooooo wrong. Joan Raymond knows EXATLY what she's talking about -- she's right on the mark with what's happening in American culture. In fact there's a world-wide love-fest for Adam Lambert. And I'm gleefully thrilled to be part of it.

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CanadianSher — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:26:06 GMT

Thank you for a fantastic and insightful article. I'm a 50-something, retired professional woman who has never considered myself much of a "cougar", but Adam Lambert has had me enthralled, starstruck, infatuated and totally obsessed since he strolled onto the AI stage for his audition. Suddenly I feel like a teenager again, I'm buying all sorts of music (and of course downloading everything of Adam's that's offered by ITunes), and I'm excited about life in a way I haven't been in quite a while. LIke so many others have commented, I'm spending WAY too much time online because I don't want to miss one single speck of news about Adam, there's an Adamaniac bumper sticker on my car, and I'm driving around town with the sunroof open and Adam's version of "Whole Lotta Love" blasting from the speakers. A couple of my friends think I've totally lost it, and the rest are just about as crazy about this insanely gifted artist/unbelievable performer/outrageously beautiful guy as I am. An equally obsessed friend and I have tickets to the AI tour, and I'm flying about 1000 miles to attend. Oh -- and the black OPI nail polish has been ordered so I'll have it in time for the concert! If this is insanity, then I'm just sorry that it took me so long to discover it!

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SashaB — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:35:20 GMT

Great article. I'm 52 and crazy about Adam. He got me the same time he got your friend with the flu. When he sang 'Ring of Fire', I found myself curled up in the corner of the couch feeling totally entranced. Finally, someone interesting and wonderful and brave and wild. After that, I couldn't get enough of him. When I read your line about "just one Adam Lambert Google search away from crashing their computers" I laughed out loud (since I found this article Googling Adam....at work no less!) For me, he brings me back to the great rockers I grew up listening to who were sexy and dangerous and great. But I know there's a lot more psychoanalysis that can be done on this since I can't remember ever feeling this way about anyone before. I tell everyone I'm so proud of him like he's my own son....but definitely in a Mrs. Robinson sort of way. :) I bought an MP3 player just so I could download his songs and videos. I knew I wasn't the only one to feel this way. Thanks for the validation.

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CougarsForAdam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:35:58 GMT

To CanadianSher -- LOL! You are my twin! And I'm loving every minute of it -- black nail polish & all!

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lifelongdemocrat — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:52:14 GMT

Wow. no shortage of shallow and pathetic "cougars." Too bad there are women out there so adamant about wearing the pants that they need to find someone to ogle because he doesn't wear any. 2 final good looking clean-cut males didn't do it for the cougars because they were more wholesome and christian. Not many normal mature people will listen to Lambert's voice, which leaves unsuspecting pre-pubescent girls, gays, and confused "adults" with a penchant for the melodramatic. It is time America got back to its roots by rejecting homosexuality and embracing values. Love your Adam like you love your drunk and sloppy karaoke, it's as close as most of you will come to what you consider as "outrageous."

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nancylshen88@yahoo.com — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:55:47 GMT

I’m a constant Newsweek reader. I finished reading this article. I would like to tell you Ms Ball, you are a lonely soul and I am very sorry for you. I am 59, mother/wife/MD/San Diegan. I’m a music lover and appreciate artists and musicians.

Adam’s recent shout (on Rolling Stone) that he is a gay and some details about his “crush” is disappointing. I’d like to ask WHAT IS ON ADAM’S HEAD? Is he promoting his sexuality (who cares)! WHY DIDN’T ADAM PROMOTE HIS MUSIC? Honestly, this is a turn off for me. I am not interested in nuts, because nuts would never have long term success. I lost my respect and love for him. Bye Adam.

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sfmom2 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:56:22 GMT

It was great to read this article. I am 39, a mom of 2, and found myself completely obsessed with this amazingly talented and mesmerizing kid. My husband is no longer thinks its funny, and I am trying to stop myself going crazy, but its almost impossible. There is something vodoo-ish about this mass-infatuation. The good news for me is that I've started listening to rock again, which I have not done for ages, and paying attention to music which long ago stopped being an important part of life. On the other had, work is suffering, my husband feels ignored and I feel guilty wasting so much time reading about this guy. I read the Rolling Stone atricle and I was surprised to see how shallow and naive he appreared. Not the sense I got watching him on AI.

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AdamTouchesMySoul — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 20:56:36 GMT

Laughing and saying out loud "Oh, my God!" as I was reading your article because you are me exacty!! I just could not have put it so eloquently. Thank you for being the voice of "older" female Adam lovers! Yes, I google him constantly because I have to know what is going on with him always. My husband has been very understanding so far, but I still find that I sometimes X out my screen so he doesn't see that I am always reading about Adam and listening to him - ha! Thanks again for putting into words how so many of us feel!

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wildbill69 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:10:21 GMT

You need serious HELP lady !!!!!!!!!!!!

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diabaguette — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:14:47 GMT

Posted By: lifelongdemocrat

rejecting homosexuality and embracing values.

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That is absurd.No one needs to reject such a huge portion of

Americans. Gay people are in every family, most w/strong v alues as non gay.

You can embrace homosexual lifestyle, & still have fine

moral values. If someones religion forces them into not embracing the lifestyle

so be it for them, we have to respect that belief also..BUT to say that to

embrace values is to reject homosexuality as a blanket statement is dead wrong.

Adam Lambert is a fine, talented well spoken gay american man.

The truth is tho, that he is not the type to attract straight women.

Straight women who can find such an flamboyant gay

boy sexuality attractive, have serious issues.

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Lindaboy — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:17:32 GMT

ToWalkertxdanger and to all others who "don't get it"

Many of us obsessed Adam fans happened upon him while channel surfing or by a recommendation of a friend and are not (were they ever) avid fans of AI. Before Adam (I caught "Ring of Fire" and literally jumped off my couch and cheered aloud) last episode of AI that I sat through had Bo Bice singing......hmmm I don't know....... I can't remember what actually.

Point is......... AI was the vehicle that introduced this great talent to the world. Coca-Cola commercial and having to endure the likes of some of the other contestants aside.

Once discovered, we each began to rearrange our busy lives to put aside an hour or two each Tuesday for our own personal 90sec Adam Lambert concert; and when that proved to not be enough, Wed were also set aside to see a few more moments of this Magnetic Sex God!! After all, Wed were our chance to get glimpses of his personality when he was relaxed and not in the "performing zone."

On Wed when AI would end, a slight hint of disappointment would begin to creep in-----what an unbelievably long amount of time there was to wait until the next Tuesday!! That is when the You Tube and internet surfing began.

The rest is history. We grownups have seen entertainers come and go; we know what makes a super star and Adam has "IT" I am THRILLED to be witnessing the birth of an ICON and I'm going to sit back an enjoy the ride. And what a sexy, joyous ride it will be!

BTW My husband "get's" my crush and he too (like so many other Glambert Spouses) is enjoying the "benefits" of my reawakening! LOL

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notocougars — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:29:37 GMT

Mayby you just need to go back to the book store and purchase another one of those battery not included devices....

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diabaguette — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:31:40 GMT

Posted By: OhSHush (June 11, 2009 at 2:07 PM)

Dear Adam: Don't read this...

Adam is a sweet enough kid, some theatrical talent, BUT:-0- sex appeal to women.

I am of cougar age,

I Loved DAVID COOK... Spent plenty of $$'s on Cook...

Adam is nowhere near cougar bait! Just because he's gay Liberal establishments

like Newsweek, & Hollywood are using

all kinds of tactics to help him sell records... DO NOT Insult our intelligence

If he puts out an incredible** record, mayyybe I ll consider it but "COUGAR BAIT"?

Definitely not

.................

Excellent point!

Now,,, David Cook? Whole different animal!!

The eyes the mouth, the arm porn lol

He is one sexy man! As manly as only a real man can....

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sadsituation — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:33:45 GMT

OhSHush - to address your comments:

1. Thank you for the compliment. While I am not Adam's mommy, I would be very proud and honored to be her.

2. I never said not implied that you should shut your mouth and not think. Those are your words, not mine. I simply suggested you ignore the article (and posts) instead of getting so worked up over it.

3. There are plenty of vile comments posted below, but I will not waste my time reading through them again. I will leave that to you since you seem to have more time, having posted several negative comments already.

I won't even address your last comment since it's beyond ridiculous.

Now, with all due respect, please grow up.

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loopy — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:39:44 GMT

Not only are cougars crazy for Adam, but their MOTHERS are also. I am 73 and go gaga over him. Tears in my eyes when I hear him sing. At least one of my aged pals feels the same way. I am not sure it is sexual, but it sure is something!!!!!!!!!!

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OhSHush — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 21:59:08 GMT

Posted By: sadsituation (June 11, 2009 at 5:33 PM)

to OhSHush - to address your comments:

2. I never said not implied that you should shut your mouth and not think. Those are your words, not mine. I simply suggested you ignore the article (and posts) instead of getting so worked up over i

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To Sad....

Sorry, there, Adams mommy....... You did say to avoid or keep going & not post if we have nothing nice to say (in your way).That's how i read it .

Personally, i think it's mostly fake cougars on here, like Adams friends registering as married women in love with this flamboyant gay young boy.

The only word that comes to mind for real* straight married women infatuated, is delusional

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kprater72 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:13:35 GMT

boy, did you ever hit the nail on the head. i have wallowing in puzzled embarassment over my obsession with this beautiful, shiny glammed-up creature, and now that i know i am not alone, i don't feel so silly!

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psfirst — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:23:29 GMT

It's hilarious to read all this OTT gushing about Glambert from women who act as if they are doing or saying something unique. For those of us who've watched AMERICAN IDOL from Season 1 & seen all the internet frenzy, I can tell you that there is NOTHING remotely original about you gals or your gay god. It's all happened before:

Season 1 - Justin Guarini

Season 2 - Clay Aiken

Season 3 - OK, this was a season dominated by divas

Season 4 - Bo Bice & Constantine Maroulis

Season 5 - Taylor Hicks & Chris Daughtry

Season 6 - Blake Lewis & Ace Young

Season 7 - David Cook & Michael Johns

Season 8 - Kris Allen & Adam Lambert

Overwhelmingly, the biggest fan frenzy & media lovefest was in Season 2 with Clay Aiken. He's still the best-selling male from the show & has made more millions touring than any other Idol, & has managed to diversify his talents into acting, hosting, writing & producing which will probably bode well for his long-term career. Time will only tell if Glambert or anyone hereafter can beat that, but I doubt it. His iTunes sales so far are far short of previous Idol alum. The days when any debut artist (or indeed, any established artist) sells Double Platinum in a month as Aiken did are long gone. The music industry is a crap shoot & failing miserably at the moment. I can see Glambert having a few dance hits (judging from his previous pre-Idol recordings), but success over the decades depending on the whims of the Top 40-listening public is doubtful. But the cougars will be out & about for Idol boys for as long as the show lasts.

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ssmith24 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:47:42 GMT

Great commentary, so very perceptive and true. I grew up with The Who, Led Zepplin and the Clash, so much energy and sexuality on stage and in the music. I'm a 52 year old doctor and my kids think I've lost my mind with my Glambert obsession, most fan fun I've had in 20 years. Helluva lot more fun than ruminating about the economy or the next 10 years of working toput my kids through college. I must admit I'm also jealous of Adam, the idea of a shroom filled ephiphany at Burning Man makes me wistful...

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David Niel — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:50:39 GMT

Wow, you nailed it! Ok, here's the deal: I am your age, gay, out, professional, together.... middle age! And, this kid really rocked me. I mean, I had never even thought about Idol... Ever. Then, I saw his audition accidentally, and well.... you said the rest. And, curiously, I don't want to make out with Adam, even though I find him exceptionally sexy... I just want to stare, and enjoy, and fantasize (not about sex but about being young, hot, soon-to-be-rich, with the whole world at my feet)... And, of course, I want to listen to his awesome voice and watch his performances. Regarding my straight friends, only the really confident straight guys have admitted to being drawn to Adam -- the less sure and more stereotypic, find him off putting or just weird. Um, they may be telling the truth, but I think they're compensating... :-) In any event, great writing!

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lisabeth7 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:54:21 GMT

Yes, I think that Adam is hot, sexy, and gorgeous, as well as immensely talented, sensitive, sweet, adorable, and every other positive attribute that turns me on like no other guy can. He has incredible sex appeal that you either see and feel or you don't. Thankfully, I do.

Also, psfirst, I've never heard Clay on Top 40 radio and I don't think Clay's songs were available on iTunes during his season, as iTunes for studio versions have only been available the last two seasons of American Idol. Adam's iTunes have sold extremely well, as did the videos of his performances (also available on iTunes). I bought them all as soon as I could. I think Adam will have worldwide appeal far exceeding Clay and any of the other previous idols.

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Hard to Believe — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 22:58:26 GMT

I wonder if any of these self-described cougars posting here are MILFs. I doubt it. I suspect most women in their 40's or 50's who are still attractive wouldn't consider being Adam Lambert groupies.

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mad4adam — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:07:34 GMT

To the Author: AI concert tour? Go for it!! And scream your head off!! I did last year (I'm 58 year old woman) and went with my gay son who's 27 and we BOTH screamed for David Cook!! We just had more fun than I've had in years. Middle aged women, cougars, or whatever are plentiful at AI concerts. This year - it's Adam Lambert who is my guilty pleasure. From the beginning, I just love the way he expressed his sexuality with his body movements, leather jackets, tight pants, make-up, nails - it's all so delicious! And of top of that he's an amazing singer and performer. I don't care if my crush is "normal" or not - it just IS - and I see I'm not alone by a mile. Isn't that what performers do, though? They express a wildness that is in all of us that needs expression or even recognition - and it doesn't matter how OLD you are - those feelings may get buried in time and busy lives - but it takes the bold confidence of an Adam Lambert to help ME tap into all that - in a FUN, HARMLESS way. All you Lambert critics and haters on this site with all your moralizing and judgements - you are not going to spoil my party!!!

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Wind Dancer — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:08:41 GMT

I guess something in my mind or maybe somewhere other then my head may be broken. i am in my early 50's and to this day i have yet to find myself hot over someone i could have givven birth to. give me Robert Redford, or the real 007 dont send in a hairless chicken chested no road map of life stamped on his face baby. there is nothen that makes my heart thump or brings on that hot trob in one of this lil babies. i want a real man that when is arms arre around me and tells me not to worrie every thing will be alright. i can know its true. i know there is wizdom and a life worth of livving behind those words. SO TO THE WOMAN MY AGE WHO DONT WANT TO SEE THE STAMP OF LIFE ON THERE FACE AND WANT TO ACT LIKE A SCHOOL GIRL GO FOR IT. leaves the good men that are out there for me. i dont need to teach anyone.

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bobster01 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:14:37 GMT

This is what Newsweek considers news? What crap

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selkie — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:16:07 GMT

Can you say, "Elvis"?

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psfirst — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:16:51 GMT

Aiken was on Top 40 radio in 2003/4, but his style doesn't really fit that genre & his label never promoted him to any kind of radio after his first album. Still, he's managed to chart 15 songs at AC radio without any help from his label. As for iTunes, the Idol performances weren't available until a couple of years ago, but their other releases have been all over iTunes & Glambert so far is NOT among the top sellers of Idol over the years. Amazingly, Aiken has been able to attract a large contingent of international fans even tho he has never been promoted overseas or allowed to tour outside North America. (A short cameo appearance on the finale of Season 5 garnered him 15,000 fans at a Korean site within a few days!) Since his style is very popular in Europe & Asia, it's not hard to see how huge he could be there if ever given the chance. Perhaps his new label will be smarter & more supportive than RCA ever was for him. I can see Glambert being bigger internationally than in the states, but I doubt he'll have the universal appeal of someone like Kelly Clarkson. As I said before, time will tell & it's all projection till he actually accomplishes something significant in the industry. But getting back to the point of this article, next year about this time we will be reading all about how housewives, professional women & grandmas are all a-twitter over the latest Idol boytoy. I guarantee it. (Unless of course we have a rehash of Season 3 which was all about the girls - probably a good probability since TPTB at the show will no doubt be pimping a gal or 2 seeing as how the last couple of years have been male-dominated.)

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aviddem — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:18:18 GMT

to Hard to Believe - MILF here...not kidding...I'm in my late 40's and am constantly told I look like a cross between Cameron Diaz and Meg Ryan (I don't see that, but that's what I hear all of the time). My 25 year old son's friends think I'm hot, way too hot to have a 25 year old kid. I'm in the best shape of my live at size 6 with a D-cup. And, I think Adam Lambert is hot Hot HOT! He has spiced up my life in ways that only my grateful but clueless husband can truly appreciate. Just so ya know, I've seen newsclips and pics of lots of MILF's waiting to see Adam at appearances. I do, however, wonder what YOU look like, since you feel the need to be rude to the women posting here.

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lrichar883 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:27:39 GMT

Disconcerting to see my recent life replayed in print.

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lrichar883 — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 23:33:43 GMT

I think MILF is such a degrading acronym. It is not about building a caring and sharing relationship but objectifies women as sex objects based on physical appearance.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

dcadama — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:08:09 GMT

Great Article, I am soon to be 59, a grandmom, and love this guy. Yes he is gay, he is young, but so what, Men have lusted after young women since time began, why not us too. Actually, If I had an hour alone with Adam, I think I would prefer to sit down and talk with him over anything else. This guy is so interesting, unique, a bit excentric, flamboyant, etc. I would like to get inside his head, see what makes him tick. He is dark, mysterious, and camillion, I watched his eyes while he was singing "Whole Lotta Love", they were peircing, like they could cut right thorugh, than when he was done, they were soft and smiling again. So, whey am I cracy about this guy, because he intrigues me, he is different, dark,mysterious, not to mention that amazing talent. So Adam, keep the mystique, keep intrigueing us and Thank you.

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newsweeksucks2009 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:12:14 GMT

I'm not sure why old ladies dig gay guys, but I guess it's that reoccurring truth that women are always looking to get what they can't have. No wonder they are so frustrated, and like to poke each others eyes out.

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newsweeksucks2009 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:17:12 GMT

dcadama.... you really think the world holds you back from thinking like you want too? Lusting after men? Geez, we're hitting new highs for the freedoms women hold, at least in their heads. Bottom line is that women always want what they cannot get, and the biggest reason women fail with their man, is because they actually think they can change a person. You might, 1 out of 100,000 times.

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DMARTIN82 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:26:20 GMT

I ADORE ADAM LAMBERT !! HE IS THE MOST TALENTED, HUMBLE CELEBRITY WE HAVE HAD IN A LONG TIME. I NEVER WATCHED AMERICAN IDOL UNTIL HIM. EVERYONE ON THAT SHOW WAS ONLY MEDIOCRE. THE COVER OF ROLLINGSTONE WAS SO HOT !!!

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lv2bliberal — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:29:41 GMT

I am so effing tired of the double standard. A fat, ugly OLD man marries a twenty something and he's haled as a stud. A woman over 50 merely thinks a twenty something is HOT and we're treated as pervs. Speaking as one of those over 50 women, married 33 years, with a teenager...and not dead yet...I think Adam is one of the hottest, sexiest creatures to come along in many a year (well, there's John Barrowman too) and I absolutely WILL NOT apologize for saying that out loud! Listening to both of them sing puts a smile on my face and sends chills down my spine.

The fact that they're gay only adds to their appeal. The most beautiful, creative, talented men often are and the world is a better place for it.

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Warrior07 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:30:38 GMT

Aloha,

Why do cougars crave Adam? Well you have work your way through the steps of the cougar evolution:

1. As a younger woman they either competed in the job market for that top position (the long path, 15 - 25 years) or they married the Top Dog who was 15 - 25 years their senior.

2. They may or may not have had affairs with progressively younger males (boy toys) finally reaching a median age 15 - 25 years their junior. Adam fits the profile 25 years and somewhat effeminate (metro-sexual) male

3. The next step is to go all the way to the gay actor-dancers.

Note:

1. Gay (homosexual) males are safer than younger straight males.

2. Younger straight males are also looking for the same trophy style women as the older Top Dogs.

3. Cougars better be really top quality in all aspects, if you know what I mean? Tight and flexible not old and tired.

Need I say more?

Mahalo

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dcadama — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:33:46 GMT

Hey newsweeksucks2009, lighten up, I guess I was not articulate enough, ( or possibly I was too articulate). I don't think I could nor would I want to change anyone. I am not looking to get what I can't have, and I have never poked anyone's eyes out, that would be extrermely barbaric. I basically admire this artist because he is talented, and I will watch his career with great interest. I also think he would be an intriguing individual to sit down and talk with, but that's just my opinion. and hey we live in America don't we, so both you and I are entitled to freely express our opinions. As far as failing with a man, I think that just may be a quantum leap (assumption) on your part...and that is all I have to say. So. Long,,have a good night.

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*Beenie* — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:35:51 GMT

Sarah Ball's article is RIGHT ON! I LOVE IT!!! Because of how Adam's voice makes me feel, I am a very straight, married, young looking and young feeling 40+ year old - I cut my dull conservative corporate haircut into a fasionable spiky due which everyone absolutely LOVES! I feel FREE and have been the happiest I've ever been for many years. Sarah nailed this one on the spot. I feel exactly how she describes and you know what? I am a much better, loving, and caring person for that. I LOVE how Adam looks, I LOVE his out of this world creativity, and I LOVE how his voice and music make me feel... absolutely B E A U T I F U L !! No other artist has ever done that!!!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Fame1970 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:41:24 GMT

For all the negative people. Women, men pretending to be women, or women pretending to be men please post on another site. Why on earth would you feel the need to comment on an article titled Why Cougars Crave Idol Runner up Lambert" unless you have issues? Or unless you are that selfish and feel comforted bashing nice comments that real women feel about Adam Lambert. It is very sad that you feel the need to try to trash on this site. Can't you find another site and go play with someone else your age or even mental capacity?

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arealdeal — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 00:58:52 GMT

Ok, guys, this goes for us hip - young at heart 50's as well. I was just strolling thru my empty living room one Tues night, where the TV was blaring and I just caught Black or White being "sung" by Adam. I stood there with my mouth hitting the ground. OMG. where was my family? they had to see this! I googled Adam until it came up that night and introduced my husband to him. He was impressed, but not nearly as much as me and believe it or not my 83 year old mother who seemed shocked that I didn't know who Adam was when I called her about him. Many may disagree with me, but I have been reading "slash" fanfiction for 2 years now (check it out if you haven't) All I can say is it may be hormones, but that is fine with me, I am happier than I have been in years, (and hubby isn't complaining either) I now check all the Adam "news" every morning before my work e-mail. My 30 year old daughter thinks I have lost my mind, but he is just the hottest thing I have ever seen, and I have seen quite a bit growing up during the 70's! Dream on sisters!

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sunie — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:27:05 GMT

I read Joan's story and thought, "This could have been my story!" She wrote it perfectly!

The 'feel a little silly' giggly teenager coming out in this 50 year old woman. He makes us

feel alive, excited, happy, young, and sexy. And I think that would please him immensely!

I think he just wants to stimulate all of us and get us thinking and feeling. I was thrilled to death

to watch his performances on Idol (and you'd better believe it; no one is going to interrupt that!)

And then after watching the performance, be on the phone with my friends and family discussing

every last detail about it. What fun! Googling for any latest photo; he is intelligent, well-spoken, handsome, pretty and sexy......totally dreamy. I can't wait to see what he will do next!

Watch out, Joan, I'll be right there screamin' alongside you!!!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

DaveN007 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:46:46 GMT

Two words.

Obama voters.

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igetit — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 01:53:57 GMT

I'm a 73 year young widow and he made me feel very young (if you know what I mean) again!

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iamisabella — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:01:03 GMT

First off, thanks to the author of this great article for conveying the way I feel about Adam. It's nice to know that I'm not the only one who is crazy for this guy and find myself on the Internet looking for any information I can find on him.

As for those negative posters, why all the hate? We are a group of women who find Adam sexy and entertaining - not to mention his awesome voice - and he makes us feel alive and youthful. What's wrong with that? Let us have our fantasies; it makes life more enjoyable.

There are some who feel that Adam finds this "cougar love" despicable. Well, if you believe that, then you don't know Adam. He is open-minded and very positive; I'm sure he digs all his fans no matter their gender, age, race, whatever.

As for the AI tour, Adam is the only reason I will be going to one of their concerts. Even though I've been an avid AI fan for all 8 seasons, this is the only year there has been an entertainer that I must see live.

Great article, and to my fellow Glamberts: Rock on and keep up the Adam love!

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diabaguette — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:05:10 GMT

Posted By: DaveN007 (June 11, 2009 at 9:46 PM)

Two words.

Obama voters.

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hahahaha Love the way u think

i sooo agree...

They want this kid to be a success so bad.

If he suddenly turned straight & went to Church

they would be appalled .

How can a honest heterosexual woman,

find such a flamboyant gay boy attractive?

Many many issues.

Actually it's sad that while these "women" look foolish,

Adam will be laughing all the way to the bank

hand in hand with his hot lil boytoy

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Mattersmost — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:09:36 GMT

Women are turned on by guys that look like women. This only confirms that women have an inherent, deeply seated desire for lesbian sex. That is what drives the boys' magazines to include photo essays showing two women getting it on with each other.

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VickStiX — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:19:02 GMT

OMG this is SUCH a great article. Gives all us cougars a great excuse. NOW I can say Dr. Gail Saltz said it's perfectly fine. LOL When I first heard Adam sing 7 or 8 years ago, I KNEW he'd be a huge star. I'm just really SURPRISED that it took so long. He has such an amazing voice. And of course it certainly doesn't hurt that he's GORGEOUS, sweet, humble, articulate, nasty, funny, and oh yea... SEXY AS HELL! He'll be bigger then Elvis some day. And I really don't CARE what all the haters say here. They're all just showing their big green horns. And I totally laugh at them, when I read their jealousy bullshit. They ONLY WISH they had as much TALENT and SEX APPEAL as Adam has in his baby finger. Shows how ignorant they are really. And I'll be laughing at them even harder a few years from now, when Adam is breaking every record there is to break!

And Joan, I highly DOUBT you'll be the only 40 year old in the crowd. I think about 60% of the members on my website are our over 40. We even have a group called Adam's Cougars, and one called gramberts for the over 60 crowd. LOL You should come and join us. http://adamlambert.ning.com/

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leileea — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:19:12 GMT

yes we want Adam to be successful because he is the greatest thng that has happened in a long time. and if a few people can't accept that then it's their problem ..they can go seeth in their own sorry world vod of joy and filled with envy and hate.....as for Adan's fans we will continue to have fun and enjoy the ride..

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iamisabella — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:28:03 GMT

Yep, I love Adam, and I want him laughing all the way to the bank too! ;-)

Go ADAM!

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el polacko — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:28:43 GMT

so the claymates have become glamberts, have they ? more power to you gals. i guess he's the latest version of the non-threatening heartthrobs from tiger beat magazine that you grew up with.

interesting that it's women 'lusting' after him though. i'm a gay man and find him to be rather unattractive and even a little creepy... but there's no accounting for taste... to me he looks like a bargain-basement liza but if that's what turns your crank, then fantisize away !

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kittycomere — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:31:48 GMT

Thank You! I'm 47, single, conservative, closet Adam Fan! I thought I was going nuts! Almost embarassed to tell my friends how obsessed I was. Never really watched Idol before until Adam, then it became, "how many days until Tuesday" every week. Google him every day. Voted for the first time, and in a panic every week! So relieved to hear that I'm not alone! He inspires me ,and never been into celebritys before. Thought I needed a 12-step rogram when AI ended, and the anguish I felt when he didn't win! I really relate to this article, good job!

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KellyDale — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:44:27 GMT

I very surprised by the angry comments that have cropped up here. I can only imagine that they are from guys who are jealous, extremely insecure or homophobic. I don't like to use that word, but those are the only people I can think of who would be angered by this opinion piece. BTW, that's what this is, an opinion piece. I don't think anyone expected this to be investigative journalism.

Anyway, I think this was an excellent article that voiced what a lot of women are feeling. I am a 49-year old mother and publisher. I'm very conservative (I didn't do the "wild past" thing), and I think Adam is incredibly sexy. Someone wrote on here that we're delusional. We would only be delusional if we divorced our husbands, left our families, and stalked Adam in hopes that he would become straight and marry us. None of us are thinking that. We just like to look at him and listen to that amazing voice. OK, maybe there are a couple of little fantasies, and maybe a little drooling, but we are far from being out of line or out of our minds.

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iamisabella — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 02:47:24 GMT

Claymate? No way.....I may love Adam, but Clay was never my cup of tea. (Ick.)

In the 80's I hung out on the Sunset Strip to check out all the hot dudes wearing guyliner. Now those hot dudes are bald with big bellies; Adam is HOT, so he reminds me of my youth.

It's OK if some find him creepy.......I find him incredibly SEXY as do my fellow Glamberts.

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majaha57 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:14:18 GMT

Honestly, I just felt like I was reading about myself! Everything from about how the obsession started to maybe why it became that..sounds just like me...It's a little crazy to be 52 years old, mother of 5, grandmother of 6 and obsessed by a young, gorgeous, talented gay man! But it has been increasingly apparent that I am soooo not alone. I have never downloaded a song from Itunes, now I have every Adam video performance from Idol and every studio recording...which by the way are fabulous!! I have burned them to a CD and have copies in my car, at work and of course just play them on my computer. Crazy. I thought I was well adjusted. I'm so glad I'm not alone. lol

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kazzy — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:16:06 GMT

I truly believe that the negative comments that have been posted are immature men who HAVE NO IDEA how women really feel. When millions of women tell you they think Adam is hot, they mean it. We don't give a crap what our husbands think or what anyone else thinks. We know what we like and it just hits us. Just like when a guy sees a hot girl, same thing. Has nothing to do whether the person is attainable or not. You think it, you feel it, it just hits you. When I first heard about Adam and saw Ring of Fire, it happened just like that. His whole being hit me like a hammer. This guy was hot. Didn't know who he was, or anything about him, just knew immediately that he was incredibly talented, great looking and sexy. AND there is nothing wrong with that!

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diabaguette — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:18:20 GMT

I just love all the "Glamberts" (gay boy fans) of Adams posing as Conservative women

and grannies in lust w/a gay boy. What a crock.

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BabbleOn — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:18:44 GMT

Well, I'm 60 years old, and I met another newbie "cougar on account of Adam" at an online forum, who as it turns out, lives about a mile away, and we have tickets to the Tour, binoculars, black & blue checked shirts, and a mutual pact to make complete fools of ourselves. I started in the sixties with the Beatles, graduated to Robert Plant, Brian May & Nikki Sixx. I've had some of the good stuff in my not too distant past, and now I have very high standards. Adam meets those standards in spades. The boy has just "got it."

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VickStiX — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 03:29:28 GMT

OK wait! I'm confused NOW. It says Author Sarah Ball, and then it says 'By Joan Raymond' So, WHO wrote this wonderful piece? Was it Sarah or Joan? LOL

In any case, I have to agree with both Fame1970 and *Beenie*

First of all, there has to be something lacking in someones life, to come to a website with an article that has absolutely NOTHING to do with, just to bash the artists and his fans that the article is about. As I said in an earlier post, JEALOUS MUCH?? Go play with children your own age on some other site, that caters to hate and jealously, and leave Adam and his fans alone.

And BTW to Sarah or Joan, (whoever it is that wrote this piece), I'm 49, and my mom is 75. She took me to see Elvis when I was 14 years old, and NOW I'm taking her to see Adam for her birthday next month. She's SO EXCITED that Adam gave me backstage passes and now she gets to meet him for the first time. She's gonna love him even MORE in person that she already does, because he's just as sweet & sexy in person, as he seems on TV! :-) AdamAddicts UNITE!! :-)

Vicky aka VickStix

The Adam Lambert Network

Adam Addicts Anonymous

http://adamlambert.ning.com/

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Fiona99 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:20:08 GMT

OK. I am married a mother of two and I am also a cougar for Adam Lambert. I am reading my work email, just took a bath and acting like a 16 year old commenting, but I love it. I went out at lunch and went to 3 stores for the new RS. I found it. I love the article and the cover, so artistic the green with the black and the jewelery, love his bracelets & scarf. I am 46 years old and usually very conservative, well I am still conservative, however when it comes to Adam I feel like a teenageer again. Not in a I would leave my husband or I would do something crazy, but in a very natural happy way. He brings me back to the days when I was actually excited about a artist. Days that the male singers that you would see in concert gazed at you with such an awe, such magic and charisma it made your legs crumble. When I first seen Adam Lambert it was actually the "Satisfaction" song. I had not watched prior. I was awestruck going into watching this with disbelief listening to some women at my work to watch & see. Then week after week I found myself waiting until Tuesday night to see him perform like I was waiting for the king himself to appear on my tv set. I am not a huge Elvis fan, but I like him and repected him for where he came from and the shows I seen on him & the crowd and energy. I feel that Adam has this same type of potential in him and he draws women & men of every age to him like a hypnotic trance. His eyes are so smoldery and his outfits so 70's and retro and glam. He just sizzles with glam & sexuality. I dont care if he is gay. It is actually find it more of a turn on because he is so honest and upfront, a real man, not hiding anything, not afraid to change the person he is. His talent is beyond anything I have ever seen on AI truly. Rolling Stone did the right thing. I will not subscribe to them because they support Adam so much. It is a fantastic issue. Weeks after this finale and I still cannot wait to play my downloads of Adam every day going to work & back. He really made an impact & now has a huge following. Thank God I tuned into watch him. But now, unfortunately I am hooked as well in a good way. Its refreshing to read blogs like this and know alot of other people feel the same, like they were back at a concert watching a icon in the making. I will support Adam as well wherever he goes and I am sure his new cd after the tour will be one not to be forgotten by alot of people, especially us cougars lol.

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kittycomere — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:24:09 GMT

http://www.thebestarts.com/AdamLambert/idol/default.aspx

The only place on the Internet that you can watch Adam's entire American Idol performances, (has not been removed by AI) every performance with the judges' comments! Beware, addicting! Save it to favorites, you'll watch the videos over and over!

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Fiona99 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:34:39 GMT

Actually sorry, I made a typo. I meant I will subscribe to RS after this cover. Good night all! Keep posting nice comments about Adam.

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CoyoteBlues — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:44:37 GMT

I'm a 61-year-old Cougar! And proud of it! I know so many women who think Adam is HOT, because he IS! He awakens that sexual energy that many of us felt in the '60s and '70s when rock and roll was HOT, too! All the sexual tension, the movements, the innuendos, the sensuality -- Adam embodies what many of us experienced .... and haven't witnessed for decades. Too many bands and singers nowadays seem to be mass-produced. There weren't filters when we were young -- it was all out there! I am glad they didn't filter Adam, because it is his hot honesty, gay or not, that turns me (and other women I know) on! We KNOW we don't stand a chance with him, even if he were straight, but sexuality, sensuality, emotionality, are aspects that turn us on! I agree that the guys who are responding negatively probably don't know women well. To have gone through our generation, to have witnessed the greats of rock and roll, and the freedom of expression -- Adam brings back vivid, tangible memories! It's the feeling, it's the desire, it's the HOT moments that are rare in life. Adam has that charismatic, honest, real sensuality that is just a part of who he is. For me, I just want to bask in the feeling of that sexual energy and drool over him! I hope he does become an international star -- it's time we had a talent like Adam that the world could adore -- especially us Cougars! :D

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ADAM-u-r-the-one — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 04:55:35 GMT

Adam is a unique artist - with a very very unique vocal ability - he has spent all his life mastering his vocals and acting/performing - starting in shows when he was 10 years old. Now he is 27, and he has reached the pinnacle of his profession - that is what we see today - that is what we hear when he sings - tremendous vocal control/ability/performances. He is an entertainer - and he is also an attractive man - who is tall, dark, handsome with beautiful blue eyes - he can dance - WOW he is the total package! He's got is ALL going on!!!

Cougars has been around a while - we've seen a lot during our years - and we can spot a STAR when we see one - that's something that comes with age!

Remember, it's all about the music - and it's delivered in one sexy package - Cougars appreciate talent - it's all good fun and not harming anyone - ADAM is an ELIXIR - that's all good in my book!

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Mag4 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 06:17:21 GMT

I really have to laugh at the 'hate' comments on here. I can soooo see a jealous husband behind the keyboard typing away in the middle of the night or even a young person struggling with their own sexuality and wanting a 'mother' figure's attention...I mean, c'mon, why else would you even bother to comment about an article with a title like this??? Too funny. I was one of the first 'cougars' to comment about this article and I keep coming back because it is just so true! The music today (and for many years) has just been lacking...I don't even bother turning on the radio anymore. Until now. I can't wait until the release of his CD. FINALLY...someone who knows and IS what legends are made of...YOU GO, ADAM!!

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VickStiX — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 06:51:35 GMT

PUHLEAZE!!! What a complete moron....

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Posted By: diabaguette (June 11, 2009 at 11:18 PM)

I just love all the "Glamberts" (gay boy fans) of Adams posing as Conservative women

and grannies in lust w/a gay boy. What a crock.

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I guess he didn't see all the HOARDS of women and girls SCREAMING for Adam on TV now did he?? LMFAO at all these jealous homophobic (couldn't turn a girl or woman on if their lives depended) IDIOT JEALOUS MORONS!!! Guess they've been living under a rock, to think that most of Adam's fans are gay boys. I almost feel sorry for them. But I'll reserve that pity for their wives, that are probably ALL lusting over Adam, as well! LOL

Funny... that out of over a thousand members on our Adam Network, we have 2... maybe 3 gay guys, 3 or 4 straight guys, and the REST are all women (most over the age of 40), most with their pictures posted for their icons too.

SERIOUSLY!!! GET A LIFE HATERS & DOUBTERS!!! We're very happy supporting and going crazy for our Adam, and too bad you're so jealous, just coz you WISH you were him. LOL

BTW to kittycomere a few comments below. That's actually NOT the only site with all of Adam's videos. The Adam Lambert Network has EVERY video of Adam's performances too. Both with the judges and without them. Also, have every interview & news video clip, him accepting his award, him with his BF, being chased by the paps, etc etc... As well as thousands of photos, and printed news articles. Members also have their own pages (similar to Facebook or MySpace) and a chat box to chat with other fellow AdamAddicts! Very addicting as well. :-) Check it out, if you get the chance.

Vicky aka VickStix

The Adam Lambert Network

Adam Addicts Anonymous

http://adamlambert.ning.com/

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border49er — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 07:02:00 GMT

Um - you, too? All I can say is - any young studs, boyfriends, husbands -- be oh so happy Adam has arrived. You have some seriously randy 40+ women who will want long marathon sex sessions. Watching Adam perform is better than any (!) version a drug company can create for "female Viagra". Adam is oh so hot...especially if you are also turned on by thinking of him "with" another guy. (or is watching gay sex only supposed to be a 'guy thing'?) Watching Adam in action - on stage - is definitely cold shower time.

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LightBlueSky — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 07:05:26 GMT

I hate to be unkind - but listening to these "cougars" - you get the feeling that they are even more jaded that "Mrs Robinson" - to the extent that that comment wouldn't even faze them :). Giggling like little girls ? YEAH RIGHT !

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LuvAdam476 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 08:05:43 GMT

I'm a 54 year old cougar who has a 22 year old son. Almost lost my best friend over my Adam obsession because she couldn't relate. My mother who is 72 loves Adam but not to the extent that I do. I figure if I want to lust and fantasize over a 27 year old Smokin Hot Drop Dead Gorgeous Man with more talent than you can even imagine, and I'm not hurting anyone, then leave me alone. He is not my son, nor a friend of my sons' so therefore I feel it is totally healthy. Adam has absolutely done wonders for me. For years I have literally felt nothing. I am divorced, don't have a boyfriend. Adam has actually gotten my hormones going again to where I feel totally alive and feel like I did in my 20's and 30's. Adam does take me back to the 70's when we had a great time with the rock icons and legends and were free so to speak. Each year seems to present new responsibilities and therefore I have felt as if I had to refrain from being what I wanted to be. I had to hold back on so many things. I am retired now and Adam has given me a whole new look on everything. I am letting my wild side out now and I love it. If people don't like it tough. I am at a point where I feel I should be able to be happy and please myself and not everyone else by depriving myself. Adam's music pre idol and idol make me smile. He is truly one of a kind and Adam is a Legend in the Making. He is like watching raw sexuality because he holds nothing back. If you see some of his pre idol performances WOW that man knows how to work what hes got.

I'm going to my first concert in almost 20 years and yes it is the AI concert and I am only going because I want to see Adam! Already have my ticket, concert shirt I am ready!! So Joan, you won't be alone, you won't be the oldest and I plan on having one helluva good time. Screamining,doing whatever feels good and enjoying Adams' performances and vocal abilities!

I am so glad that Adam has finally come along. I know that I have been waiting for him for what seems like forever. Cougars our time has come. His name is Adam Lambert and he is absolutely the sexiest man I have ever laid my eyes on. BTW I am a Glambert!

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skipmerkin — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 08:48:34 GMT

I think the main issue men here have is two fold:

One, this is kind of gross. Chris Hansen would mention this on his show if it were men talking about how hot they are for Taylor Swift... Sexual liberation or not, there is good taste and bad, and this clearly falls in the latter.

Secondly, and more sadly, Drudge linked this "story" on his page as a shot at Newsweek not being a serious magazine anymore. And is he right. I cancelled my subscription right after I received the "We are all Socialists" issue, the same one in which they finally admitted, "okay, Obama is a socialist."

This is personally disturbing to me, as my younger brother is a graduate of America's first and best school of journalism, the one at the University of Missouri. He chose not to go into the actual career field because it no longer has any integrity, and I'm afraid he is right. You might dismiss me as a "right wing zealot," but I hope you remember this, and remember it well: We ALL lose when journalism sells out and dies.

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Leeskerette — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 09:21:49 GMT

My God, skipmerkin! When did this conversation among women about who they admire become a f***ing referendum on journalism?!? We call this pop culture. We call this public opinion. We call this a group of women expressing themselves. We call this a discussion about popular music (and, guess what? The newsmagazines have pop music sections!) We call this letting off steam. We call this bonding online. Chill, for crying out loud, and go to a political site to discuss socialism and your hero, Drudge. Talk about "going off the deep end!!!" The only thing that's "dying" here is your joie de vivre and any sense of humor.

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Leeskerette — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 09:23:17 GMT

And twofold is one word.

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Binthere222 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:09:12 GMT

Well, I am a pop and I have a vox,

Let's have an article about people who are so disconnected from reality that all they can do is talk about lust for some gay guy.

Then another article about other people who like that kind of enpty, manipulative writing so much that they actually pay these writers to exist AND THEN WASTE SPACE in a national publication to print such writing.

Than another article about people who don't understand why people do not like to read this tripe, but can't understand why and are then indignant that their company might have to lay off staff, or shut down altogether.

And finally an article about all of the above persons, explaining how there comes a point where you just have to get real and understand that the things we all consume and live with come from other persons who care enough to have children, lead the boring heterosexual life and deserve more mention than some guy-tart.

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uvagirl3309 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:41:34 GMT

lol at binthere, right on point!! i just turned 31 and love my normal life with my husband, 4 month old, and, yes, 2 dogs. i wonder if these women were ever attractive with free time in a major metropolitan area in their heyday. if so, then they would have had time and opportunity to date plenty unattainable screeching gays posing as straight actors and musicians, thus lusting after similar unattainable screeching gays in middle age should probaly seem blase by now. and if this is what cougars lust after, please let me turn into a tiger. bizarre must be the new black but adam is definitely right with one thing...kris is way more crushworthy!

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Elizabeth Martin — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:43:37 GMT

I guess since I'm 48 I fall into the "cougar" age category, so I have some authority when I deem this piece of "journalism" pure stupidity.

No, Wndy Maltz. Real women get braver as they age. Only plastic fakes have a need to vicariously live out their desires through others.

Newsweek hits a new low.

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:52:37 GMT

Posted By: LightBlueSky (June 12, 2009 at 3:05 AM)

I hate to be unkind - but listening to these "cougars" - you get the feeling that they are even more jaded that "Mrs Robinson" - to the extent

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These are not "cougars"

Cougars usually go for real heterosexual legal aged men, not flamboyant gay boys.

Not Adams fault, he's a sweet lil boy, but it's humiliating to be cougar age & read this

confused ramblings from supposed "women" and a NEWS-Week " trash tripe

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Mariyas — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:58:23 GMT

ADAM was just asked about Kris but never said he has a crush on him. That's sensationalizing it. ADAm is only saying of all the male contestants, Kris would be his type. That's all.

I'm over 50 and I find ADAM so exciting and when ADAM emerged in AI, that's the time I found out I have not screamed in excitement about anyone for quite a long time. He might be gay but ADAM oozes with sex appeal. I will never find Kris crush worthy at all. yes, he is quite cute but no magnetism nor charisma. I take ADAM anytime.

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Marilyn.m — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 11:59:04 GMT

Great post! So glad that somebody else feel the same way I do about Adam Lambert...was a bit coy about talking about him with my friends around my age here (I live in Malaysia), thought they might label me as a classic case of verging into mental illness. Adam is so sexy and bold, watching him strut better than any supermodel I’ve seen and laugh like an angel...what can I say? Sometimes, I do feel that I understand his personality; I look rather loud too but have learned to look a much subtle approach nowadays as age is catching up and I'm working as a senior professional. Seriously, I must thank Adam Lambert for inciting my voyeurism otherwise my life would've been the predictable and out-right plain as it’s always been. God bless you Adam, may you be around for many more years to thrill women like me.

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Werb — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:05:23 GMT

I'm so glad I dropped my Newsweek subscription. This article is really strange.

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Peaches69 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:07:01 GMT

What I don't understand is that if you don't like hearing about all of us liking Adam Lambert or what the journalist has to say, Why are you reading it???

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bobster01 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:13:42 GMT

I bet these women are the same type who write and propose marriage to serial killers. Get a life

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Peaches69 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:14:44 GMT

I happen to love Adam Lambert. I think he is hot. And yes I am married and have 2 grown children. What I don't understand is if you don't like what the "cougars" have to say about him, or what the journalist has to say why are you reading it and then posting lengthy comments. I think it is just human nature to complain if you don't agree. I don't understand why people that supposedly don't like something but then the go directly to that site to read the artical and post a complaint. Why not go to an artical of something you do like and agree with and post a possitive feedback there?

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rainydays — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:19:20 GMT

Yikes these women are scary. I am 52, and find not much attractive or compelling about Mr. Lambert. I mean, hello, he uses more foundation then all the women I know. I was willing to give the guy a pass, I mean most of his fans are comprised of 13-year olds and older women. WOW just the audience he wants. After reading his Rolling Stone interview I realized that hey, this guy is crude. And crude is NOT sexy, well maybe to most of these women.

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:23:00 GMT

Posted By: Peaches69 (June 12, 2009 at 8:07 AM)

What I don't understand is that if you don't like hearing about all of us liking Adam Lambert or what the journalist has to say, Why are you reading it?

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Because it is a free country, and we can.

Someone has to defend reality, or just express outrage with the distortion of

what middle aged women (cougars) stand for & IT SURE IS NOT lusting

over a flamboyant young gay boy. It's just so bizarre.

I'm hoping it's Adams handlers, posting under multiple names, trying to

create a buzz in hopes to make $$$$. Otherwise serious c ouch time is called for.

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Sean51 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:24:45 GMT

Ladies! Calm down! Get a hold of yourselves! This is the same reason why we are having a rash of women teachers having sex with their much younger students.

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rainydays — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:38:20 GMT

Some are wondering why we are reading the article when we aren't on the Lambert bandwagon and trying not to speak for others here, but I read it sort of as a science report. What on earth do older women see in a 27 year old, made my up more heavily then them, not interested in them and proud to admit gay young man? It's a mystery to me so had to read the article. After reading the article and most of the responses I was frightened. Yikes again. By the way, I beleive the real definition of the word cougar is one of those older, all decked out, beauty parlor, work out nuts in tight clothes lusting after straight guys young enough to be their sons. I guess cougar is a cool thing to be for every older woman! No thanks.

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zcatz — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:46:15 GMT

I loved the article, it was written about my friends & I. lol (we're not at all 'scary' either!) Either you 'get' Adam Lambert or you don't. I totally get him in a very big way. Gay, straight, bi, it doesn't matter one bit, he's still the sexy, kind, charming, SUPER talented person that he is. No one on A.I. has ever been as good as Adam, & no one in the future can ever top him either. Talent like Adams doesn't come around very often, & to top it off, he just happens to be the most gorgeous man on earth. The guyliner, the black fingernails, the perfect hair, the clothes & jewelry...all SUPER hott!! He's the most electrifying performer I've ever seen. I literally cannot take my eyes off of him when he performs...or even just talks! He is mesmerizing!!! I'm proud to be one of his older 'fangirls' It's exciting to see him become a superstar, he totally deserves it. Proud (official, lol)Glambert #99.

Rock on, Adam!!!!!

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lunarosa — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 12:47:35 GMT

You are so right. Well put. For me, he is like an exquisite painting at the art museum, and a great concert performance rolled into one.Dare I quote Paula Abdul....he has the whole package. Part of that is his age. I, too am of a certain age. I don;t think I'd have the same appreciation of his being if he were say forty years old doing the same thing. He not only has the "Here I am. Like me or don't" thing happening, but also his youthful wild child factor, coupled with his confidence without arrogrance, and, when not singing, his downright sweetness and actual caring about others. He reminds us that people living outside the box can and do share the core attributes of humanity. When I say "we",I mean people that feel rather than just see or hear.

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Jessicasmiles — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 14:12:52 GMT

Yes, God forbid that women have a sexual attraction to someone younger than them LOL. As females, we really should just go on about our knitting, embracing pious thoughts and 'stand by our men' - staggering around barefoot and pregnant. And if we happen to be lucky enough to reach an age where we no longer spend our time caring for everyone else, let us not ever indulge in any thoughts that may provoke a salacious reaction!

Please, plenty of older men date "young chicks." This is just another example of the double standard that exists and has always existed. You talk of teachers seducing their male students, how many incidents of this behavior occured while I was in high school, but reversed - male teacher to young female? HA - too many to count. One of my teachers even got fired for this... and he wasn't even the one that came on to me when I was thirteen years old. Get a clue. There have always been men who participated in THAT kind of behavior - and we don't judge all men based on the fact that some of them are a bit pedo. Being a woman and being attracted to a 27 year old man, regardless of your age and regardless of his sexual preference, isn't strange... and it definitely doesn't hearken of pedophilia, so take your lecherous teacher assumptions away from this conversation and back to the woman-hating forum you came from.

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mro1 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 14:14:35 GMT

Thank you for "coming out" with your feelings, and for doing the research to back up where they're coming from! I'd like to add my daughter's experience--she's 9--to the discussion. She's been a fan since "Ring of Fire," too. She accessed an interview with Adam on the American Idol site, where he stated that one of his reasons for wanting to be the next American Idol was for kids who don't feel like they fit it...to let them know that it's okay, and important, to be yourself no matter what. She excitedly turned to me and said, "Mom! He's singing for me!" What a powerful message at such a young age. The LA Times suggested that Adam has the potential to be a "life changing" entertainer. He's already changed a couple in our house.

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skipmerkin — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:14:02 GMT

My apologies for misspelling "twofold," but I have a valid point. Newsweek used to be a legitimate news source, but since its decision not to break the Monica Lewinksi story, its false Koran toilet story that literally cost people their lives, and now this tripe, it is passing into a lower position than the National Enquirer. Hell, the Enquirer broke the John Edwards affair story, while "mainstream" outlets such as this refused to break it. Why? Well I can only wonder about the reasoning for such a decision, consider this: the story could have broken in January 2008, with most of the Democratic primaries undecided. With Edwards out of the race, Clinton would have stomped Obama for the nomination. Now do you see why I find it disgusting this "drivel" is in a "serious" news publication. Have fun with your communications degree Ms. (I'm assuming) Ball

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VickStiX — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:46:06 GMT

OMG! I so have to agree with Jessicasmiles below. Well said girl. Why is it that men have been doing it for years, and finally when someone as exciting talented and sexy as Elvis comes on the scene guys have to start making insults as women for finally having some to excite us again. I know why! Because they are jealous that they don't have what Adam has. It has NOTHING to do with his sexuality. As is any of us really think we had a chance at him. He has insane talent, and it's so exciting to see an entertainer that can bring excitement sexiness, and originality back to the stage. The Adam Lambert Network is growing by the second. And I for one, am very happy to be an AdamAddict. We even have the 12 steps of Adamaddiction non-recovery on our website. As weel as the Adamictionary. LOL

Vicky aka VickStix

The Adam Lambert Network

Adam Addicts Anonymous

http://adamlambert.ning.com

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LuvAdam476 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 15:56:02 GMT

I can't believe how many closed minded people we have here. Just because we women are older doesn't mean we can't appreciate true beauty and talent when we see it. A lot of this is simple chemistry. You can't help being attracted to someone or not. Adam just happens to be a HUGE MAGNET! For those of you who think we are scary, sick or cause teachers to have sex with their students, thing again and get over yourselves. That has been going on for years. Adam is not a student, he is a 27 year old man who has something that cannot be taught or learned, but is born with it. Those of us who "Crave" Adam Lambert are having the time of our lives. The rest of you are missing out big time and I feel sorry for you! This is such a wonderful feeling. For the poster wondering if any of us were ever good looking etc. HELL YES, I did my share of dating and marriages and to be honest I don't ever want to marry again. Have some healthy fun with a younger man, you bet, if we were attracted to each other. I would suggest for those of you that don't like the way the women here feel about Adam and his sexuality, you find another forum or story or blog or whatever to post. Why be negative and bash. Much nicer to be postive, enjoy life and to each his own. Don't like the story, move on. Plenty of us LOVE this story because it is oh so TRUE! I'm sure many of you have simple boring lives, in a rut etc.. not I. Adam has definitely changed that for me. Thank you Adam! You Rock My World!!!

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TishiJo — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 16:34:29 GMT

Will.i.em is sexier than this "queen."

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SavtaShayna — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 17:11:50 GMT

I could have written this; it's so me!

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Waterdragon — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 17:30:15 GMT

this is a quote from Adam posted today on Access Hollywood "I get to sing and entertain and make people happy and … hopefully forget about some of their problems, or make them feel better about some of their problems,” he said. “Just take them for a ride. That’s the coolest job in the world.” This is exactly WHY this professional working mom likes Adam. How cool is this? I'm taking my husband to the idol concert and he thinks its a hoot. I love Adam's music and his performances, and I will buy his music. We don't need to make this complicated and the haters need to lighten up. True talent will prevail...not hate. I did love this article however. Laughed out loud many times.

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CougarsForAdam — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 17:33:07 GMT

to LuvAdam476... Bravo on all points! I am having the time of my life! Just got an Ipod and am downloading all Adam's Itunes... rocking out like I haven't done in years! ADAM ROCKED MY WORLD and I'm LOVING IT!

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marlock276 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 18:38:34 GMT

Of course there are more important, sobering things going on in the world. . . but someone like Adam. a brilliant entertainer who has captivated millions all over the world with his mind-boggling talent, gives us joy and feeds our soul. . . isn't that pretty important too?

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Arliss — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:12:33 GMT

Why are there always people on these blogs that think their way is the only way?

No one is asking them to be GAY, what are they so afraid of? They are abusive to the writer and those that agree with her/him, use profanity to express their hatred, and project their own low self esteem and insecurity towards others, just to feel better about themselves?

Discrimination is not OK, and prejudice is a one sided view of the world. It is sad that in this country in 2009, people still cannot accept people for who they are, just because they are different.

Adam is a talented singer and it is too bad some people are too blind by hatred to see it.

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:13:27 GMT

To prove my point about how completely fake "cougars" & old ladies in lust w/this flamboyant gay boy,

there isn't one** NOT ONE gay young man posting the praises for Adam.

Actually there was one yesterday, a class act, honest enough to admit that. (paraphrasing)

tho Adam does have some talent, he was not attracted to him, & couldn't understand\ the heterosexual lusting ....

My problem here is the misrepresentation of the "cougar" age women, that normally

are middle aged ladies with class, enjoying the looks & talents of younger HETEROSEXUAL males, not delusional fantasies...

Also I find appalling, the fake tactics of NEWS-week lowering ever so lower their standards to

promote their Liberal causes .

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:22:46 GMT

HEY Arliss??????

They are abusive to the writer and those that agree with her/him, use profanity to express their hatred, and project their own low self esteem and insecurity towards others, just to feel better about themselves?

Discrimination is not OK, and prejudice is a one sided view of the world. It is sad that in this country in 2009, people still cannot accept people for who they are, just because they are different.

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WHERE DO U READ HATE ,BIGOTRY, ABUSE TO THE WRITER

LOW SELF ESTEEM, & ALL UR OTHER RAMBLINGS?

IS IT BECAUSE YOU FEEL INADEQUATE IN YOUR DELUSIONS U HAVE TO

ATTACK OTHER PEOPLES OPINIONS? THROWING THE LOW LIFE TACTIC ACCUSING OTHERS OF BIGOTRY AND HATE FOR DARING TO SPEAK IN REALITY MODE?

It is as written, how I feel, no hidden agendas, absolutely nothing to do

with your evil diatribe against me,

or bigotry etc. Pulling all the dirty tricks to silence those who don't agree ..

Step back & check your self.

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Arliss — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:22:48 GMT

To OhSHush: You find newsweeks standards appalling yet you have been reading this blog for 2 days? LOL

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Arliss — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:30:58 GMT

Did I touch a NERVE? LOL

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 19:41:16 GMT

osted By: Arliss (June 12, 2009 at 3:22 PM)

To OhSHush: You find newsweeks standards appalling yet you have been reading this blog for 2 days? LOL

Did I touch a NERVE? LOL

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YEs YOU SURE DID TOUCH A NERVE.

DELUSIONAL PEOPLE TRYING TO DISTORT MIDDLE AGE CLASSY LADIES IN TO

PERVERSE BIZARRE WEIRDOS ALWAYS UPSETS ME, ENOUGH TO STICK AROUND

& SET THE RECORD STRAIGHT.

I'M GUESSING "TOUCHING MY NERVE" MAKES U FEEL HOT TOO?

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1morereason — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:35:04 GMT

While all the good things mentioned are true, one more reason women may be responding to Adam is that he really seems to listen. How many times have we asked a husband/child/co-worker to do something, only to get the response: "oh,I didn't know," "I forgot," "You never told me that!" Adam, on the other hand, always listened to the judges. He paid attention, and he took their requests and comments into account. Truly miraculous behavior for us busy women! Couple that listening with that eye contact, and I'll bet that's a huge part of his appeal. Plus, he looks like the comic book drawing from the old A-Ha video and could do justice to all of Bily Idol's best songs!

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Arliss — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 20:57:38 GMT

To OhSHush: I'M GUESSING "TOUCHING MY NERVE" MAKES U FEEL HOT TOO?

Report Abuse

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To be honest, I never noticed you until you responded to my post. I was actually referring to some of the uglier posts I saw on here when I was reading through them. You might of seen them since you have been on here since YESTERDAY. You sure are paranoid.

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OhSHush — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 21:54:51 GMT

to Arliss

. You sure are paranoid.

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Copying & pasting your direct question:"Did I touch a nerve"? then following w/my answer,

does not constitute paranoia.

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kazzy — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 22:16:13 GMT

Googling Adam today. AGAIN. Got to get my fix of that hot hot guy!!!!!!!

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laurac555 — Fri, 12 Jun 2009 23:24:29 GMT

For those who have love for Adam--Important that you read:

http://heartforlambert.blogspot.com/

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vickilois — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 01:54:24 GMT

Hello, Laurac555....I wanted to tell you I read your two posts on the link you provided, and I agree with you about our saying prayers for Adam. I wanted to reply on the link site, but do not know how...I am in my fifties and not that technologically savvy. I am, however, spiritual and do understand what your concern is. Thank you for bringing this point of view into this running blog.

I think the hateful and demeaning comments that have been posted here have taken much of the fun out of what started to be a very funny, enjoyable time of sharing by women who love Adam. Those who felt the need to put their negativity into this flow have increased the ugliness of the content of what they say, and I wonder if we should not terminate the discussion through this site, and move Adam's supporters to another blog site. I would, however, suggest that you name the blog something different that how it currently reads, as we do not want to see him "fall". We do need to help catch him and protect him from the attackers. I marvel at how several bloggers have suggested that we are not who we say we are...Why in the world would people waste time impersonating Adam supporters??? All those who question us have to do is come to the A.I. tour and see for themselves the legions of supporters Adam has who fit out description. I still believe Love conquers all, but sometimes it has to be tough love. May God help us all!!!

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vickilois — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 02:03:10 GMT

For

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vickilois — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 02:09:49 GMT

I just read my last blog below, and want to correct two words with typo's: Second paragraph, line 7 , should be "than how it currently reads", and the next to the last line should say "who fit our description". I apologize for not proofing well enough.

Laura, would you please provide a way for us to move to your site, with directions on how to continue our dialogue. Hopefully, those who think Newsweek made a mistake in printing the article above, or who think we are not truly middle and older aged women who love Adam, will just leave us alone and go on about their business. I have enjoyed getting to read the many great posts from our fellow Adam fans, and hope we can continue to stay in touch. It seems this site has come to a slow halt, so maybe it is time to move on to a place where there is more harmony? Thanks.

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likeahighschoolcrush — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:02:18 GMT

Im over in Australia and have foxtel. I couldnt miss a show ether and im a 30 year old mum with 2 boys, Im so glad im not the only one, with what seems like a high school crush. He is the hottest man ive ever seen . Im not realy into famous people but Adam Lambert is so diffrent and amazing, I got a hard excited feeling every time i see him lol ... just when i thought i was getting to old for this.. Its not fare no one knows him here yet, so i cant share my excitment. Hurry up Adam relise a cd and share your style in life, with the rest of the worl..

Forever a fan who will continue to give the love

Melanie Hull 3796

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Goldbird — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:04:25 GMT

The first time I saw Adam sing on AI, I had the exact same reaction.

Oh! My!GAWD!!!!! I was rivetted to every single performance.

I thought "He's channeling Elvis!" Although their singing styles are radically different, they do share some physical similarities - jet black hair, gorgeous seductive eyes, and a sweet smile. Combine all that with a gentle demeanor, mind-blowing vocals and an explosive emotional sexual stage presence and you have - a STAR!!! One in a million.

Although we're hearing from women here, Adam's appeal is universal. His talent is just so startling and undeniable. When he performs, something reaches out and grabs you by the throat and will not let you go. Who wouldn't be turned on by this man?

When Adam goes on his tour, I will be there at the foot of the stage, rapt, ready and waiting to soak up the glory that is Adam Lambert. Once in a lifetime. Can't wait!!!! (Oh yeah, I'm a 50-yr old woman.....)

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troll motor — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:08:25 GMT

what are cougars doing paying such attention to humans. and am I to believe that a cougar even wrote and published this article in a newspaper?

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ElenorRigby — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:14:01 GMT

Very nice detailed article Joan. I commend you.I really enjoyed reading all the posts by all the women who truly appreciate Adam and his remarkable voice and talent. It seem like the past day after reading this there is alot of "trolls" who are hating on Adam on this site. It really amazes me how people have nothing better to do than to try to interfere on a blog titled" Why Cougars Crave Adam Lambert". The haters sound like downright nasty people trying to feel imperior by degrading Adam Lambert and the women who posted such nice comments. It seems to me they are the ones with psychological issues looking for attention by spewing disgusting remarks on a blog against Adam. I agree with Vickilois, ladies lets not give these morons any more opportunity to bash Adam it only makes them happy. Lets move onto another blog and let the fools play on this one, unless it is past their bedtime now or perhaps time for their medication. Adam Lambert bottom line will thrive as a successful upcoming artist and he has a huge fan base. Say what you want nasty trolls, sit back and watch Adam Lambert kick the musical industry into the startosphere.

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Old Lioness — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 03:48:04 GMT

I’m not sure where the term “cougar” comes from but I know that I am over the age to be considered one. I’d like to speak out for the over 60 crowd that adore Adam. At 66 I feel 16 again when I hear him sing. So for all of us over 60, a new term please. I suggest “Lioness”

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AnnInCincinnati — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 05:13:04 GMT

I'm with the Old Lioness. Ditto for me. I'm 62 and I love him! Call me a WILDCAT! I LOVE ADAM LAMBERT!!! The guy exudes talent!!!!!!!!!! His vocal range is amazing. He sounds just as good in his lower register as the higher register and falsetto. The guy ROCKS! Plus, he's an actor and caninterpret lyrics. Can't wait for his first album, first movie, first Grammy, Oscar and Tony. Talent like his is rare. He has charisma. He’s charming and easy on the eye. His sense of humor is infectious. I loved the “snake on my crotch” remark. Adam knows how to “WORK IT!”

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AnnInCincinnati — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 05:15:35 GMT

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GLAMCOUG — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 06:47:43 GMT

I gotta admit that this article is true! I also gotta admit that I did not buy him completely in the beginning when the screaming was a bit outta hand. He seemed to have honed it back just enuff about halfway thru and then he got me! Although Danny had me too. But after "Mad World" and then "One", I was clearly swayed and let's not even talk about "Change is Gonna Come". BUT, hot looks and sexiness aside I would like to simplify why us older chicks love him. Cuz he takes us back to our young adulthood (or mine anyway in the 80's, I am 45 and having trouble admitting this cougar thing-that darn televison show!!!) Anyway, he can wail and will not blend in with the mediocrity and watery hip hop that is the craze of today as Kris Allen will. All the easy vocals and the capacity for your neighbor and Kris Allen and the likes to easily get record deals was not in our day. You had to have mad mad chops like Adam for the most part. So that appeal as well as his crazy sexual swagger that the new medioce current scene doesn't have is overdue and welcome welcome welcome!!!!!!!!!!! GRRRRRR!!! or PRRRRR!!!!

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boop1265 — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 07:24:53 GMT

I thought I was all alone in my fascination with Adam. Then I talked to one of my girlfriends, who just happens to be lesbian, and she is as crazy about him as I am. Even admitted she wouldn't mind him parking his boots under her bed! Until I saw Adam, I had never downloaded anything from iTunes, now I have all of his performances from Idol, they have to sustain me until his CD comes out. I also promptly bought tickets to the only show in my state, Texas, which just happens to take place five days before my 50th birthday. I have never been this crazy about any performer since I was about 13, and in love with Donny Osmand. As my girlfriend says, Adam just oozes sexuality! This article had me rolling on the floor, because it describes everything I am experiencing through Adam. Only bad side effect, I've been divorced for 6 years, and not really interested in any action until now, and I don't have an outlet for that! I know we will be seeing plenty of Adam for years to come, and I can't wait to see what he does. I'll be first in line to purchase his CD. I even went to 4 different stores until I found a copy of Rolling Stones magazine just for the article on Adam. Okay so I'm pathetic, at least I'm in good company.

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tonzey — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 11:36:53 GMT

Well I am a HUGE Adam fan and what's wrong with having fun - which I think was the point of this article - and to which I think women of all ages are entitled? I'm in my 30's, but I think he's HOT and I can't get enough of him. I skipped around like a schoolgirl when I bought the RS mag with him on the front cover! (actually I bought 2) I think he is talented, charming, honest and incredibly sexy...a combination that we don't find much in today's entertainment world. Maybe it's that mannish/boyish/girlish aura about him, I don't know, and I don't care. He is going places and I will support him all the way. Go Adam! And by the way, ...if I don't like someone or something...I'm not going to 1) read the article and 2) comment on it. Go do your thing and let others do theirs... thank you.

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jeannealice — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 12:54:10 GMT

After watching him on 20/20 last night, I'm more in love with Adam than ever before!

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daviess4 — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 15:06:09 GMT

This article says everything that has been swimming around in my head since I first saw Adam.

I am the 40 something mom with career and family who dreams of Adam!

After the 20/20 interview I am even more "in love" with this intoxicating man!

Thank you for putting all my thoughts in print!

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AdamTouchesMySoul — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 16:43:57 GMT

After watching (and of course taping) 20/20 last night and after buying many copies of RS (1st time I've ever bought it) I CAN NOT STOP THINKING ABOUT ADAM - even more so than before. It really seems a bit crazy, but having this blog makes me feel more normal :) I fell that I am a "normal" person - a mom of an adorable little boy and wife to a great husband - but I have this UNCONTROLLABLE FIXATION with Adam. Nice to know that other "older" women have many of the same feelings.....thanks to you all for sharing!

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Marykordor — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 17:43:51 GMT

OMG!!! I'm so glad I read this article. I was beginning to think I'm crazy. I surfed the internet for news of Adam Lambert. I'm a 40 year professional woman with kids, a very hectic life and here I was looking forward to Tuesday evenings to watch Adam perform on TV and now that the show is over, I am having Adam withdrawal symptoms. I surfed the net, bought all his music videos from itunes and watched them over and over again and voted for the first time ever on AI. My husband stopped by my home office last week and teased me that he needs to get an Adam Lambert mask, so I'll pay him more attention. I have a loving relationship with him and love my kids, my life etc. etc. but just can't seem to get enough of Adam Lambert. This morning at the pool, I started discussing him with other 40 something..year old women, all moms and happily married.....I'm glad it's not just me being Adam Lambert crazy........And I can't wait for his Album and Tour.

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lovenews — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 18:01:27 GMT

I absolutely love this article!! My teenagers got my husband and I hooked on Idol years ago. Eventually, they stopped watching but we continued with our weekly fascination of talented and sometimes crazy contestants. This year, even my youngest daughter came back to the fold and began watching; all because of Adam. I've gone crazy over him since the moment I saw him perform. His looks remind me of Elvis in a 2009 sort of way and his talent is over the top. I'll be 51 this year and was a little embarrassed by how crazy I was for watching Adam's weekly performances. If I wasn't able to be home, I would tivo the episode to watch later...something I almost never do. Our whole extended family loved watching Adam and he would be the subject of many dinner conversations and phone calls after Idol each week. I can't wait for Adam's album to come out and I'm secretly glad he didn't win Idol so that he can go out and do his own thing..I'm really looking forward to it.

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vickilois — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 20:39:42 GMT

This is for ToTheRight, and all other detractors. Please go somewhere else. I am sure there are other causes and issues to which you can focus your cynicism and negativity. Why don't you go out and try to make the world a better place? Find something that makes you feel good, and hopefully you can then share love instead of trying to be a buzzkill for us.

Maybe these continued testimonials are becoming convincing to those who doublt that we are truly women, truly enamored with Adam, and actually using the positivie effect to enhance our lives so we can spread positive energy instead of living off anger and disdain the way some ot the writers in these blogs seem to be doing.

Laura, where are you? Is anyone out there willing to recommend a fan club, a blog site, or some place where we can continue our ongoing celebraton of Adam and his success? He was precious on 20/20 and his mom deserves to be Mother of the Year. Where is his extremely handsome Dad these days? I always enjoyed looking at him in the audience. Did you all see his brother Neil interviewed? It seems Adam was who he "is" (gay) from the time he was born, going to support my contention that many gay people are born that way. I am glad Adam is enjoying his sexuality, and hope he does find true love one day as he spoke of in the interview. He deserves it as much as anyone.

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AdamTouchesMySoul — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 20:57:16 GMT

For: ToTheRight - You obvioulsy DO care about Adam Lambert "one way or another" since you took the time read AND post to an article all about Adam Lambert! Oh, and don't worry about us "older women" - our attraction to Adam attests to the fact that our sexuality is very uninhibited and very very healthy (wink). To quote a recent statement by a rock god - “Sexuality is Universal” and “Sexy is Sexy” spoken by Adam Lambert on 20/20...........

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creatura — Sat, 13 Jun 2009 21:58:31 GMT

I love what AdamTouchesMySoul says! I am 65 and I am so glad to find out other older women are having the same great time as I am having being crazy about the boy, Adam! It is funny, my gay male friends don't seem to be as enthusiastic as I am. They think I am way over the top, and I am and glad to be over that top what ever that top is. It is wonderful to feel so young and new, and think about sex alot! I can't stop talking or thinking about him either or watching his idol videos. His performing is so brilliant and controlled and genius! I am an actress and writer and during the A.I. run I was performing a daring piece of my own work. I would come home Tue. nights and watch Adam's latest performance on my dvr and the next night create and even more daring performance of my own work. Thanks Adam for being sooo original and inspiring and such a great perfomer and so God damned SEXY!!!!

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crazyforadam — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 02:10:05 GMT

To Vickilois. You asked where you can read more about Adam. He has an official website www.adamofficial.com there is also a fansite www.adam-lambert.net Both have plenty of news and videos about Adam and where I go every day to get my Adam fix -- besides playing all the Itunes available on Adam on my Ipod. I'll admit that I am 66 years old and have gone totally gaga over this magnificent entertainer.

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LambertsLabelle — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 03:11:03 GMT

OMG..I LOVED this article!Now I can come out!!!!I m not alone with all the wired feelings and behaviours!

YES,with a loud voice,to evey point of this article!Its me,its me,its me!!

Have this unexplainable mother/son-thing with clear inzesttendency..

51 years old..and behaving like a 14-years old!

Now I know-I m a cougar!!!

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adamsdabomb — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 08:57:16 GMT

Yes, I guess I'm just another one. I'm 42 and from the moment he sang Satisfaction, I could only get satisfaction from watching this one and only sexy glam rock god perform every week and downloading all of his iTunes and Googling everything and anything about him. I have never, I repeat never, been so gaga and obsessed over anyone before, not even in my teens. Sure, I was a little smitten by Michael Jackson when Thriller came out, I had posters of Duran Duran plastered all over my bedroom and I would kiss my Rick Springfield album cover. But that was nothing compared to this! This guy makes me feel incredible, giddy, nervous, excited, elated and totally in awe. I want to wear cool black t-shirts and black nail polish and be more edgy. It's like he has jolted me like a bolt of lightening and given me new life. His voice, oh his amazing voice, that range, those high notes, ahhh!!! To die for. Seriously, like nothing I've heard before. Trying to find comparisons doesn't really do him justice. He is just the one and only Adam Lambert. He really is the whole package which is what makes him so rare and amazing and attractive. The increbible voice, the beautiful looks, the stage presence, the intelligence and charming personality and sweetness offstage, and that wonderful universal sex appeal, regardless of his orientation. I really feel like he is a gift to all of us.

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VickStiX — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:24:54 GMT

ALL cougars are always welcome at the Adam Lambert network. In fact more of the over 100 members there are over 40 women. We have an Adam's Cougars group even. And a grambert group as well. LOL Every Adam video imaginable, pictures stories etc. Nd everyone there LOVES this blog. I keep sending them here to check it out. And I keep coming back to read the wonderful comments now too.

Vicky aka VickStiX

Adam Lambert Network

Adam Addicts Anonymous

http://adamlambert.ning.com

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VickStiX — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 17:25:51 GMT

whoops that's OVER 1000 members. LOL Sometimes my fingers don't work so good when I'm thinking about ADAM! hahaha

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ACougar — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 22:33:17 GMT

Hello Fellow Cougars!

Great article, thanks for explaining our fixation w/Adam. Loved what you wrote vickilois, we don't care what the detractors say.

For a HOT watch: on youtube, "Adam Lambert is a Rock Star" by JerilinA.

Rock On!

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jktaylor02 — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:33:53 GMT

Loved your comments, Joan. I feel the same way, but guess what - I'm 62 years old and haven't been a "angirl" since I was 13 and we gaga over Elvis! I love it it - makes me feel alive and (what is amazing in this youth-focused socitie) ageless and young again at the same time!

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jktaylor02 — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:36:23 GMT

( Repeat message with typos fixed! - taling about Adam Lambert makes me nervous!)

Loved your comments, Joan. I feel the same way, but guess what - I'm 62 years old and haven't been a "fangirl" since I was 13 and went gaga over Elvis! I love it- makes me feel alive and (what is amazing in this youth-focused society) ageless and young again at the same time!

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jktaylor02 — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:37:47 GMT

( Repeat message with typos fixed! - talking about Adam Lambert makes me nervous!)

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justaminuteyounglady — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:58:25 GMT

How old do you have to be before you get to be a cougar? Or is it just a state of mind?

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Monnica8 — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 00:20:23 GMT

OMG……Adam just turns me on and I’m 58! I even painted my finger nails and toe nails with black nail polish and they look great. Have I lost my mind? I don't care, it's an amazing feeling.

Never in all my years has a 27 year old man has EVER affected me this way. It’s euphoric and I like it……. A LOT!! I can’t wait to see him live at the Idol concert in San Jose, CA. I’m visualizing myself meeting him and I already made a little gift for him. What a gorgeous, sexy, super talented man.

One last thing......

Dear God,

Please make me a 20 something year old male and let me have Adam for at least 1 hour.

Amen.

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ACougar — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 01:21:24 GMT

TO: justaminuteyounglady,

First of all, your comment is TOO cute & I also like your name! As to your good question, "How old do you have to be to be a cougar?"....I believe it's a reference to us ladies over the age of 40 (?) who are reliving our youth, when we were so excited by Elvis & The Beatles. Adam has made us feel young & sexy again, so yes, it is a state of mind.

I also claim to be a Glambert, so YOU can be a Glambert too. We Cougars Love ALL Adam Fans!

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creative_void — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 02:16:33 GMT

This is a piece that I wrote for my blog: twentiesworkshop.wordpress.com. The piece references this article and further explores the complexity of meaning around Mr. Lambert.

Complex Hotness: The Meanings of Adam Lambert

Every celebrity is a cloud of meaning making; meaning that is irreducibly them and us. It’s hard to remember when last a celebrity warranted the attention lavished on Adam Lambert – and warrant it he does. Something unusual has happened here, the meaning of which is both fascinating and a joy to untangle.

First, apologies to Mr. Lambert: yes, I get that a lot of this has nothing to do with you. On the other hand, a lot of it does and in a very inspiring way. From behind your eyes, and to your infinite credit, you “get” lots of what you’re doing here. But there are some structures that you don’t see and couldn’t see precisely because of where you are – behind your eyes. Part of the meaning cloud is your audience’s creation. But you have used every ounce of staggering sultriness to ask us to dance. And dancing we are.

Newsweek columnist Joan Raymond confessed that neither she, nor many of her middle-aged “cougar” friends could stop thinking about Adam. (http://blog.newsweek.com/blogs/popvox/archive/2009/06/10/why-cougars-crave-idol-runner-up-adam-lambert.aspx) Yep, and as a cougar with thirty years of mindfulness practice, I’m watching exactly how this young man is affecting me inwardly. He’s been a soundtrack for my dreaming. His subtle energetic power is clearly formidable, and, I’m happy to say, that when Adam plays as a background task I find my foreground more optimistic, more willing to risk, my committed to giving and, as with many, more horny. I’ll let the horniness obscure the energetic complexity here (as Newsweek did) for a moment and then return to deeper issues – there’s a lot more going on.

The idea that androgyny is bland is as insulting as it is inaccurate. Fascinating that Monsieur Lambert has struck such a cord with boomer women, but it’s not just boomers who find this manifestation of sexual life force utterly compelling. Women everywhere are jockeying for position to be Adam’s witty and cherished BFF, or as Michelle Collins of MTV’s Best Week Ever gushed in a smart, sweet and hilarious interview with Adam, “If you need a surrogate, I’m here.” (http://www.bestweekever.tv/2009/05/28/the-adam-lambert-interview-that-will-change-your-life/) On 20/20, Adam even admitted to being a little bi-curious. Hang in there, Michelle.

Folks, this hot kind of androgyny is what a lot of us were looking for. We weren’t asking men to suppress their life force, for god’s sake, just not to use it to dominate and repress women. (And let me clarify: I’m talking about the domination or submission that is the subject of awareness. Playing with dominance and submission – particularly in sex – as an object of awareness is a completely different story.) Ever wondered why evolved women are such notorious and proud ***-hags? This kind of androgyny glorifies women without diminishing men. What women thankfully cherish in their gay boy friends is that sexuality isn’t a zero sum game; womanliness doesn’t diminish manliness or vice versa. It just all overflows as a giant volcano of eros. Bring it on, baby. Gay boys are sexy to women because they’re equally as uninterested in dominating women as they are in sucking up to them. The history of heterosexual politics falls away in our intimacy and play. I love my gay boy friends. We don’t worry about who goes the guy stuff or who does the girl stuff we both do both and I know a lot of women who crave this “bothness” in a primary relationship.

Adam-otopia is deeply sexy; erotic in the most profound sense of awakening and moving the life force toward that which is higher, clearer and stronger. I’m not too proud to feel – in this particular pop culture moment – infinite light hitting my grateful skin. I’ve been thinking about this for a while: what does it look like when a person exhibits mastery of skills that have been traditionally assigned to women and mastery of skills traditionally assigned to men?

Adam’s got skills that are taught more to girls: emotional connection, the people-pleasing smile, the sweetness and an unyielding supportiveness, even with competitors. One American Idol vocal coach admonished him to stop giving his competitors such good advice. But he’s also got the skills taught more to guys: he’s utterly strategic, articulate and focused. He’s got the confidence to play with the big kids. There was a delicious moment on AI when mentor Jamie Foxx noticed the equality with Foxx that Adam announced with his demeanor: “You don’t give a *** who I am, do you?” said Foxx. Adam dissolved in laughter but showed no inclination to retract. When Danny Gokey was literally shaking in anticipation of the news of whether he, Kris Allen or Adam had been cut from the top three, Adam was unintimidated.

I have argued in an academic article that easy mastery of both male and female skills is a hallmark of advanced evolution. As Lambert says in Rolling Stone, “I don’t know why our society has such an emphasis on masculinity and femininity – it’s really gross. I don’t think you’re truly sexy until you don’t care about that.” It’s a point that took me twenty-five pages but let’s make it an invocation.

I actually get a little choked up realizing that Adam’s clear blue eyes and broad smile are the reason I did gay rights political work in the 80s – maybe it’s a little sliver of what Jesse Jackson’s felt at the Obama inauguration. Adam’s deflection of a reporter who said, “Do you want to answer the question that’s been dangling over your head?” was sweet, funny and non-acerbic. “It’s not dangling over my head,” said Adam, “It might be dangling over yours…” to which he added in Rolling Stone, “I like things dangling over my head.” It’s a huge victory that we hardly realize any more that it would have been, even twenty years ago, nearly impossible to show this kind of comfort with one’s homosexuality in the middle of such acute mainstream scrutiny.

So, gay rights activists and feminists, (Harvey Milk, would you have just loved this boy?) here’s our baby – sexy, gorgeous, comfortable in his skin, a master of many things both traditionally female and traditionally male and even Jewish. Madre de dios! Even better when he and AI champ Kris Allen (to Allen’s great credit) chose to double-handedly defuse the culture wars. Allen, a devout Christian, is seen as completely comfortable both accepting the hugs of his homosexual transgressive friend and also initiating a surprise hug during a backstage interview.

And there are more signs that Adam may herald an unusually high stage of evolution. He talks repeatedly about letting his decisions be guided by “who I am.” But he seems to exhibit precisely the paradoxical disidentification with self that seems to come with deep self-knowledge and self-acceptance. Several writers have commented on Lambert’s ability to hear the judges’ critiques with unusual equanimity -- as though doing kaizen on his product. While he clearly loves his theatrics, he seems oddly still at his core, and able to hold his personas lightly and at arm’s length in a way that even intellectual glam-rockers like David Bowie did not. There’s a quality of unattachment in Adam’s theatrics that seem to allow his “real self” to float away, unimpeded. Stranger still is a sense of ebullience and humor behind even his most leatherish, bad-boyish antics that makes me melt in my seat with its sophistication. No wonder us cougars can’t get enough.

Compare Adam’s rendition of “Can’t Get No Satisfaction” (http://www.americanidol.com/videos/season_8/performances/adam_lambert_i_cant_get_no_satisfaction) to our memories of Mick Jagger singing the Stone’s classic. Mick seemed like a seriously unsatisfied guy. For Adam it’s all a smile and a wink and a poke in audience’s ribs: “yeah, there’s a lack of satisfaction and it’s kinda fun to scream about. Let’s scream together and get off on it!”

I’ve even gotten hooked on Adam’s brother Neil’s blog (http://negativeneil.com/); the writing is smooth, succinct, insightful and hilarious with that Jon Stewart-ish sang froid that belies Weltschmerz. Neil describes Adam’s Rolling Stone cover as “lips slightly apart doing his best ‘Which of your kids am I going to defile? Son or daughter?’ face.” Which works as irony since it seems that there’s nothing about Adam’s sexuality that defiles. Compare this to the older generations of rockers: Jagger seems like his sexuality could easily defile; Gene Simmons seems to defile everything in his presence.

And so here’s the reason that I sat down to write this – to unpack why my reaction to Mr. Lambert has been so deep, so complex and…well…so happy.

And I arrive at deep gratitude and awe at the nature of evolution and a deep optimism and appreciation of Adam’s generation. We worked to create an environment where this preternaturally talented, ebullient, strong and strategic being can be comfortable in his own skin. Evolution – particularly feminism and the gay rights movement – seemed to manifest in his gloriously supportive parents and in a context that can revel in the sexiness that is groundbreaking in its combination of androgyny and sweetness. The fact that he is so good with the press – so non-defensive and forthcoming (oddly, even when avoiding the gay question) feels as though it derives from him paradoxically not taking himself particularly seriously and at the same time handling his life and persona with conscious strategy. It’s almost a definition of detached engagement. Adam is what happens as we evolve.

And when I connect with him, listening to his voice or reading interviews, it’s this evolution that is erotic. We made a space for him to evolve and now his evolution inspires us to our best energy. This eros, this horniness runs deep; it vibrates to the very essence of eros in the double meaning of eros as sexual and evolutionary. As Adam puts it, “Sexuality is universal. What’s sexy is sexy!” The feeling of eros pulling loose from its moorings in masculinity and femininity, hetero or homosexuality and launched as self-as-object? A complex and inspiring hotness.

Thanks, Adam. You rock.

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laurac555 — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 11:49:53 GMT

Vickilois--

http://heartforlambert.blogspot.com/

Just go to 'comments on the lower right of the blog entry,

Thank you so much for understanding what my blog is about.

The spiritual aspect is so important and needs attention, to prevent a 'fall' of the wonderful Adam.

Even his name speaks volumes.

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Dobe Lover — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 19:42:35 GMT

From the moment I saw Adam try out for Idol,I was hooked. I am 54,an old?! rocker, and from day one I have called him "My Adam". Its incredible and not surprising that this young gorgeous,talented young man has caught the imagination of us "Cougars". His songs are in my head all day, I actually daydream about this guy....have we all gone nuts?! Well if thats true, I dont want to be sane!

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rocker-lady — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 21:55:42 GMT

49 year old Glambert#8888 - OMG thank you for this article. I was starting to think there is something wrong with me. Every word was exactly what I was feeling. How many years have it been before any singer had that effect on us. Is it since Elvis, Bettles and Queen, nobody since then. I think Adams performances was so racey, so supurbly out of this world, that for that period of American Idol, I could not do or think anything else but Adam. I have his CD dowload version from Itunes, playing in my car, every day on my way to work and home......since Idol's last show.

When I saw him the first time, I somehow KNEW and the bullet wne through the church for me, I was done and I was spent and officially a Glambert.

I think AAA has a new meaning for all of us, Adam Addicts Anonymous

Okey fellow cougars, we are NOT alone, there are a few million of us out there, to make it worst, I live in San Diego!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

glamgram — Mon, 15 Jun 2009 23:34:05 GMT

I was so excited to see this article and read the comments. I was hooked from day one on Adam Lambert and it didn't matter that by week two I figured he was gay. He is smoking hot! Every time he got on that stage I didn't want him to get off. I haven't felt this excited about a performer since I screamed my head off for the Beatles. Go Adam! (If anyone is keeping track of how many of us are over 40 - I am 61 and loving life!)

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

justaminuteyounglady — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 00:27:40 GMT

Well, thank you, Acougar, for your kind comments. My emotional age arrested at approximately 12.5 years old, of which I have always been oddly proud. If I were a cougar, and I'm not saying I am, age-inappropriate behaviors/fixations would be nothing new to me. My concern is, that an outspoken older fan base might reflect poorly on Adam with certain media-types. I like Adam too much to have any aspects of his appeal to be viewed as, in the parlance, not current. Although cougars haven't hurt David Cook's industry standing, I take no chances. Therefore, henceforth, I shall be known as Madison, and I dearly love Hannah Montana, the Jonas Brothers, cute little Kris Allen, and dreamy Adam Lambert. I suggest we all keep it shady. Adopt your own alter-egos.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

vickilois — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 01:23:34 GMT

Hi, everyone! I am glad that more ladies are joining this discussion. I found the official web site for Adam recently and joined it. Last night, I found a video he personally recorded to speak directly to the fans. I encourage everyone to join and check it out. You can google Adam Lambert Official, and I think the link is www.adamlambertofficial.com. It has so much on it, and it seems to be the site he most supports. See you there!!!

Does anyone know how to stop the words from being cut off on the right of the ongoing blogs? After this first page, the additional comments are compromised because about an inch worth of comments are missing, presumably occluded by the advertisements on the right.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

vickilois — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 01:58:05 GMT

Sorry, the link is adamofficial. You leave out the Lambert. On that site, you can get a list of every single forum, chat room, links, other fan sites, more than you can imagine. Some are more active than others, but it is impressive!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 04:57:30 GMT

Hi, I too wish to know how to read entire comments, not guess what has been cut off by ads. I find ever yones comments to be so wonderful and inspiring. It is funny but I was thinking the same thing as "just a minute young lady" don't want to.. cast an unfavorable light on his career. I thought, "God, do I need to rent a pre teen to go with me to the AI show? " It is like sneaking around on our parents when we were teenagers. But it makes sense that my generation, I am 65, would love, love Adam. we are from the 60s which Adam has said he loves and we broke free from the repression of the 50s , most of us had lots of sex and grass and it was so great to feel we were free and doing things no one had done before. So all that freedom and loving life in a new and different way is still inside us. And here is this guy, Adam who is re awakening all that stuff and we are supposed to lay low, so that...He can be successful? I don't know, I don't want to ruin it for him, but are we the counter culture again? There is something so funny about this. Underground Grannies! And is "Just a minute young lady" Some one from Adam's record company, trying to make sure his career stays on course? I don't think anything can stop him. He is a man for all seasons and sexes. And I am not going to shut up and lay low and salute the agist flag or pretend to be younger or the right demographics. I am a 60s girl and I am much too proud of where I have come from to ever sneak around again!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

gloriadam — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 17:09:18 GMT

Hello Fellow Cougars,

Of course, being one of those one "women of a certain age (55) out there who just one Adam

Lambert Google search away from crashing my computer," I would find my here to this almost

embarrassingly accurate article about Cougar cravings.

I have never voted on AI before, certainly never imagined sending text votes, yet I did,

and would have participated in the live chat with Adam (the invitation came via text msg

after I sent 5 text votes) had I not had to attend a meeting for my neglected professional life.

Nor have I ever before joined my 17-year-old son in walking around the house plugged into

an ipod, an Adam playlist repeating --but for my ears only as I attempt to carry out various

responsibilities, my mind being fed something else altogether as Adam's voice streams directly

into my head via the earbuds --really nice ones that I just bought so as to hear his high range

even better --oh the delicious clarity!

Indeed, Creatura, "a man for all seasons and sexes," and that explains a lot of the "why?"

for me. No other AI contestant has had this effect on me though I have seen the show before;

Adam happens to have a little of all the essential factors that together are the ingredients of

a complete package, a, well, full-course meal. He is every man all at once, and I am a recipient

of those components of that everything that nourish me. This is in contrast to years I've spent

(thirty-six) being every woman for my husband, a musical connection being

"I'm Every Woman," by Whitney Houston and Chaka Khan, the chorus of which is:

"Im every [wo]man, its all in me

Anything you want done, baby

Ill do it naturally

Im every [wo]man, its all in me."

Adam is a bridge to everything, anything; so many paths in and out of him that he is a travel

guide, an escort to a richness of expression that has "no boundaries." Everything becomes

possible through this 27-year-old man. His being 27 is significant; close to 30, able to bear

a "mature" label if I want/need to pin that on him; definitely not a child, and yet a younger

softness about him at times, a kindness and generosity in his attitude when he speaks in

interviews and is not performing with that edge and roughness that invites speculation about

a capacity for intimate ferociousness mitigated by the understanding that is a product of the

softness that is part of who I am as a woman. So he is what I am and what I need,

what I want, and what I can have, what my senses can delight in; sound being something

tactile as my ears pick up the vibrations of his sound.

It's not just dreaming; hearing Adam is intimate in and of itself.

Do you realize what happens in hearing? Vibrations of Adam's

singing activate tiny hairs in my ears; these hairs vibrate with what I'm hearing, respond,

and send signals to my brain --Adam is in my head quite literally, the vibrations and frequencies

of his voice particularly stimulating. Of course, such stabs at science weren't on my mind

at all when I took the ipod to bed and fell asleep listening to my Adam playlist, the brief

silences between songs punctuated with my husband's snoring.

I love Adam's transformations, the range of his look, a sexiness without boundaries, a sexiness

of many angles, each one attracting multiple angles of myself, something that doesn't happen often (has never happened before); an awakening of many parts of myself, maybe all the parts

of myself, so that loving Adam involves more of me than

my more specific loving of other things where boundaries matter more.

Because Adam is unapologetic about not only who he is, but also who he can be,

and who he is willing to be on stage,

erasing boundaries with a simple widening embrace of unspecified pronouns --a profound

invitation to everyone; because Adam so freely indulges in his possibilities, I can freely

indulge in those possibilities that connect me to him. He is a most incredible bridge to places

that had been closed to me, yet places in which I blossom better, petals just as red and pink

as they want to be, as they can be. I like who I can become for loving Adam.

And for me there is something else I hadn't imagined. My son and I share Adam.

He noticed as I spoke my fears that America would not vote for a gay idol, that he would

have to place second --his talent was too undeniable for him to land anywhere else;

my son noticed as I stated that an onstage persona is the only part

that the public should judge. "You're really getting into this,"

my son said. Indeed I was. And my getting into Adam in my son's presence established

yet another bridge, from mother to son (Adam would be a great son, and a great brother

for my great son); my son taking my support of Adam as an opportunity

to share that he is gay also, that he had hoped things in America

had changed. My open acceptance of Adam (devotion really)

convinced my son that I could be as accepting

--indeed, even more accepting-- of him. What a great moment!

It is not the private Adam that I love; I have not been introduced to him.

That is the Adam that belongs to Adam, to do with as he deems necessary.

It is the Adam that lives on stage and in the air that I adore, completely taken in

by the seduction of sight and sound that accompanies things

I cannot possess yet own from time to time:

a trip to wonders of the world, Niagara Falls, the Great Smokey Mountains, Disney World

(Adam is such a sizzling playground that has a spa center where I can recover

and even repent between decadent slides into loving him);

my view of these wonders is mine,

and though I sleep in the foothills under the stars, I can't take that mountain home,

and nor do I want to, having to reduce its size and splendor in order to make it portable

and small enough to fit in my small space. I want the wonder where I can visit it in its

majestic fullness even when crowds are present, each one of us loving the wonder differently,

rainbows sometimes present, sometimes not, but my pleasure, my view, my immersion

in the expanse distinctly mine.

What the mountain does when the public's not looking is up to the mountain.

So long as the sun rises, and the curtain is pulled back

so that the mountain can be mine again and again and again.

Creatura, I'm "not going to shut up and lay low" either. I have my "peace, love, Adam" t-shirt

and my "glambert" t-shirt, both of which I'm happy to wear wherever I go, of course to Adam's

concerts. A man whose sexy is the most complex and complete that I've ever encountered?

Miss out on a chance to see him perform in person? A man who delights me and witch whom

I could talk about makeup as easily as anything else?

My husband has no interest in my mascara or my Olay Regenerist.

We don't talk Maybelline or Max Factor.

But the complete me can connect with Adam!

Paradise lost has been regained.

(So good to have a place to say all this! Thanks.)

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

gloriadam — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 17:52:45 GMT

Actually, ToTheRight, not that it matters, I pay for my house

(my husband makes a third of what I do)

And my husband has eyes, which he does use

--inspiring me to remain eye-worthy.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

AdamTouchesMySoul — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:03:23 GMT

AGAIN for ToTheRight: You sure are spending ALOT of time on this site and posting to it MANY TIMES. You REALLY must be as enamored as us "dried up old prunes" (as you so "eloquently" put it). And don't you worry yourself about our dear husbands - they are reaping some amazing and explosive benfits of our reawakened hotness!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

AdamTouchesMySoul — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:43:47 GMT

WOW, ToTheRight, for someone who says "I don't really care one way or the other about Adam Lambert" you really are devoting so much time to this! Come on, join us - it is obvious you want to, but are afraid! Let go of your inhibitions and pent up frustrations and and join us - we welcome you. Adam has obviously lit a fire in you just as he has with us - so do not resist anymore - the denial and resistnace of Adam Lambert is futile...............

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 18:44:04 GMT

Darn , these ads make it so hard to read the comments! There must be a way to see them all completely "Gloriadam, I so loved what you wrote! I want to send it out to friends. Adam is certainly a universal awakening and what great timing! "to the right" sounds awfully envious. V. envy. Or love envy or something,,,just bored and longing for something wonderful to happen in its life. I hope who ever "right " is finds something as soaring, and wonderful and lovely and as exciting as what the rest of us are experiencing with Adam. It is so great to read everyone's own unique response, when I can read it. As for "right" if you think of us as dried up prunes, well guess what honey, the Flood of Adam has revived us, in the best sense of the word and I for one am tres juicy!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

gloriadam — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 20:11:35 GMT

These ads are indeed bothersome,

but (silver lining, making lemonade, etc.)

having to fill in the blanks

is somehow appropriate, as many of us are saying how

this young man fills in blank or disconnected spots

in how aspects of living

and thinking have been configured.

Creatura, I'm glad you liked what you could read of what I wrote

--despite the typos that I can see now that the comment has been

posted. Please do send it to friends (I'd like to post a corrected

version). I'm trying in this comment to not type all the way to the

right margin, hitting return so as to try to make the lines in the

posted comment shorter; if this works, all of this comment should be

readable, and if it doesn't work, then we'll take from it what we can take.

Everything we encounter in life gives us a chance to interact

with it, and perhaps be influenced, maybe even change

--this is a way in which we can grow at any age

(I understand that the brain has remarkable plasticity).

Since encountering Adam, I have grown

and expanded.

One lesson I've learned from joining this Cougar group is not to feel

guilty about innocent pleasure that is oddly therapeutic, a kind of,

as you pointed out, Creatura, marital aid --there are so many

on the market, and Adam is one that doesn't arrive

in a plain brown wrapper. No need for that.

Pleasure can be downloaded, 99 cents for a song,

a buck and a half for a legal video, youtube for unlimited hits

--shared, very communal.

That being said, this is something larger than

sex; this is also a tearing down of walls and ceilings, a getting out

of the box that separates us not only from each other

but also from, in my case, for instance, a full range of

a personal humanity.

--As if Adam is like a form of prism

through which light can be seen in all its colors and glory;

as a beam exits Prismadam, it splits widely and beautifully,

a spread peacock tail of light able to attract,

the red, the orange, the yellow, the green, the blue,

the indigo, the violet --anything susceptible to the visible

spectrum has a possibility of attraction.

All these facets of the gem that Adam is refract and reflect

light according to the complexity and uniqueness of his cut,

and what that light falls on, as it's scattered in so many directions

simultaneously, shines.

Keep shining, Cougars!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

vickilois — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 13:39:58 GMT

If you go to your personal email, you can email Sarah and Newsweek about her

feature space, though the article was by Joan, this is Sara Ball's space, and let

them know about the problem with reading the right area of blogs. I emailed

em last night at pop vox to tell them of this problem,but if many do the same,

maybe we can recapture all the comments.. Go to adamofficial.com for a treat!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Dobe Lover — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 13:43:07 GMT

From the moment I saw Adam try out for Idol I was hooked.I am 54 ,a rocker,

and from day one I called him "My Adam" Its incredible and not surprizing

that Adam, being such a sexy,talented,gorgeous, (did I say sexy?!)young man

has such a huge following of so called "cougars". His songs are in my head all

day, I actually daydream about that guy! I know its sad but true, and most of

my friends think I'm crazy,but if thats true, I dont want to be sane!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Milwaukeefor Adam — Wed, 17 Jun 2009 16:07:23 GMT

I'm glad to see people are still posting here. I'm 49, and have been hooked on Adam

since the auditions. I have never, ever been so drawn to a singer before. On the

night of the audition show, I turned to my family and said "there are three things

you should know about this guy, he's gay, he's Jewish and he's going to win." I can

say the Jewish thing because we are too! Pride! There aren't a lot of Jewish rock stars!

Anyway, the talent absolutely blows me away. What makes him so attractive to older

women? I really think that he is the ultimate combination of the "bad boy" that we are all

attracted to, shouldn't want but do, and a nice guy with good manners and a sunny

disposition. Oh, and did I mention that's he's sexy as hell? As he says, sexy is sexy. That's an amazing combination!

I have never before bought any music for myself off I tunes, my teenage sons had to teach me

how. I have never blogged before. I have never searched Google and You Tube daily before.

I am addicted. But, now feel validated by all these postings. I do hate the word "cougar"

though!

One more thing, I bought tickets to see the Idol show in my hometown. The same hometown as Danny Gokey, and while he was good, I'm afraid all the attention in the local media will

be on Danny, and our Adam will get overlooked!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 04:02:28 GMT

Thanks Vickilois, the ads seem to have gone partially away, but

still the comments are cut off, now by blanck space, I will do as

some of you are doing and not type all way to the end.

I don't think it is just us older women who are celebrating

the advent of Adam. How about the term "Great Women, "

instead of cougars, We have been around long enough

to know we are great! I am just so astounded that so many

people are feeling the same kinds of things I am feeling.

( and haven't felt since I was a teen and oh, I do know

so much more now! and can really enjoy this so much

more) Anyway when I go to his videos, on ABC ( I have

a new computer which I haven.t set up yet and will buy them

from Itunes when I do) there are tons of new responses which

appear to be from young people raving and raving about him.

It is just all sooooo wonderul fellow Great Women!!!!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

rurallivign — Thu, 18 Jun 2009 06:45:10 GMT

Lesleigh9999: You certainly got it right! I have lived through the polio scare; the Cuban missile crisis while living just miles away in Florida---remember the hoarding of canned foods, the filling of bathtubs with water, the hiding under desks, the worry of going into a fallout shelter; the assassination of a president; my boyfriend getting "the Draft" (and "Shaft" ---Vietnam), the death of 2 sisters; the fear of going to Desert Storm; the death of a parent; a failed marriage; miscarried children; and I could go on. I witnessed the miracle of Elvis, the Beatles, and went to HUNDREDS of concerts in my lifetime. I've seen Rock begin, sputter, collapse, and begin again. I've seen men walk on the moon, phones come to everyone's house, and to every person---cell phones, TVs went from black & white to outrageously wonderful---color, huge, high def. There are wonderful technical devices, all within financial reach. Gone from one family car to each family member having a car. Having menial jobs until I got a real career. Made it through the Millennium without a nick or scratch---although 30 years prior Jeane Dixon told us the world would end in 1999. SO, YOU 'DOWNERS' OUT THERE, go have your own lives, try to see if you experience as much, and let us enjoy a little fun. Instead of being flakes, hags, or dried-up old women who need "to get a life," let me tell you: we've had lives, and then some. Now we're ready for fun.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Leeskerette — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 07:41:14 GMT

The only way I've figured out how to read the comments as written is to copy and paste them onto Word or an email. The cool part is that, once you can see the comments in their entirety, you can simply delete the hater ones! Wow, rurallivign! That was quite a "trip through time!" It seemed as though your life was "flashing before your eyes," as they say. But, although you -and we- are very much alive... you might say we ARE experiencing a bit of heaven ...

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

rurallivign — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 09:25:34 GMT

Leeskerette: LOL. And guess what, I'm not finished yet. I'm only 53. I already have my AI concert tickets for D.C. and I can't wait. I've seen Elvis, Paul McCartney, Ringo Starr, George Harrison, Alice Cooper, Grand Funk, Aerosmith, Rolling Stones, Eric Clapton, Cream, Mott the Hoople, David Bowie, ZZTop, Leon Russell, Three Dog Night, Fleetwood Mac, the Kinks, Heart, John Cougar Mellencamp, Yes, Emerson, Lake, & Palmer, Ozzy Osbourne, Jerry Lee Lewis, Joe Cocker, Chris Issak, Jonny Lang, Suzy Quattro, Blue Oyster Cult, Delbert McClinton, BB King, Peter Frampton, Steve Miller Band, Ted Nugent, and dozens more, BUT I haven't been this excited to see a performer in years. Cheers. Let's enjoy the madness.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

CougarsForAdam — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 17:44:45 GMT

To rurallivign... I LOVE YOU!!! Your post (dated 6/18 at 2:45 AM) is RIGHT ON THE MARK! At 50+ I am having the time of my life! I've raised my kids, went thru divorce, burried a brother, have a professional career and am self-supporting, etc..... and now I'm ready to ROCK & ROLL! Just bought my first iPod and downloaded all Adam Lambert iTunes (and some Allison) and rock out while I do my exercise, shopping, waiting on line at the supermarket, etc. I CANNOT WAIT till the Adam Lambert world tour -- I'll be in the front row along with my fellow "cougars" screaming & rocking & having the time of our lives. (Hoping Allison tours with Adam!)

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

meredith1 — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 04:06:22 GMT

loved the article, love the comments even more. as a psychologist/psychoanalyst in real life, i have been obsessed with my obsession with adam -- trying very hard to wean myself once i realized i had a "problem" (it hasn't worked); trying harder to make sense of it. forgetting the psychobabble in the article (all of which does make some sense but offers no real relief or clarification), i have to say i think there is just something about this guy's amazing talent and his mix of styles/skills/genres that for people who have lived through enough of the various incarnations of rock just resonates; -- more so, than say, for my 20 something daughter (who has now come over from the "kris is so cute" dark side and loves adam!). judging from the reaction of her boyfriend and my 19 year old son -- well i think tht some younger teens/adults r just threatened by his sexuality. . . which is the other thing: he IS very hot, he's just got that elvis/mick jagger swagger which some of us can remember (i hated elvis when he was popular bec i was too young -- thought he was disgusting -- and that's exactly my point here, btw). but u know, some things r only worth so much analysis -- and then it's just time to give yourself over to some (almost harmless) fun! i will not go to the AI tour (too much awfulness to sit through), but i will be on line at the crack of dawn to see adam in NYC with GMA. can't wait!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 20:05:31 GMT

I can't say it enough ways how thrilling iI find all this outpouring

about Adam.I love that there are so many ways to look at this

phenomenon. Meredotj1, I am not a therapist, but had many, many

happy years of analysis so I can kinda knowwhat you are talking

about. There is also the spiritual aspect, the law of attraction

too. Abraham- Hicks, not the Aussie woman. I also can't go to the

concert and sit through the others, thanks for the tip on GMA, I'll be

there too! f the show is done in NY. I felt such a kind

of poignancy (sp?) when I read all the rocker chicks posts. I now

wish I'd paid more attention to rock music, I liked it but...

My neck turning with Adam is much moretheatrical. Of course I

did looove Elvis! But many years ago, the late 60s, I did a

few shows, at NYC.s cafe La Mama, with a group called Theater of

The Ridiculous, I also had auditioned and had been accepted

in Uta Hagen's acting class. So I was woking in polar opposites

but There was such an incredible mad kind of energy in the

Theater of the Ridiculous shows ,so exciting and some how very

freeing! The group it was run by a maniac of sorts but he really knew

how to bring out crazy over the top kind of performances from

his actors, I had a hard time keeping up,,then. but I loved the

outrageousness and daring of these shows,loved, loved the

ferocious energy! the shows were a very funny and intense mockery of the

so called conventional reality. Lots of giant phalic props, some

7 feet tall and crazy costumes, abusurd dialogue and plot. These shows

were the jumping off place f or a lot of innovative off bwy theater to come.

And the glitter, Adam often talks of glitter. We actors put so much glitte

on our faces and bodies. I remember shaking a pound of glitter

from my sheets the morning after a show. And there was, at

least with the Drag queens then new kind of glamour! The casts

was of all different kinds of young kids, gay, strait, different races,

and I think they, myself included , felt like outcasts, rebels, not

wanting or being able to walk the strait and narrow. But we had

with great excitement and passion for life and the director knew

how to tap into that, sometimes not too kindly. I moved on to

other types of theater, but always wondered what the heck that

energy was and how to use it myself. Adam's performaces have

the same wonderful, intense, outrageous energy, I so

loved long ago, I though to myself ," Oh Good God, after all these years,

here it is again!" and this time it is coming from a boy who is sane and

grounded and likes himsefl and he has great control over his performances

and is very perfectly able to negotiate the world. Well, I didn't

think it all so neat and tidy when I first saw him, that came

later. And of course there is also the incredible sensualty and sexuality.

And his wonderful talent, He is just the bestest!!! I also rememberd

one of the best and most passionate kisses I ever had, actually it was

the best , was with a gay guy in one of those shows! It was after the show,

not in the show. Sexual attraction certainly knows no boundries. I am ever

grateful for that best kiss! I somehow feel

that a lot of us who are so taken with multi-dimentional Adam will

experience..... well tuning into Adam is, I think in some way

tuning into the very best of ourselves, , the most alive, the purest,

the most loving, the most sexual ( and lets not forget outrageous)

parts of ourselves and.. for some reason, I think our lives

are going to get even better. I feel that unrealized dreams

and desires will start to come true. I do see Adam creating a

new kind of venue, something for sure which has never been

done before. Yippee for that!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Sat, 20 Jun 2009 20:28:00 GMT

Ok, I didn't clean up the previous post the way I wanted to, and leaned on my key board with out meaning to and it sent itself off. Oh that's right there are no accidents. I just read it over and wasn't too embarassed. In fact it felt so good to say it all, who cares if it doen't make perfect sense!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

CougarsForAdam — Mon, 22 Jun 2009 17:32:02 GMT

To creatura: Loved reading your post... typos and all! It brings out all the raw emotion you were feeling, and I must say.... I am in complete agreement with you and am enjoying the excitement Adam has re-ignited in me! I was too young for the Elvis explosion, but I completely understand now what it was all about. Just hearing Adam's voice puts a smile on my face and makes me soooo very happy. Adam ROX my world!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Tue, 23 Jun 2009 05:10:58 GMT

Thanks so much Cougars For Adam, for your lovely words! just wanted to add one last thing, He is such a great actor as well. I've watched his Idol videos over and over and he broke down each song like a monologue, line by line. And for each song he plays a different character, still using himself, different aspects of his real self, which is what any really good actor knows how to do. Every lyric has a specific action, meaning, not just all lumpy mushed together like the some of the other singers. No one has mentioned this, but I can't wait till he makes movies. He couldn't have done all those musicals if he couldn't act, Even if you can sing and dance up a storm, they won't hire you if you can't act. He is musically brilliant, but ooohh I do sigh at his perfection as an actor!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

laurac555 — Wed, 24 Jun 2009 14:56:24 GMT

For those who love Adam, truly.

http://heartforlambert.blogspot.com/

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Parisienne — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 02:42:41 GMT

No need to over analyze this..although I was interested in the article. I am a 62 year old mother and today my 22 year old son bought me tickets to see ADAM on tour..My family does believe that I am obsessed in a somewhat unhealthy way - fact is, Adam represents a raw sexuality and a talent the likes of which we have not seen in decades. I went into withdrawl when Idol was over - I looked forward to Adam's performances weekly and followed everything I could find on the internet. Okay, I'll admit it - I actually get goosebumps when he sings and I CRY too. It's the authenticity and the talent that have me hooked. The gorgeous looks don't hurt. Can't wait for the CD. Hope he does one with the older Glamberts in mind - why not just do a double CD?? Lots of Adam for everyone.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

live and learn — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 19:23:11 GMT

What a relief-I'm not crazy! I am so glad I found this article and learned there are SO many other Adamoholic cougars! My tickets have already been purchased;

While I related to the whole article, it was the comments by Martz that truly hit home. Adam is attractive to me on more than a physical level. His self-knowledge coupled with polite intelligence is also sexy beyond belief. He has caused me to examine myself in a way no one supposedly much older and wiser ever has!

Why do so many of us put our dreams on hold? Why cannot we just be overselves and get past what others think? What unexplored or forgotten talents do many of us have to share?

Who would have ever imagined a gay man, younger than my son, could open my eyes, heart and mind so dramtically? I wish I could personally thank him for the opportunity to find and be myself.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

live and learn — Thu, 25 Jun 2009 20:37:28 GMT

p.s. My husband does not understand my feelings at all. To the contrary-he has

asked me to not talk about Adam anymore. Wow-I feel as a young child does being

chided by a parent. What a lost oportunity for him which makes me very sad.

His idea of a good time has become watching FOX News. What a surprise, seriously!

My spouse was not anything like that when we married. He was not a conservative.

Sadly, he is too anti-gay to appreciate Adam's talent. He even said he probably

wouldn't have bought Queen and Elton John if he'd known the "truth". At least

he's consistent.

Actually, I joke to cope. What does one recently retired cougar do when she

realizes such a chasm exists in her relationship.....

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Leeskerette — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 08:21:54 GMT

To live and learn: Your comments break my heart. I'm sure the "chasm" has been evident to you for a while, but something like the interest/obsession so many of us have for Adam makes us even more keenly aware of differences between us and others. And the words I just typed remind me that this is a phenomenon I never would have thought could occur at all, let alone to so many! Maybe I'm a Pollyanna, but, rather than seeing it as filling a gap in our lives, I perceive it as an astute appreciation for a person who embodies so many positive qualities, and -as a result- makes US feel like better people! What better preoccupation can we have than one that makes us feel great, encourages us to communicate with others, and infuses us with a youthful spirit?

My husband loved Adam's performances on AI, but draws the line at seeing a concert of his in the future, fearing the dreaded teeny-bopper presence. He, too has been perplexed by my "involvement" - but then for my b'day surprised me with an "I ♥ Adam" tee shirt! I've gotten a bit braver, and have declared, "Yes, I've downloaded the entire catalog of Adam's music, and yes, I bought Rolling Stone - I'm not hurting anybody else, and I'm having a ball!" I'm hardly deprived and/or lonely - I've lived in 4 countries, have traveled extensively, have a wonderful family, work part-time at a job I love, but don't need, and have a creative outlet that is my passion. My life is very full.

Actually, I loved BOTH your posts. Your first one really touched me, even though it was eerily similar to what's been expressed by so many other women. You just said it so well - especially in the last two paragraphs. (And, can you even believe how so many of us "see ourselves" in each other's words and sentiments?!? It's uncanny. It's a phenomenon if I've ever seen one.)

It's your second post that's the heart-breaker. I can't imagine being married to someone who didn't share my core beliefs, and couldn't open his heart and mind to a "generous" life philosophy. I feel deeply for you. Your words reveal so much, including an awareness and a strength that have been awakened in you. I think these special feelings in us are a gift with a purpose. I hope you find your purpose in all of this.

(I've posted this before, but: If you cut & paste onto email or Word a section of the posts at a time, you will be able to read entire posts, without losing the text on the right hand side.)

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

rurallivign — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 09:21:11 GMT

Ladies: I like to check back here from time to time to read the new comments. Also, I am having a little bit of post-American Idol "Adam withdrawal." Thank God for all the magazines and tv show appearances. I spend entirely too much time thinking about this boy!

I imagine Adam as someone out of something like "A Midsummer Night's Dream" (with Kevin Klein and Michelle Pfeiffer). This beautiful angel/falling star/dream child has come to renew our belief in dreams, magic, and sprinkle his glitter stardust all around.

I can't wait until the concert. Until then I have videos, magazines, taped interviews . . .

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

vickilois — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 01:50:17 GMT

Hi, everyone! I, too, check in from time to time to see if there are new posts. I took someone's advice and moved all 450+ comments to a Word document, as I wanted to read every word of what my Adam-loving supporters have to say (and it IS easy to just delete those annoying naysayers!) I LOVE the www.adamofficial.com site. You can follow all the latest. Now, with the untimely and very sad death of Michael Jackson, I think the top 13 2009 Idols are going to do a tribute to Michael sometime this coming week, I think on FOX network. I hope this pulls the whole group together. I think Adam will probably sing Black and White, and maybe something else.

In a month I will be in the same building with Adam, at the tour. I cannot wait! You all take care, and I am glad the site is still alive. Hey, Joan Redmond, how about a followup article, after reviewing all these cougar blogs???

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

AdamTouchesMySoul — Tue, 30 Jun 2009 20:48:39 GMT

Again, ToTheRight ( since I have addressed you a few times already :).....

This is like your 5th or 6th negative post. Why? Do not understand why you are

spending SO much negative time on this site - oh, yeah - you said you have

a thing for "old broads" (sarcastic ha!)

We just want to show Adam some happy & "experienced" love and positive

energy so you can just leave with your negativism..........

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Anne Hedonia — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 12:57:22 GMT

Looks like I'll be a little off topic now, in the wake of M.J.'s death. All I have to say is that I hope that Adam, or anyone who attains mega-celebrity can avoid such a fate...

A friend relayed this article a while back, and I found it to be very insightful.

Then, I bought the issue of "Rolling Stone" with Lambert on the cover. Here's my own "creative effort":

Ode to the Cover: Issue 1081

(by A Woman of a Certain Age)

Buy a copy. No, buy three,

One for me... and one for me,

And one for fellow lady frien'

Who might not get to B & N

Before the final one is gone

(Shortly after break of dawn).

He's got the voice that makes our hearts

Race with lust, tho' we're old farts.

Golden pipe'd and glittered eye,

Chiseled features, pythoned thigh,

Who'd think that hot could be so sweet?

...rather knocks us off our feet.

Merchandisers, use your heads;

Make life-size prints to hang by beds,

And then, thou beauteous, Glamboy Rage,

Thither come, step off the page.

....................................

OK, and so here's what I want to transpire: R.S. publishes my verse in letters to the editor. Adam reads it, falls in love with me, changes his sexual preference, while also becoming a chubby chaser and a guy with a fetish for older women. He moves to my small Midwestern town and we live happily ever after.

Gotta have a sense of humor about this stuff!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

iamisabella — Wed, 01 Jul 2009 21:38:23 GMT

ToTheRight: Oh brother. Lighten up. Anne's not trying to "cure" anyone; don't take this whole thing so seriously.

Anne: I like your creative effort. One can only fantasize, but yes, that's my fantasy too!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

creatura — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 02:44:06 GMT

Anne, really liked your poem! so glad you shared it. For the last year I have been working on a character, one I wrote, or am writing ,in an acting workshop and I know this sounds..well odd, but there were aspects of this character that I recognized in Adam. I mean some of the stances he'd take in a few of his performances were...It is hard to describe, as I was performing this character in front of the workshop aucience, This kind of power came from within and it was telling me what to do and it was very dramatic and intense and sure of it self, but in a funny way, I write comedies. This character is also shocking and outrageous, well to uptown people, which most of my fellow actors are. A Down town artist wouldn't have batted an eye. I have never quite worked this way before, but the calling was so strong and so much fun, and then seeing Adam perform ,,,and besides just adoring him and thinking he is so sexy and brilliant and gorgeous, and feeling 12 years old , I understood internally how he was doing what he was doing. I don't mean all of it, just some parts.

It is wonderful to have been creatively working on something and then see some one else on a similar wave length. God it is so much fun strut on stage and have a good reason to play everything over the top! I am now so much more in love with this character, it is not finished yet and will be part of a one woman show, which has cutting edge characters or situations. Because of Adam I have a lot more confidence in what I am doing! A freind who saw me perform this character thinks I should put it on YouTube and maybe I will! Thanks Again Adam!!!! can't wait to see what he comes up with next! MY dream is to work with him creatively, the idea of writing a script for him and or directing him and God I certainly would love to act with him, oh it all feels so damn good. Thanks to all of you who wrote such moving, fun loving, exciting, thrilling words related to your lives and Adam, it has so inspired me. Oh, and I only write plays which come from my imagination, I never use anyone elses life or words.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

AdamTouchesMySoul — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 14:49:41 GMT

For Creatura: Thanks for sharing your story of how Adam has inspired you -

I hope that you do get to work with him in the future. I too have been

inspired by Adam - my creative side has definitely been reawakened since

"experiencing" him.

For ToTheRight: It seems apparent that your life might be void of any

meaning or happiness, since you spend an inordinate amount of time

disparaging the joy of others - so sorry about this. But the good news is that

it also seems like you might actually be obsessed with Adam and your

comments belie your true feelings - why else would you still be posting on

this site dedicated to Adam after ao many weeks. Just give into your feelings

and then you will find happiness.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

iamisabella — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 17:49:56 GMT

ToTheRight: I'll give it a shot, but I can only speak for myself.

I am a healthy straight woman with a long-term partner and 10 year old child. As you know, after a while, things can get dull in the bedroom with the same partner. Adam provides an outlet for fantasy; the fact that he is gay does not matter (although he is the only gay man I find sexy). I'm not bored; I have a fairly demanding job and I'm a mother, but I do find my obsession is a bit much at times and I'm wondering how much longer my partner will put up with it. I have an Adam t-shirt, and Adam is on my computer screensaver and wallpaper; the poor guy has to see Adam everywhere! He's a good sport, but he drew the line at my hanging an Adam drawing on the wall in our house.

I don't think I'm unfulfilled, but Adam also reminds me of my more youthful days in the 1980's when I would hang out on the Sunset Strip and check out all the hot rocker dudes. So, it just might be a yearning for my youth too. As with all my obsessions, this one will eventually go away, but I am still looking forward to seeing Adam in concert this month. Oh, and the fact that Adam seems to have a good personality (laid back, not uptight, and in a free-love type of way) and a killer voice doesn't hurt either!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

CougarsForAdam — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:30:32 GMT

ToTheRight: Did you read the article? I quote, "We were once slam-dancing to the beat of The Clash and The Sex Pistols. We weren't the girls who liked The Eagles, we liked The Buzzcocks. But today, our lives are dictated by the confines of appropriateness. So maybe we just want to be like Lambert; hey, even his wardrobe is better than mine.

...our connection with Lambert may be the wake-up call we need to be more playful, to have more fun and yes, to try to become a little more brave and confident. "There's something very wonderful about someone who can say, 'Accept me or don't accept me,'" Maltz says. "We tend to lose that as we get older."

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

CougarsForAdam — Thu, 02 Jul 2009 20:37:49 GMT

ToThe Right: I was too young to experience the Elvis rage or even the Beatles... but I now understand what the fans were feeling cuz it's just like that now with us Adam fans. It's exciting and harmless fun, and reminds us there's still that youthful Rocker chick inside us yearning to Rock on!

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Leeskerette — Fri, 03 Jul 2009 09:07:02 GMT

Sarah, I believe you've created a little corner of heaven here, where many of us are drawn back to this "place" to reconnect with others who share what we might not be comfortable sharing with those close to us. I think it's on this massive list of comments (somewhere!) that someone asked where we could go to "continue the discussion." So far, some of us simply return here, in addition to participating in other discussions.

The cool thing about this one is that, for the most part, those taking part are intelligent, mature women. We've already been through our crazy, adolescent music crushes ... and now find ourselves enchanted by a charismatic, talented young man, whose appeal transcends sexual orientation (his), and apparently age (ours). And we're able to express our feelings from the point of view of women who have experienced life in its many stages and complexities.

As far as the "interlopers" who have shown up here, I suggest they just be ignored. I suspect they get off by "sparring" with us, while adding nothing to the discussion. Please don't give them the attention they crave. (And I don't for a minute think the "nice, grateful" post by the latest of these means a change in attitude; I think it's meant to lull us into a sense that he can play nice ~ but he'll be back to baiting us for his own excitement.)

I wish we COULD have a forum to return to from time to time, but I wouldn't go near it if it were called "Cougars for Glambert!" I don't like the word or the connotation. Anyway, it was good to check in ... Happy listening to, looking at and appreciating the treasure that is Adam Lambert.

re: Why Cougars Crave "Idol" Runner-Up Adam Lambert

Leeskerette — Sat, 04 Jul 2009 08:46:14 GMT

Sorry, that should have been addressed to Joan, who wrote this particular blog ...