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Posted Tuesday, November 17, 2009 1:25 PM

Brooke Magnanti's Surprisingly Logical Call Girl Confession: That's DR. Belle Du Jour To You

Raina Kelley

Unless you’ve been in solitary confinement, you’re aware of the fact that Belle de Jour, blogger, former prostitute, and head of the Diary of a London Call Girl publishing empire has revealed herself to be Dr. Brooke Magnanti, research scientist at the Bristol Initiative for Research of Child Health.

When she’s not blogging about her past sexploits, she using her Ph.D. in informatics, epidemiology, and forensic science to research the effects of pesticides on children.  How’s that for an unexpected spin on the whore-with-the-heart-of-gold theme?  I’m kinda jealous of her, I have to admit.  Magnanti is like a year of feminist studies rolled into one.  I would have loved to be the first credible candidate for one of feminism’s holy grails:  the empowered sex worker—able to expose herself to patriarchal fantasies of male domination without becoming damaged goods. 

We may have to add her to our pantheon of saints right up there with Susan Faludi and Katha Pollitt. I don’t think I’ve ever heard a more level-headed and reasonable explanation for becoming a call-girl than this one by Magnanti:

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“I couldn’t find a professional job in my chosen field because I didn’t have my Ph.D. yet. I didn’t have a lot of spare time on my hands because I was still making corrections and preparing for the viva; and I got through my savings a lot faster than I thought I would. … What can I do that I can start doing straightaway, that doesn’t require a great deal of training or investment to get started, that’s cash in hand and that leaves me spare time to do my work in?”


Is this woman a scientist or what?  Now before you go all ballistic and chastise either myself or Dr. Magnanti for our lack of moral fiber, let me add two things:  working as an escort is not illegal in the United Kingdom.  Yup, prostitution is above board in England—it’s the activities that make sex work a nasty dangerous enterprise that are illegal—no streetwalking, no pimps, no brothels.  Secondly, the idea that prostitution is the only commodified form of erotic activity is crazy.  Consider the Sports Illustrated swimsuit edition for a moment—$6.99 and all you get is the illusion of female sexuality.  Magnanti may well be the rare woman who can, as Gloria Steinem put it to Vermont Woman, “experience sexuality as power.…It’s not sexuality that’s the problem, it’s whose sexuality and why?”  That’s also why I can love Belle de Jour and still condemn human trafficking, the prostitution of children, and pimping without appearing hypocritical or naive.

And lest you think I dodged the whole morality question, let me answer in more detail by punting to a smarter mind.  In Feminist Issues in Prostitution, Sarah Bromberg asserts that our stern disapproval of call girls stems “from an underlying assumption in conventional morality that involvement in prostitution will “necessarily” have degenerative effects on a person leading her to other criminal activities.…Prostitution is not a profound condition of degeneracy and in many instances it may be a self-regarding expression of a person surviving in the best way given their skills and opportunities.”  Take that, you Puritans!

So, I’m a big fan of Dr. Magnanti now; I might even buy her new book, Belle de Jour’s Guide to Men. I have a feeling her point of view might be more interesting than the play-hard-to-get, treat-men-like-untrainable-dogs claptrap we women usually get. [As it turns out, the start of chapter one hits the "men are like untrainable dogs" metaphor pretty hard. I guess some stereotypes are hard to break, even if you're a pioneering scientist/call girl.]

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Posted By: Mae_n (November 24, 2009 at 9:46 PM)

Just to clarify my last post:  I'm not just talking about human trafficking.  I'm talking about non-prostitutes being propositioned because they are walking in a prostitution zone, and even though the would-be-johns are told very clearly they are asking the wrong woman, keep haggling with her.  Or being told "you would sell It eventually, it's just a matter of how poor you get" or being approached by pimps to be new employees, or catcalled outside strip clubs.  You can say "men will be that way anyway" but really, why make it that much harder to be a woman on this earth by supporting the mentality that women are for rent? (yes I'm aware of the stats of male sex workers out there, but they are overwhelmingly female.) This "empowerment" may have gotten Belle de Jour a PhD, but it was at the cost of all women's well-being.


Posted By: Mae_n (November 24, 2009 at 9:36 PM)

"And lest you think I dodged the whole morality question, let me answer in more detail by punting to a smarter mind.  In Feminist Issues in Prostitution, Sarah Bromberg asserts that our stern disapproval of call girls stems “from an underlying assumption in conventional morality that involvement in prostitution will “necessarily” have degenerative effects on a person leading her to other criminal activities.…"

I'm really glad you are stoked about how this sex worker  totally rawks,  fighting all the prudes and moralising grandstanders with her Kryptonite garters or whathaveyou . But you may want to consider that those that oppose sex work do so for reasons that have nothing to do with morality.  Consider that Ms. Du Jour , as with all female sex workers,is not only selling her body. She is selling and supporting the whole women's-bodies-as-commodities idea, and while that is her choice, you cannot fault women for resenting being caught up in that choice.  Many women want NO part of prostitution. But they are collateral casualties of it-- and they aren't even getting paid for it.  If sex workers were the only ones reaping the not-so-nice results of their choice, fine, I would have no problem with it. But if they think their choice is not hurting anyone else, they are ignorant. Maybe willfully so. So, you can pump your fist all you want at this kind of "empowerment." See how empowering it is though when you look at the ideology that drives sex work:  vaginas are commodities. Any vagina can potentially be bought. Even if you say yours isn't for sale.


Posted By: anon2009 (November 22, 2009 at 10:43 AM)

Hi,

just thought this will be an alternative view

http://www.examiner.com/examiner/x-24740-Norfolk-Human-Rights-Examiner~y2009m11d19-The-sexy-and-flirty-life-of-high-class-prostitute-the-truth-is-not-that-sexy